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whats with lack of women
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why don't they slow down the men intake till women catch up a bit. "
We could request a 'last in first out' policy to even the numbers out a bit. How long have you been on here?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Boohoo you paid for extras on the site doesnt mean you pay for membership and you get pick of the woman its not a hookers website need to try and get to know the woman first dont just expect to fuck you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Now to clear confusion.
One I didnt ask anyone to leave only even numbers up as being as short sighted you miss things like tbe abuse women get because men who have a short temper or volatile side get frustrated.
Also if men constantly are over stocked and leave frustrated tbe sites constantly gonna struggle.
The site isnt ideal as in my area it is swamped.
I volunteered for front line action when due to leave army as gulf war kicked off so volungeering to take a few montbs out prob not gonna hurt guys lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So £5 for Per membership which lasts more than a month that entitles you to the extra use of the site not for women to obey the gold/silver users get more docked cams upload more pictures not a guarantee to a fuck!
Yes the site has more women on it but that cannot be helped by admins or founders |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The women on here are the same women you see on the street. You wouldn't walk up to a woman on the street or in a pub and say 'want sex!' would you. You would probably get a frosty response so why expect a different reaction on here. |
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"The women on here are the same women you see on the street. You wouldn't walk up to a woman on the street or in a pub and say 'want sex!' would you. You would probably get a frosty response so why expect a different reaction on here. "
Didn't you get the memo? We have to drop our knickers to anyone who pays their fiver  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How many folk have I met,
My update on my profile has been updated hourly with complaints I see long term users gripe about that I find amusing..
I also have loads of people I interact with and have met more than enough to be happy. .
Using assumption and abuse doeant make for good debate either
Wouldnt ut at least have been nicer go educate than abuse had you felt that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have posted in a public forum and on which part have we been abusive you have made a freedom of speech as have we I will not debate about this any longer but as far as I'm aware from your profile correct me if im wrong you have been on the site for three weeks I have spoken to many men who have waited over a year or two to get a meet give it time if not there is always a leave form to fill in  |
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"How many folk have I met,
My update on my profile has been updated hourly with complaints I see long term users gripe about that I find amusing..
I also have loads of people I interact with and have met more than enough to be happy. .
Using assumption and abuse doeant make for good debate either
Wouldnt ut at least have been nicer go educate than abuse had you felt that?"
Can't see any abuse, just honest comments.... Maybe you should get one of the many you've met to verify you it might help with getting more meets  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For a start if I never paid for sex in life. And im always respectful women. Same as I dont send balls hanging out as strangely you get arrested for whapping that kinda thing out.
My point about 5 quid was there is no need to spend it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also if men constantly are over stocked and leave frustrated tbe sites constantly gonna struggle."
I might be wrong but I don't think the sites struggling or will ever struggle. Single guys (couple and ladies too to be fair) come on, don't get what they're expecting, have a moan and leave. Others come on, spend time getting to know people and understand how the site works, stay for a long time and have brilliant fun so I don't think it's ever going to struggle.
In what manner would you suggest limiting the numbers? Block all single guys applying? |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Why don't they slow down the men intake till women catch up a bit.
We could request a 'last in first out' policy to even the numbers out a bit. How long have you been on here?
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i'd agree with that ....i joined just after fab started |
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By *rallvalCouple
over a year ago
Dunfermline |
"I'm starting a recruitment drive. I've had thousands of "Fab needs more Fanny's" "
Maybe change that to "Fab need more women"?
We have loads of fannies on here already, especially the nutjobs who contact us demanding a meet, usually without the male half being around and usually in our house despite the fact it clearly states we cannot accomodate, meet as a couple and don't meet single guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apologies for previous messages spelling as hands not quite working these days. "
Give your hand a rest n use the other one for wanking for a wee while.....see if that helps?
Sorry dude,can't help myself sometimes! |
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I think you are forgetting its a swinging site.....not man meet woman site....the site will never ever struggle as its historically made for couples.
Swinging ...look it up lol.....not saying singles can't swing or join in....but the site is for swinging.
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
near Glasgow |
"I paid fee so cant see me wasting much more money its easier to meet folk in pub."
Can I ask a wee question OP? What did you think you'd get for your fiver? Presumably you read the terms & conditions?
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"I paid fee so cant see me wasting much more money its easier to meet folk in pub.
Can I ask a wee question OP? What did you think you'd get for your fiver? Presumably you read the terms & conditions?
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You made me chuckle and roll my eyes all in one....  |
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"Why don't they slow down the men intake till women catch up a bit. "
Or maybe include a face picture on your profile and a much more detailed description of your hobbies and interests plus what you have to offer . No effort usually means no reward . This applies to most things in life .
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
near Glasgow |
"These posts from guys are hilarious. "
I don't understand how people can complain about the Scottish forum being dull and boring. It can maybe be a wee bit quiet for a day or two, but there always seems to be a wee gem like this thread just waiting around the corner!!  |
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"These posts from guys are hilarious.
I don't understand how people can complain about the Scottish forum being dull and boring. It can maybe be a wee bit quiet for a day or two, but there always seems to be a wee gem like this thread just waiting around the corner!! "
I look at it from an opposite perspective.
Someone posts with an honest intent. The single females get their knickers in a twist then proceed to troll and insult the poster and then single guys post to congratulate the woman because they know that they need to stay in the womens good books or they dont get meets.
