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I've had male friends say once your over 50 no one wants to swing with you.
Just wonder if others think the same?.
Im 51 this year and don't have any problems with guys wishing to meet me.
Just wonder what other pepoles opinions were?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As long as the person still feels sexy and enjoys swinging cant see why there should be a age limit on it go on as long as you want will always be someone wanting to meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 55 and it's never been an issue for me.
I only started when I was 52 and have had more fun in my 50s than at any other age.
As long as I still enjoy the lifestyle I'll carry on regardless of age  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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for my personal opinion age is just a number.. The most important is attitude and friendly temperament. ..obviously for women is much easier to find great fun at any age. and I'm more attractive about mature women then younger. . |
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As said above its not really a womans problem hell half the site would fuck a tramps flip flop as long as it was female for guys yeah it probably is a problem females hold the balance of sway hereand until most men stop being lapdogs and get some self worth it will always be that way |
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I don't understand why when a guy reaches 50 women don't want to meet them because from other posts I've saw many women young and older saying the like older guys.
My own preference is for silver foxes but wouldn't say no to younger guys too  |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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"I don't understand why when a guy reaches 50 women don't want to meet them because from other posts I've saw many women young and older saying the like older guys.
My own preference is for silver foxes but wouldn't say no to younger guys too "
According to BBC World Service, younger guys are dying their hair grey cos so many ladies find it attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yeah couple or single fem there profile says 18-99 send them a message if you are over 50 and no reply not even a sorry no thanks,its def not a female problem just a guy one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being extremely honest I find more mature women very attractive, always have x I think their attitude and mature outlook can be more sensual than sleazy x as a single male yes the site can be difficult as younger women seem to have a list of requests. There's less of the diva attitude also xx |
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I meet over 50s .But still very much depends on the individual . Age in some cases still doesn't bring manners and maturity . Had some of the biggest temper tantrums from older guys when I refuse to send a pic or do what they demand when they want. Maybe that's their issue getting meets and easier to blame age .Again I must stress this is only SOME. Others have charm, respect and that certain glint in their eyes I can't resist! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is somewhat a level of frustration for me as I see many profiles where the age restriction is set at 49. What happens to us guys after 50 do we all of a sudden deteriorate in to a bunch of undesirables, overweight, bald, no teeth, loss of sight and hearing etc etc. I don't think so! I for one keep myself fit and manage my weight I have even managed to keep my hair although I keep it short. I have met some fab ladies on here both older and younger and one thing I have learned is not to be too judgemental. You can still be Nifty at 50, 50 is the New 40 and so on
Rant over and I look forward to meeting many more Fab people above and below 50. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree when its a year out what difference does that actually make
I love older females and like miss dynamite would not say no to a slightly younger female |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's very difficult for a 'senior' guy to get a meet, or even send a message. I notice that even missnaughty has an age limit - hope she changes it as she matures and experiences the charm of old codger sex - the uncertainty of when we are going to snuff it! |
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I agree if you look at majority of stated preferences most say younger than 50 - as many have said on here it's basic market economics - there are loads of young single (or not) guys on here so unless a woman particularly finds younger men shallow they can be prescriptive about older aged gentlemen.
Apparently if you survive long enough though older men are in demand because most partners/husbands have died before their wives/lady partners! There's some hope for me then! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Simple maths guys
25 goes into 50 more times than 50 goes into 25
On a more serious note.
Vast majority of young women see old as being over 35 so if your looking for a female in the under 35 age bracket and your older forget it.
However as women over 35 like to be seen as cougars and idolised by young Adonis then what the hell chance does the older gent have
Unless you have the money of Clooney, Pitt, Farrell etc and can afford gym fees, cosmetic surgery etc or have found the fountain of youth then face the truth
You are a small fish in a large pond of what has gone before.
Look in the mirror and be honest with yourself. If I was a woman would I sleep with this or the 30yr old hunk that programmes my treadmill at the gym
No brainer
So back to Jacs original post. The over 35 yr old male has serious problems on here the over 40 is in trouble and the over 50 has booked his bed in the nursing home looking forward to a bed bath in the morning
Women of all ages will find what they want on here, they hold the aces and let's face it men are Neanderthals many will shag anything as long as it's female
My tuppenceworth |
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"Simple maths guys
25 goes into 50 more times than 50 goes into 25
On a more serious note.
Vast majority of young women see old as being over 35 so if your looking for a female in the under 35 age bracket and your older forget it.
However as women over 35 like to be seen as cougars and idolised by young Adonis then what the hell chance does the older gent have
Unless you have the money of Clooney, Pitt, Farrell etc and can afford gym fees, cosmetic surgery etc or have found the fountain of youth then face the truth
You are a small fish in a large pond of what has gone before.
