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how hard is it to meet someone on here .
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By *rmagiteMan
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
1)Remove the cock pics... you need to be seen..maybe a body pic and put your cock pics into the friends only section.
2)Clean up your writing.. it's a complete stranger that see's your page so impress them.
3)Remove this~~~~ n please no time wasters or fakes .site is full of them.
No one like the idea of canceling but it happens (sometimes 2 or 3 time before you meet someone.)
But putting the site is full of them puts people off who might consider a meet.
i hope this helps... |
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"1)Remove the cock pics... you need to be seen..maybe a body pic and put your cock pics into the friends only section.
2)Clean up your writing.. it's a complete stranger that see's your page so impress them.
3)Remove this~~~~ n please no time wasters or fakes .site is full of them.
No one like the idea of canceling but it happens (sometimes 2 or 3 time before you meet someone.)
But putting the site is full of them puts people off who might consider a meet.
i hope this helps... "
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
south east |
"5 months no veris ? Mmm plenty of socials / Cjs think there's a bell ringing there just my opinion "
I have been on this scene for 12 yrs and never been to cj's 
Maybe look at your approach and how you talk to women ..do you believe they are all here to shag you (cause they are all desperate ) or do you treat them with respect ...then use your profile to sell yourself  |
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Keep on trying. Change wee bits of your profile keep it fresh. If you message anyone keep the first few pressure free. Do you want to .... And are you free tonight type ones are bad form.
I never been to any events cj etc and do ok sometimes.
Try asking to meet for a coffee Nsa no preasure. Message people asking them to check you out not what you want to do.
Maybe a change on tact could get your luck in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely we all use the pics that we think show us at our best, to show ourselves off, do you think your pictures are your best to sell you?? If that's the case, good luck.  |
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By *44bertCouple
over a year ago
Inverness |
"OP, you were back on here 4 hours ago, 10 hours after you started this thread. You ask for advice, are given it particularly re your profile.
But it's still as it was, says it all really!  "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bn looking too meet up with female on here for mearly a year and not one reply. What does it take "
If u are not meeting anyone by messaging , all I can advice is going to a few socials and meeting people face to face and see if u click with anyone that way , also great day/night out with loads of great friends even if u don't pull. X  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP, you were back on here 4 hours ago, 10 hours after you started this thread. You ask for advice, are given it particularly re your profile.
But it's still as it was, says it all really! "
Jeez, give the guy a break will you? Maybe he logged on through his phone at work and doesn't have time to craft a considered new profile!
We don't all have time to spend ages on here each visit! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have changed my profile .reason not on was i was up at 4 am for work "
I didn't see it before...but now you have a pic that breaks the rules, an illiterate update and the immaculate phrase " not getting the excitement I need"...must have been bad. My advice, for what its worth...rip the whole thing up and start again. |
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"I have changed my profile .reason not on was i was up at 4 am for work
I didn't see it before...but now you have a pic that breaks the rules, an illiterate update and the immaculate phrase " not getting the excitement I need"...must have been bad. My advice, for what its worth...rip the whole thing up and start again. "
I have to agree  |
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Your profile is there to entice people to want to meet you....when competing with thousands of others your profiles got to stand out ....3 lines and 3 pics ( one of which isn't you) doesn't cut it....be imaginative, use humour , bring your personality out.
Try socials there's plenty going, drinks nights, lunches etc....plenty people to speak to and start a few friendships etc yes it's nerve wracking but if ya really wanna make the effort and join in the swinging lark it may be a great starter for you.
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"Your profile is there to entice people to want to meet you....when competing with thousands of others your profiles got to stand out ....3 lines and 3 pics ( one of which isn't you) doesn't cut it....be imaginative, use humour , bring your personality out.
Try socials there's plenty going, drinks nights, lunches etc....plenty people to speak to and start a few friendships etc yes it's nerve wracking but if ya really wanna make the effort and join in the swinging lark it may be a great starter for you.
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Also dont just show cock as some want to see more than that....there's plenty pic apps and google images to help ya. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our point of view hairy sack'cock pick defo a huge put of with us.
we dont take heed to one liners we like effort not hi or do you fancy a shag.
Read peoples profile and respect there wishes or you wont get anywhere its that simple.. good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have changed my profile .reason not on was i was up at 4 am for work "
Punctuation, for a lot of women, does wonders for a man's attractiveness.
Also, act on the advice about changing your pics. Good luck! |
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