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Loads of vervications !!
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If they had loads and loads id prefer that to none, at least it shows theyll turn up....as long as their playing safe, yeah, why not...
If they had that many veris, id more than likely know a few people that had verified them, id ask them if the person wanted to bareback etc, if so i wouldnt meet.if not and i liked what i saw then id meet.... |
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over a year ago
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If its safe sex all the way then it shouldn't be an issue. Plus a lot of verifications come from socials.
I do look at the verification trail though and admit to being put off by certain connections. I guess that's just human nature though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If its safe sex all the way then it shouldn't be an issue. Plus a lot of verifications come from socials.
I do look at the verification trail though and admit to being put off by certain connections. I guess that's just human nature though. "
I agree... It's more the connections that would put me off  K x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actually finding the time for a meet is a huge logistic task for us. Work, kids, childminders etc.
Having gone to all the trouble & expense of freeing up an evening for a meet it is really infuriating if it falls through.
Rightly or wrongly we feel that someone with lots of verifications is likely to be more reliable than the one who has for instance only 1 webcam verification from years ago. |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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My god if everyone on here than knew me or met me at the vast amount of socials ive attended over the years verified me youd think i was some kind of sex god or tart lol far far from it in reality ...so no there is no such thing as too many ...again the judgmental police can go feck themselves if they think different  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I would be able to determine if they are social or play so if i am totally honest, it MAY. I would be more likely to avoid people because they associate with or have played with. That does not say anything negative about the person, they may very well be truly lovely people but I am careful to avoid people I link with drama, needyness or in a clique I would rather avoid.
That is a learned approach from years of being in the scene.
I respect others play differently and that is cool. |
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By *all saulMan
over a year ago
Dunbartonshire |
yeah veris can come from socials as said myself have been known to attend an odd social or drinks meet and get veris on the back of that
Likewise I took some time out came back and got veris from those who knew me before
in summary no veris don't put me off and I hope they don't put others off |
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"I would be able to determine if they are social or play so if i am totally honest, it MAY. I would be more likely to avoid people because they associate with or have played with. That does not say anything negative about the person, they may very well be truly lovely people but I am careful to avoid people I link with drama, needyness or in a clique I would rather avoid.
That is a learned approach from years of being in the scene.
I respect others play differently and that is cool."
Snap |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Verifications are the obsession on this site. None and you are a no hoper. Too many and you are a total sleazebag......
Everyone's got to start somewhere and getting that first one is the hardest part. After that I feel it is an over rated ratings system |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of our veris are from parties where like a social you get to meet lots of others in one go & play if you wish & had plenty of one one meets from meeting at a party. Have to say though people have been put off by us having a large list of veris.bring on Gran Caneria for some more veris |
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"Why is it so hard to start off on fabs if you are a new member x"
That's a complete different thread you are starting!!!
The original post, which is a year old was .... Would u meet or sleep with someone who had hundreds of verifications?...
And you are from London, posting on the Scottish forum.
So may be try starting a new thread of your own to ask people in 'your' area why it is difficult.
My advice anyway
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it so hard to start off on fabs if you are a new member x
That's a complete different thread you are starting!!!
The original post, which is a year old was .... Would u meet or sleep with someone who had hundreds of verifications?...
And you are from London, posting on the Scottish forum.
So may be try starting a new thread of your own to ask people in 'your' area why it is difficult.
My advice anyway
Good luck "
Hello max ma belle dame française. Bien dit et puis-je avoir un baiser énorme pour s'entendre avec house |
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I'd meet someone with loads, as at least you know they are likely to turn up.
Also some people get at lot from socials or clubs.
Not going to judge someone based on who and how many people they have met. Would rather judge them in person and see what they are like and if we click great if not oh well. Would still give them a veri to say that they are genuine and we met up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ditto, maybe I'm just a horny pest though lol.
I don't understand why verifications would effect someones influence on a meeting. Would a person what to know anothers sexual history before having sex? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would be able to determine if they are social or play so if i am totally honest, it MAY. I would be more likely to avoid people because they associate with or have played with. That does not say anything negative about the person, they may very well be truly lovely people but I am careful to avoid people I link with drama, needyness or in a clique I would rather avoid.
That is a learned approach from years of being in the scene.
I respect others play differently and that is cool."
Agreed |
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