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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi,
Been on and off of fab for a few years and only ever had 1 real meet. However, it was with a couple we happened to know through work so wasn't with total random strangers 
Anyway, the point is, the reason that situation happened was my first week at work I got talking to a fella that seemed pretty cool and somehow different. What I noticed was that we both kinda seemed to somehow end up talking about our partners and making wee comments like "you shoud meet her, you and your partner would like her" & "we should all meet up". As you guessed, we did meet at a party and continued that party to bed (put it in the story section a while back).
Which brings me to my point, from the day we met, we seemed to know that eachother were into or atleast a interested in swinging.
A few months ago, I went to a party and almost instantly me and my wife attracted the attention of another couple who after a few drinks asked us if we wanted to go back to theirs for a few drinks. We said yes but for some reason didn't, though, again the couple had been flirting all night and making nice comments
So, do you think that couples like (us) somehow know from some 6th sense other couples who are into experimenting?
The reason I asked the couple we have experiements do and played with are a couple no more and we have never took the leap into online meets, would prefer it to be natural. So interested in either this sixth sense of swingers works for other people? Is there signals people give off? Or just coincidence
Anyway, we (my wife and I) are our for drinks tomorrow for the first time in a while due family / work, so hoping to look for these signals
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting topic. Not sure to be honest, but with hindsight, we now think that some couples we have met have been swingers. There was one couple who flirted with us like mad, we didn't swing then, and looking back it was so obvious.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hahah
Yes - there have been a few instances where I think we have been groomed and people/couples
It's strange as we do think there is a vibe that couples into swinging give off.
It would be nice to have some situations develop natural as Internet meets scare us :/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think with some couples there is a more open approach to their sexuality and they may 'test the waters' with the odd comment here and there if they fancy other folks but I don't think you can tell purely by looking at someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I worked the doors for years and would watch behaviour patterns of various people during a night out.
There were a number of couples I've come across in that time who were very flirtatious with others to the point they were grooming.
One couple in particular used to come into a pub I was Head Doorman and I watched them every Saturday night for 3 months. Definite groomers, I approached the guy one night and we had an interesting conversation which he thought their cover was blown and I would have them barred for using through this way
As a Bull I ended up in a 6 month long cuckolding relationship with them, that we worked around their own practices
So to answer the OP
Yes there can be a small vibe you give off, however it is only picked up by others playing the same game |
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