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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Is it normal to arrange a meeting then get let down by person,,,

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

No

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is it normal to arrange a meeting then get let down by person,,, "

Nope, that never ever ever happens on here.... Kidding, yes, it's a multi daily occurrence.

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

if it does become the norm for you, you may need to re_iew how you are selecting your meets. The common denominator will be you

hope it improves

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Nice advice from a hidden profile

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wouldn't say it is normal but yes it does happen for various reasons

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn


"Nice advice from a hidden profile"

thank you

not sure the status of my profile matters, I gave an answer.

if you don't like it, move to the next one

but good luck all the same

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By *adybee77Woman  over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Its not unheard of, but I would look at your selection criteria - did you do all you could to ensure they were genuine?

In 3.5 years on here, I have never been stood up, and nor have I stood anyone else up.

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By *ustcutieWoman  over a year ago

edinburgh

It happens but no it's not normal, I've not been let down in all my years on here

As has been said if it keeps happening to you then maybe look at your own selection process..... I could say more but since my profile is hidden my advice must be worthless

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Always going to happen unfortunately I have been let down a couple of times but the majority usually show up

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By *ola cubesMan  over a year ago

coatbridge

Damn it will hide mine then folk can say talks s**t with proof of it

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By *thwalescplCouple  over a year ago

brecon


"Nice advice from a hidden profile"

Wow!

So someone gives great advice, and because they point out that it might be possible that you may have made a mistake, you have a pop?

I think someone may have dodged a bullet on this one!

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By *UNKIEMan  over a year ago

south east


"if it does become the norm for you, you may need to re_iew how you are selecting your meets. The common denominator will be you

hope it improves"

this ....from a non hidden profile

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By *ndykayMan  over a year ago

Falkirk


"if it does become the norm for you, you may need to re_iew how you are selecting your meets. The common denominator will be you

hope it improves"

View may be hidden at the moment but he is right I'm afraid. Take the advice, it's good and from someone who's been here a while

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By *ockster69Man  over a year ago

Leven

Havin just had a look I aint surprised!!!! XXX

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By *ockster69Man  over a year ago

Leven


"Its not unheard of, but I would look at your selection criteria - did you do all you could to ensure they were genuine?

In 3.5 years on here, I have never been stood up, and nor have I stood anyone else up."

Havin just had a peek at you Im not surprised you've never been stood up!!! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Its not unheard of, but I would look at your selection criteria - did you do all you could to ensure they were genuine?

In 3.5 years on here, I have never been stood up, and nor have I stood anyone else up.

Havin just had a peek at you Im not surprised you've never been stood up!!! X"

strange because you don't show up on my just looked page hhhmmmmm

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By *unknSoulCouple  over a year ago

dumfries-ish

Agree with what people have said but the pack mentallity is rearing its head

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By *ifes journeyCouple  over a year ago

scotland


"Is it normal to arrange a meeting then get let down by person,,, "

Perhaps look at your methods of how you go about meeting and selecting people to meet....there's plenty ways to stop time wasters such as phone calls, webcam chat etc....

Also your attitude may play a part in all this

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By *ifes journeyCouple  over a year ago

scotland


"Its not unheard of, but I would look at your selection criteria - did you do all you could to ensure they were genuine?

In 3.5 years on here, I have never been stood up, and nor have I stood anyone else up.

Havin just had a peek at you Im not surprised you've never been stood up!!! X strange because you don't show up on my just looked page hhhmmmmm"

Many people don't show up in looked at me page as they have chosen the part in privacy section where they can _iew without being seen _iewing.....most of the site in fact go for this option.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Theres been 3 posts today about people not turning up to meets. It's shit because there are loads of guys that do meet And it spoils it for us.

Check veri's, speak to them on the phone and maybe meet socially first is the only advice I can offer. Oh and people read what others have wrote on the forum before meeting because is a good indicator of their attitude.

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By *wiftieeMan  over a year ago

near Glasgow


" Havin just had a peek at you Im not surprised you've never been stood up!!! X strange because you don't show up on my just looked page hhhmmmmm"

If I looked at your profile, you wouldn't know either. Seems you need to learn a bit more about the Fab system.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have had 2 women cancel on me and the get blocked by one of them but as they say is life

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All the time...

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By *adybee77Woman  over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Its not unheard of, but I would look at your selection criteria - did you do all you could to ensure they were genuine?

In 3.5 years on here, I have never been stood up, and nor have I stood anyone else up.

Havin just had a peek at you Im not surprised you've never been stood up!!! X"

Aw thanks Do get a lot of my first messages deleted tho, so its not all easy on here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Normal, no but unfortunately its happening more and more on this wonderful world of fab. Take the advise offered and perhaps learn to chill more

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