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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it just me or do a lot of guys on here, especially the young, free + single ones, forget that we women can not meet at the drop of a hat?
Then, when they think we are not going to run along and satisfy their desires instantly, they stop talking!
We have families and real lives so our time is precious and meets have to be arranged.
Do not expect us to jump just because you say! |
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"Is it just me or do a lot of guys on here, especially the young, free + single ones, forget that we women can not meet at the drop of a hat?
Then, when they think we are not going to run along and satisfy their desires instantly, they stop talking!
We have families and real lives so our time is precious and meets have to be arranged.
Do not expect us to jump just because you say!" yeah I know what you mean I hate last min meets and like a day or two to plan or even longer so I get flirty build up time too ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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What do you mean you cant drop your knickers at a drop of a hat its an instashag sex site you utter timewaster ffs ..... this is the kind of mentality some people have of fab ..the whole concept of swinger site is lost on them ... i dont recall this being as much of a problem on other ( paid membership ) sites ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love spontaneous meets but hate a fancy a fuck messages
I love tose kind of mees too ,but a single man I dont get many fancy a fuck messages "
Some people forget how hard it is for single guys on here. no pun intended. Well. .... |
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Whats hard about it ? Us single guys also have lives and familys and by no means are all single guys after instashag maybe if that is the folk you speak with its that that needs looked at if folk would steer clear of the muppets they would run off elsewhere but they do get what they want so they stay |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last minute meets are not the best. Much prefer properly planned meets, with a reasonable amount of time put aside for a fun and fulfilling meeting. However, a nice "quickie" now and again can be exciting. ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whats hard about it ? Us single guys also have lives and familys and by no means are all single guys after instashag maybe if that is the folk you speak with its that that needs looked at if folk would steer clear of the muppets they would run off elsewhere but they do get what they want so they stay"
Jeez man. Easy! Its just a little light heartedness and a joke.
Nothing to get all worked up about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or do a lot of guys on here, especially the young, free + single ones, forget that we women can not meet at the drop of a hat?
Then, when they think we are not going to run along and satisfy their desires instantly, they stop talking!
We have families and real lives so our time is precious and meets have to be arranged.
Do not expect us to jump just because you say!"
don't get me wrong agree with what you're saying ! but there are also woman like this and when they can tell it's not going there way they get nasty haha x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes I like last minute meets, but do prefer a bit of notice so I can get prepared,
However I do really hate the messages from guys that won't send you a face pic but expect you to go meet them there and then, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had one or two last minute meets in my time and whilst they were enjoyable, I much prefer a lead up to a meet. Anticipation and nerves are a great form of foreplay for me ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mostly agree through build up is great fun but have had one last minute meet with a couple who used to be on here and wow!!!!
That was special night, hope they come back in the future. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes the best laid plans can come crashing around you, organise a meet days even weeks in advance then at last minute real life gets in the way. Unusual for a last minute meet to be cancelled as you know for sure you are free at that given time for sure and it can end up a real lust fuelled getting together ?? |
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By *inkyHnSCouple
over a year ago
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Yeah we seem to be getting more and more of the im horny you fancy meeting and never chatted to them before we aint gonna go jump into bed with people we dont know. We wont do last min meets its good to get to know people and flirt with them and see where it leads too :P |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Whats hard about it ? Us single guys also have lives and familys and by no means are all single guys after instashag maybe if that is the folk you speak with its that that needs looked at if folk would steer clear of the muppets they would run off elsewhere but they do get what they want so they stay"
Not from me they don't |
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"Sometimes the best laid plans can come crashing around you, organise a meet days even weeks in advance then at last minute real life gets in the way. Unusual for a last minute meet to be cancelled as you know for sure you are free at that given time for sure and it can end up a real lust fuelled getting together ??"
I appreciate things can happen but to be cancelled for the 'tummy bug' and then, after re arranging, for another lame reason, gives rise to my scepticism |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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If I wanted a last minute meet, I would ask for it...... if they say No, cool...
I have said No to people looking to meet last minute and it didn't suit me..... If they get arsey...
fuck em..... well, not literally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes the best laid plans can come crashing around you, organise a meet days even weeks in advance then at last minute real life gets in the way. Unusual for a last minute meet to be cancelled as you know for sure you are free at that given time for sure and it can end up a real lust fuelled getting together ??
I appreciate things can happen but to be cancelled for the 'tummy bug' and then, after re arranging, for another lame reason, gives rise to my scepticism"
That's where you should decide to adopt a no second chance or a 2 strokes and your out policy.
I've had someone cancel on me stating finances were too tight then seen a they had travelled for a meet the next night. Just have to accept they simply had change of mind regards meeting me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The majority of the time my meets are last minute so it's not just guys
Let me know when your next last minute is "
Ok I will message you saying 'Ive got a free hour, fancy a fuck' ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By *all saulMan
over a year ago
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"The majority of the time my meets are last minute so it's not just guys
Let me know when your next last minute is
Ok I will message you saying 'Ive got a free hour, fancy a fuck' "
A whole hour ? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The majority of the time my meets are last minute so it's not just guys
Let me know when your next last minute is
Ok I will message you saying 'Ive got a free hour, fancy a fuck'
A whole hour ? Lol"
That is a bit long I suppose. Ok I have a free 4 minutes fancy bumping uglies ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me or do a lot of guys on here, especially the young, free + single ones, forget that we women can not meet at the drop of a hat?
Then, when they think we are not going to run along and satisfy their desires instantly, they stop talking!
We have families and real lives so our time is precious and meets have to be arranged.
Do not expect us to jump just because you say!"
They expect because it's most people's nature especialy on fab , we tend to not arrange or chat to much and go for more instant or last min meets but then again were a couple happily married and not single and confused like some that this is a dating site ![](/icons/s/eek.gif) |
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I get offered them all the time, they dont seem to get that a bit of notice is nice, or that it takes a Tgirl even longer to get ready than it does a woman (hair removal and hiding 5oclock shadow)....
Also amazing how many that ask dont A, read profiles....B, cant provide pics...
"Aye ok random faceless person from the internet, i have no idea what you look like, but yeah come round and stick your penis in my rectum"...... errrmmm, how does fuck off grab you instead ?![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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