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Messages being read but not deleted

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I had a couple complain to me recently about me emailing them a second time in a month.

As i explained to them it was due to the fact that the email was read but not deleted therefore i thought there was interested and just forgot to reply.

Most people that have no interest in some one will delete the mail after reading or even without.

Thats what i dio.

Am i just being silly or is my thinking correct.

Let the abuse begin lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont always delete read messages straight away after read or replied to them so if i was you id take a no reply as not intrested

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

I may read a message and then leave it for my man to read, or I want to discuss it with him. Usually if that's the case I try to then mark it as unread, so it will stand out for him to see.

Sometimes I forget though

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By *issBehavingxxWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

I think too many people get too hung up on the status of their sent mail...

Just delete it from the sent box as soon as you've sent it... Then you have no idea if it's unread, read or deleted. If you get a reply... Great!

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

The fact they did not answer your original mail..it didnt occur to you that maybe they werent interested ..seriously!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I take it as a "thanks but no thanks".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Take it as a no thanks I'd say

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By *andACouple over a year ago

glasgow

We never delete our mail, there's no need as it eventually drops out of your mailbox.

If you haven't had a reply then I'd take it that it's a 'no'.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sometimes I delete. Sometimes just open then let them drop off the page. Sometimes I bulk delete. What I'm saying is I'm inconsistent probably like others on here. If I was interested I'd reply.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We reply to most, if we don't it's because it's clear someone hasn't read the profile - like a bunch toady!

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By *oe bloggs69Man over a year ago

fife

Eh.....what's a message?????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Clear my folders every night. Like a nice tidy in box.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We generally rpky to messages, even a no thanks, but rarely delete messages. As has been said, no reply probably means no interest

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By *wiftieeMan over a year ago

near Glasgow

"I had a couple complain to me recently about me emailing them a second time in a month.

As i explained to them it was due to the fact that the email was read but not deleted therefore i thought there was interested and just forgot to reply.

Most people that have no interest in some one will delete the mail after reading or even without. "

OP, as a fellow male I'd agree with you. However, you have to remember that women and logic seldom go together!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Gets popcorn...

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