My best friend in work is "separated" from his wife. Ive since discovered shes on here and meeting loads of folk. Thing is i know he has no idea and would be devestated. should i tell or keep quiet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's her private life to do what she wants to do. If they are separated then she can meet as many guys as she wants. I wouldn't say a thing. I would imagine it would upset or bother her ex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What is left to say? They are separated, she can do as she wishes. The exact same way that he can.
If they were still together well that is a different story altogether. |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"My best friend in work is "separated" from his wife. Ive since discovered shes on here and meeting loads of folk. Thing is i know he has no idea and would be devestated. should i tell or keep quiet"
would you like it if she noticed you on here and told the world what you were doing.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why would you even ask this? Like she's enjoying herself at her own discretion. Along with that one thing I've learned over the years is if shits flying you don't open your mouth, nothing tastes worse than a mouthful of crap. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its none of your business what she does. She is entitled to do whatever she wants, would you be happy if she told everyone that you have a profile on here as well !! |
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Go with your gut feeling and with your own morals ...only you know the exact circumstances and situation you and they are in....and only you know if it's worth telling or not. It's a very difficult situation to be in and certainly not one I wish to be in especially with a close friend.....it would depend on the circumstances of the separation what my decision would be.
Friendship vs swinging ethics is a hard call for many.
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Reading between the lines perhaps th op means "seperated" as in they are ment to be taking alone time to think but certainly not running around fabland whoring and touring "
Whoring and touring? Is that what you think women do on here or just the woman being talked about?  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"My best friend in work is "separated" from his wife. Ive since discovered shes on here and meeting loads of folk. Thing is i know he has no idea and would be devestated. should i tell or keep quiet"
It depends on their definition of seperated... with a _iew to getting back together or a _iew to a divorce.
I am still half and half as to whether I would tell or not unless you have both discussed in past conversations that he would rather know if anything like this happened.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We know a married guy on this site and would never even think about telling his wife. What happens in fab land stays in fab land."
if only everyone thot like you a reckon this would be a much more fun place to be lol
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"Reading between the lines perhaps th op means "seperated" as in they are ment to be taking alone time to think but certainly not running around fabland whoring and touring
Whoring and touring? Is that what you think women do on here or just the woman being talked about? "
just the female in question if the circumstances are as mentioned if truely seperated then it aint whoring and touring imo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You "discovered" this after just a week here OP? And....according to your profile you're returning to fab. So...you know what discretion on here is about presumably, but still have to ask. My nose is twitching...ive been here waaaay too long. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, you already know what YOU think is the correct answer as to what to do is. Posting this thread is merely seeking for others to reinforce your thoughts. Do what you think is right. Other people's opinion is nothing more than just that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do love these type of threads, people taking moral stands on others relationships and lifestyles/choices
Is this Fab or the General Assembly"
An opinion was asked for so we gave it |
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"I do love these type of threads, people taking moral stands on others relationships and lifestyles/choices
Is this Fab or the General Assembly"
how far are the "I dont judge" mob willing to take it a paedophile feels that their behaviour is ok or a naturist who refuses to wear clothes a thief but only to feed their family I already know the answer those are against the law ...... a man made law that judgemental people made perhaps some need to jump of the fence its ok to have an opinion and even to judge or we could just pretend we dont and tell tales behind folks backs |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Reading between the lines perhaps th op means "seperated" as in they are ment to be taking alone time to think but certainly not running around fabland whoring and touring
Whoring and touring? Is that what you think women do on here or just the woman being talked about? just the female in question if the circumstances are as mentioned if truely seperated then it aint whoring and touring imo"
Whoring is to prostitute yourself. |
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"You can't be a group if you are a single female. You could be a duo if you were two faced but thats about it  "
mearly pointing out that it is a phrase thats used here a night out with the lads ...... you off out whoring and touring just means you trying to get some |
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By *ugby 123Couple
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"You can't be a group if you are a single female. You could be a duo if you were two faced but thats about it mearly pointing out that it is a phrase thats used here a night out with the lads ...... you off out whoring and touring just means you trying to get some"
I know, I got that bit after you explained.
My last post wasn't serious, it amused me, but then I am easily amused |
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Sadly discretion is right out the window for some on here