Look in the mirror and be honest with yourself. If I was a woman would I sleep with this or the 30yr old hunk that programmes my treadmill at the gym
No brainer
So back to Jacs original post. The over 35 yr old male has serious problems on here the over 40 is in trouble and the over 50 has booked his bed in the nursing home looking forward to a bed bath in the morning
Women of all ages will find what they want on here, they hold the aces and let's face it men are Neanderthals many will shag anything as long as it's female
My tuppenceworth"
well over 40's step this way lol.
I've only ever had fun with one guy in his 30 but he is the very exception to my rules |
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We're both over 50 (shocking I know) and have put on a few meet requests on recently looking for social with potential for fun meet with couples within our profiles age preference and have had....
zilch replies, nowt ,nothing....zero. lol lol
Maybe we're just having an unlucky streak or our profile scares or maybe bores others looking for a wham ,bham ty mamm lifestyle, which just isn't what we want.
Maybe its just a sign of the times.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had male friends say once your over 50 no one wants to swing with you.
Just wonder if others think the same?.
Im 51 this year and don't have any problems with guys wishing to meet me.
Just wonder what other pepoles opinions were? "
Blimey, hope not, heading towards that lol, age is just a number
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can't have it all you moaning bunch of old foggies! You've got SAGA tours and a free Parker pen with your funeral insurance. You want sex as well?????  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women have no problems on here getting messages or meets whatever age, looks, size or personality they are.
Most guys on here would f*ck a hole in a road given half the chance and that's a sad fact. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women have no problems on here getting messages or meets whatever age, looks, size or personality they are.
Most guys on here would f*ck a hole in a road given half the chance and that's a sad fact."
well, this almost 59 year old 'hole in the road' is choosey who she lets fuck her  |
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"Women have no problems on here getting messages or meets whatever age, looks, size or personality they are.
Most guys on here would f*ck a hole in a road given half the chance and that's a sad fact."
This is true of many men on here but isn't it a good job that most women on here have some standards and wouldn't just fuck anyone  |
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"You can't have it all you moaning bunch of old foggies! You've got SAGA tours and a free Parker pen with your funeral insurance. You want sex as well????? "
Nah but sharing a nice cup of tea together - wow better than sex! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Old what is old. Am 53. I look younger and go longer than a 20 something, plus I know how to give pleasure. That's the problem with youth it's wasted on the young. But then am 53 years young and have a good life. Lots of life to go yet. So happy swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think there's a lot to be said for experience and fewer inhibitions that tends to come with it. Also the desire to give pleasure and satisfaction becomes more important than to take it. |
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By *olmeyMan
over a year ago
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As a fit & healthy 57 year old guy with his own teeth, (well most of them), hair still thick and down my back and a body that's not gone to pot yet, (12 stone, 5'10" & kept in trim by 3 gym sessions a week and the odd half marathon), I find it easier to meet women out on the town than on here as too many seem to judge a person on the number their age represents, not as the person they are, something that the amount of women and couples on here that block guys over 50 shows well.
So? Why am I on here if it's easier pick women up out on the town?
Well, I know here isn't exactly POF, but ideally I'd like to find a relationship on here, a relationship with a sexy woman of around my age who has similar open views to sex as me, somebody not only to share nights out, meals, weekends away and holidays with, but somebody who's also happy to share our sexual pleasure with other too, with that not exactly being a subject you can even bring up next morning when your and your last nights pick up wake up.
At least on here you are in with a fighting chance.
So, if any sexy ladies on here are looking for a bloke they can share sex and more with, feel free to PM me, I don't bite, (unless asked) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I will be 50 this year and never had any problem, I fact I would say I'm inundated with offers from sexy guys .
Keep the offers coming U sexy guys age is just a number . ?? |
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By *imbo57Man
over a year ago
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"I will be 50 this year and never had any problem, I fact I would say I'm inundated with offers from sexy guys .
Keep the offers coming U sexy guys age is just a number . ?? "
as long as your under 54 |
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We're both over 50 now and never short of offers - even during the periods when family life takes over and we say we're not playing lol. Our playmates/friends range from a 30 something wee hottie to a lady in her 60s and the fun is great at both ends of that spectrum. S&Mx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ot seems of your under the age of 30 its a stuggle to meet anyone too people think you too immature the only ones that get it are the ones that have holister bodies and there probibly the immature ones :p |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That is so true, I hate most is when people be it guys,women or couples look at or profile, but block you before you even have a chance to say Thank you for showing interest !.
Really shame ,too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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50 is a fantastic time
Kids are up and away from home
Mortgage fully paid off as is dept
and ready to settle into a life of retirement with lovely pension
roll on 50, cant wait to get there |
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