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over a year ago
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I definitely would. And I also tend not to even reply to those way out of my league. They'd never look twice at me on a night out etc so the fact they are here puts me off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope. If they don't reply they're clearly stuck up lesbians.
Thank god I replied to your begging message then  "
And I kept messaging despite your moustache and wonky eye. Beauty within  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I'm looking as a male half for a single meet there's at least one person I would like to ask but never do,ironic thing is I've met and done stuff with this person. |
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over a year ago
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"I doubt anybody on here is out of your league Fab fem 
well maybe me
kidding xxx"
Of course I think there are people out of my league I avoid and don't message them because I don't want a no thanks. I've had messages before telling me I'm not their type just the same as everyone else.
I especially avoid people that are always at the gym. I'm far from fit and don't want to show myself up.
Oh and by the way I'm way out your league |
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"Do you avoid messaging certain people because you think you have no chance? "
Yeah, sometimes. I don't think it's got anything to do with not feeling good about yourself, as I read on another thread recently. Someone else on here put it brilliantly, if you think you'd have no chance if you rocked up to them on a night out, it's possibly the same on here.
That's not to say they're bad people and it may be doing them an injustice but I think life experience gives you a bit of a feeling of who will and won't go for you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope. If they don't reply they're clearly stuck up lesbians.
Thank god I replied to your begging message then
And I kept messaging despite your moustache and wonky eye. Beauty within "
But you said you liked kissing people with mustaches  I grew it for you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you avoid messaging certain people because you think you have no chance?
Yeah, sometimes. I don't think it's got anything to do with not feeling good about yourself, as I read on another thread recently. Someone else on here put it brilliantly, if you think you'd have no chance if you rocked up to them on a night out, it's possibly the same on here.
That's not to say they're bad people and it may be doing them an injustice but I think life experience gives you a bit of a feeling of who will and won't go for you. "
That's what I think  |
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"I doubt anybody on here is out of your league Fab fem
well maybe me
kidding xxx
Of course I think there are people out of my league I avoid and don't message them because I don't want a no thanks. I've had messages before telling me I'm not their type just the same as everyone else.
I especially avoid people that are always at the gym. I'm far from fit and don't want to show myself up.
Oh and by the way I'm way out your league "
Far from fit i doubt it babe
haha Vauxhall conference and champions league come to mind |
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"Do you avoid messaging certain people because you think you have no chance?
Yeah, sometimes. I don't think it's got anything to do with not feeling good about yourself, as I read on another thread recently. Someone else on here put it brilliantly, if you think you'd have no chance if you rocked up to them on a night out, it's possibly the same on here.
That's not to say they're bad people and it may be doing them an injustice but I think life experience gives you a bit of a feeling of who will and won't go for you. "
Very much this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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haha Vauxhall conference and champions league come to mind
I don't have a clue what that means  "
champions league is the highest
vauxhall conference is the lowest in football |
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haha Vauxhall conference and champions league come to mind
I don't have a clue what that means
champions league is the highest
vauxhall conference is the lowest in football"
I wouldn't say you were that bad. Maybe one level up |
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haha Vauxhall conference and champions league come to mind
I don't have a clue what that means
champions league is the highest
vauxhall conference is the lowest in football
I wouldn't say you were that bad. Maybe one level up "
you cant get higher than the champions league babe hahahaha |
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Personally I dont think anyone is out of anyones league on here just some that think they are .
But yes sometimes I think not a chance but have been very surprised at times with the outcome .
And have over the years of being on here thought nothing ventured nothing gained if someone turns you down its not the end of the world . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We say its only a message to start with just go for it and see what happens  If we got a nasty knock back we wouldnt want to meet someone like that no matter how good they were, personaltity go's a long way. Treat others how you would like to be treated xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you avoid messaging certain people because you think you have no chance?
Yeah, sometimes. I don't think it's got anything to do with not feeling good about yourself, as I read on another thread recently. Someone else on here put it brilliantly, if you think you'd have no chance if you rocked up to them on a night out, it's possibly the same on here.
That's not to say they're bad people and it may be doing them an injustice but I think life experience gives you a bit of a feeling of who will and won't go for you. "
Yup |
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Quite often yes,I don't think I'm 'all that',just know how to take a good pic of myself....I think I have a fit n toned body......body from Baywatch n face off crimewatch lol.
The reasons differ.....usually think,out of my league,or they say they won't meet smokers etc........
Will still wink them anyway just in case |
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" Quite often yes,I don't think I'm 'all that',just know how to take a good pic of myself....I think I have a fit n toned body......body from Baywatch n face off crimewatch lol.
The reasons differ.....usually think,out of my league,or they say they won't meet smokers etc........
Will still wink them anyway just in case"
You smoke? Aww |
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Yes, I avoid messaging some people because I think they wouldn't be interested in me, however, it depends on my mood and confidence levels.
Nobody should feel that they are out of anybody's league, as attraction is not based on criteria or type, but is an instant instinctive impulse and only able to be fully realised in the flesh. |
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"Yes, I avoid messaging some people because I think they wouldn't be interested in me, however, it depends on my mood and confidence levels.
Nobody should feel that they are out of anybody's league, as attraction is not based on criteria or type, but is an instant instinctive impulse and only able to be fully realised in the flesh."
totally agree  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Quite often yes,I don't think I'm 'all that',just know how to take a good pic of myself....I think I have a fit n toned body......body from Baywatch n face off crimewatch lol.
The reasons differ.....usually think,out of my league,or they say they won't meet smokers etc........
Will still wink them anyway just in case
You smoke? Aww "
Shhhhhhhmokin' lol
Yeah,it's a filthy habit.
Gonna try those E-cigs.....again!  |
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"Do you avoid messaging certain people because you think you have no chance? "
Out with the people who's age requirements rule me out, I would message anyone who seems genuine, and interesting to me. The worst that they could do is ridicule and pour scorn on my youthful optimism. But when you are on a site such as this, bearing warts and all (pun certainly intended) I think you have to have a degree of thick skin. You can only piss with the cock you've got....so my thai bride tells me |
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over a year ago
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"Nope... If I want to mail, I'll mail.
What's the worst that can happen.. A no thanks or a no reply, it's no big deal. "
Yep, my thoughts exactly. Put your desires out there honestly & coherently and if the answer is no, then it is no big deal. If you don't ask, quite simply you don't get
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Im more likely to avoid messaging someone that appears ( due to profile ) up their own arse 
