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give newbies a break not scare them off
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm new and my fb has been on here for years and has plenty verification, I don't as iv only chatted on here so far, so to show we are genuine and also so we don't get messed around too, my fb verified me from his own profile, on our profile , a girls goto start somewhere, and it seems to upset some people, try not to scare new people away and be welcoming, its supposed to be fun. If people are found to be arseholes or time wasters then fine, not the best start ha ha x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello and welcome, is this yours and your fb profile? Because I'm not sure it's allowed to verify your own profile.... And I'm not being horrible "
That was my thinking too. Some folk would see it possibly as a fake profile unfortunately. Good luck tho x |
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It was me that commented on your fb verifying your couple profile, the problem is that it makes you look like a fake profile as that is exactly what guys who make fake couple profiles do, verify themselves.
So not having a go, more pointing out a potential (big) issue with your profile.
And ,personally, I think the Scotland profile is one of the most welcoming for newbies. Just need to join in the chat. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hello and welcome, is this yours and your fb profile? Because I'm not sure it's allowed to verify your own profile.... And I'm not being horrible "
He has verfied me from his own profile onto our separate profile, and he's the only person iv let on here, he's had his own profile for years, but if that's not allowed then we will take it off xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It was me that commented on your fb verifying your couple profile, the problem is that it makes you look like a fake profile as that is exactly what guys who make fake couple profiles do, verify themselves.
So not having a go, more pointing out a potential (big) issue with your profile.
And ,personally, I think the Scotland profile is one of the most welcoming for newbies. Just need to join in the chat."
Well thankyou for your advice  |
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"Hello and welcome, is this yours and your fb profile? Because I'm not sure it's allowed to verify your own profile.... And I'm not being horrible
He has verfied me from his own profile onto our separate profile, and he's the only person iv let on here, he's had his own profile for years, but if that's not allowed then we will take it off xx"
I'm pretty sure it's against the rules, as has been said it makes your profile look fake ( not saying you are ) maybe best to report to admin and get a real veri either from meeting or try a social, there's always loads of great ones going on
Good luck and enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They are indicators and to be honest why would anyone feel the need to verify themselves "
he is already verified on his own profile and now we have one together, and as he's to only person on here that knows me well enough to verify me... anyway this is killing my mojo ha ha,hope have fun today x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hello and welcome, is this yours and your fb profile? Because I'm not sure it's allowed to verify your own profile.... And I'm not being horrible
He has verfied me from his own profile onto our separate profile, and he's the only person iv let on here, he's had his own profile for years, but if that's not allowed then we will take it off xx
I'm pretty sure it's against the rules, as has been said it makes your profile look fake ( not saying you are ) maybe best to report to admin and get a real veri either from meeting or try a social, there's always loads of great ones going on
Good luck and enjoy "
I'm going to take it off, we just didn't want to get messed around, as time is precious for us, you too thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To make things a lot easier for yourselves why not get photo verified by site that way you get a tick from the site letting people know if they believe in the sites system that u are a couple and take things from there as well as getting yourselves along to 1 off the socials that are always going on down your way simple's me thinks . All the best from your friendly upstart lol  |
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"Not sure if against rules or not but yous arent decieving anyone if your open about the verif live & let live i say too many dos n donts on fab "
I think that the op hasn't done it to deceive anyone but there's way too many single guys on here hiding behind a fake couples account which is why it's not allowed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not sure if against rules or not but yous arent decieving anyone if your open about the verif live & let live i say too many dos n donts on fab
I think that the op hasn't done it to deceive anyone but there's way too many single guys on here hiding behind a fake couples account which is why it's not allowed "
As i said i wasnt sure if againt rules to verif in this way and agree it cleary wasnt dont to decieve prop more niave |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not sure if against rules or not but yous arent decieving anyone if your open about the verif live & let live i say too many dos n donts on fab "
Thanks we thought it would show how genuine we are, why would a guy that's been on here for years verify a a woman he's never slept with and ruin his verifications, and reputation on here?? Anyway we're not being fake later today so I'll post some pics, take care thanks xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not sure if against rules or not but yous arent decieving anyone if your open about the verif live & let live i say too many dos n donts on fab
Thanks we thought it would show how genuine we are, why would a guy that's been on here for years verify a a woman he's never slept with and ruin his verifications, and reputation on here?? Anyway we're not being fake later today so I'll post some pics, take care thanks xx"
Well said enjoy your fun together |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Unfortunately in these days of so many fake profiles doing the rounds the majority of people are more switched on and anything blatantly against the rules won't do you any favours. My advice would be start afresh, social meet together maybe to get verified legitimately. If your guy has been here a while he must know other members. Good luck with your fab experience however. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think if it was blatantly rule breaking fan would have contacted us to say but we're taking it off, so no more rule breaking for naughty us, have fun in the sun peeps xx |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Hello and welcome, is this yours and your fb profile? Because I'm not sure it's allowed to verify your own profile.... And I'm not being horrible
He has verfied me from his own profile onto our separate profile, and he's the only person iv let on here, he's had his own profile for years, but if that's not allowed then we will take it off xx"
It isn't allowed no.
Maybe get yourself to a social or in the cam room and get verified that way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We both had single profiles and could have verified our couple profile but didn't. There are many other ways to get verified - photo verify, by cam, attending a social, or going for a meet social or otherwise.
To us looking in it looks a bit iffy. Your couple profile is verified my the male of the profile on his single profile. Anyone could make up a couple profile, get a few exes pics on, and hey presto!
Our opinion. That's all. |
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Yep, a single male verifying his couples profile is a big red flag to people that screams 'fake'.
As he has been here quite a while he could organise a social with someone to get you both verified, socials and clubs are the best way to go.
Good luck and welcome to fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just took a picture with name and web site name, easy enough can't see why others can't do it, what's the point in fake profile! Don't get it!! I'm new so helloooo all you lurvly peoples
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"I just took a picture with name and web site name, easy enough can't see why others can't do it, what's the point in fake profile! Don't get it!! I'm new so helloooo all you lurvly peoples
X j"
Hello and welcome  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yep, a single male verifying his couples profile is a big red flag to people that screams 'fake'.
As he has been here quite a while he could organise a social with someone to get you both verified, socials and clubs are the best way to go.
Good luck and welcome to fab "
thats why my singles profile and my couples one are completely seperate,that way theres no confusion(and just fir the record both are genuine profiles before anyone jumps on that bandwagon) |
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thanks same to you 