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
near Glasgow |
"These posts from guys are hilarious.
I don't understand how people can complain about the Scottish forum being dull and boring. It can maybe be a wee bit quiet for a day or two, but there always seems to be a wee gem like this thread just waiting around the corner!!
I look at it from an opposite perspective.
Someone posts with an honest intent. The single females get their knickers in a twist then proceed to troll and insult the poster and then single guys post to congratulate the woman because they know that they need to stay in the womens good books or they dont get meets.
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As you quote my post I guess your comments are aimed at me. However, you couldn't be further from the truth with regard to my intentions.
But of course, assuming that they know better than the person themself is a common fault around here. So carry on assuming! |
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"These posts from guys are hilarious.
I don't understand how people can complain about the Scottish forum being dull and boring. It can maybe be a wee bit quiet for a day or two, but there always seems to be a wee gem like this thread just waiting around the corner!!
I look at it from an opposite perspective.
Someone posts with an honest intent. The single females get their knickers in a twist then proceed to troll and insult the poster and then single guys post to congratulate the woman because they know that they need to stay in the womens good books or they dont get meets.
As you quote my post I guess your comments are aimed at me. However, you couldn't be further from the truth with regard to my intentions.
But of course, assuming that they know better than the person themself is a common fault around here. So carry on assuming! "
My apologies, the last part of my post wasnt directed at any particular individual, was just quoting you for the first part of what I said. |
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"These posts from guys are hilarious.
I don't understand how people can complain about the Scottish forum being dull and boring. It can maybe be a wee bit quiet for a day or two, but there always seems to be a wee gem like this thread just waiting around the corner!!
I look at it from an opposite perspective.
Someone posts with an honest intent. The single females get their knickers in a twist then proceed to troll and insult the poster and then single guys post to congratulate the woman because they know that they need to stay in the womens good books or they dont get meets.
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I agree with almost all of this apart from posted with honest intent to my mind its a blatant I want some .....not sticking up for single fems here lol |
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"Anyway shouldn't we be answering the original post re the am,out of woman vs the ammount of men .....least give the guy a chance to get his actual question answered lol "
Why would a site actively refuse membership.... every site is in a constant state of churn, people come and go.....
The sites that would do this (restrict) would probably be charging you quite a bit of money to ensure a ratio balance.
Any quantity v Quality... what if you have 1000 ladies and a 1000 men, all fairly ugly, arrogant, disgusting...basically not worth the effort how can you open the door to 'fresh members' without breaking the rules of ratio balance. Desparate people will continue to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As _unkie says last in first out would work "
It's alright I have the how long have you been here thread going so it's quicker to work out who's going first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slow acceptance of guys to try help.
Was a suggestion mind before I get shot at again"
Maybe if you stay on site long enough and partake in the forums you will understand the workings off the site better, and understand how some suggestions should be posted in the help section or feedback section. Even money 1 month |
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"These posts from guys are hilarious.
I don't understand how people can complain about the Scottish forum being dull and boring. It can maybe be a wee bit quiet for a day or two, but there always seems to be a wee gem like this thread just waiting around the corner!!
I look at it from an opposite perspective.
Someone posts with an honest intent. The single females get their knickers in a twist then proceed to troll and insult the poster and then single guys post to congratulate the woman because they know that they need to stay in the womens good books or they dont get meets.
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Lmao you must be reading a different thread than me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it matters how many guys are on the site. Women are only going to pick the guys that they are attracted to.
If a guy doesn't make an effort with their profile they won't get a meet even if they were the only guy on the site. It's all about selling yourself on here( not for money). Your profile is your advert. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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One more thing. Its easy to gang up on new guy but did any one here not start at the new stage at somepoint.
Easy having smart answers but not many people suggested be patient or keep at it politely it was gets the sticks lol mob rule on new guy and neither did I get one message private offering advice either.
Just saying...... |
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"I don't think it matters how many guys are on the site. Women are only going to pick the guys that they are attracted to.
If a guy doesn't make an effort with their profile they won't get a meet even if they were the only guy on the site. It's all about selling yourself on here( not for money). Your profile is your advert. "
and some guys also wont settle and need mutual attraction lifes a two way street (I zig zag) |
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"One more thing. Its easy to gang up on new guy but did any one here not start at the new stage at somepoint.
Easy having smart answers but not many people suggested be patient or keep at it politely it was gets the sticks lol mob rule on new guy and neither did I get one message private offering advice either.
Just saying...... "
As I said take the forums with a pinch of salt....sadly there are so many narrow opinions and people can't see beyond a small world.
You get used to it and know the ones you just roll your eyes at....this thread is actually game compared to many. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You really do need to get thicker skin mate that's mild. And to come on to forum and complain you paid a fiver and expected more is just a little bit outrageous . So you might understand some off the comments that av been posted but only my opinion . P.S. did you read ur post and follow it all i guess not just the next post posted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think it matters how many guys are on the site. Women are only going to pick the guys that they are attracted to.
If a guy doesn't make an effort with their profile they won't get a meet even if they were the only guy on the site. It's all about selling yourself on here( not for money). Your profile is your advert. and some guys also wont settle and need mutual attraction lifes a two way street (I zig zag)"
Fine I take the hint. Your not interested |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One more thing. Its easy to gang up on new guy but did any one here not start at the new stage at somepoint.
Easy having smart answers but not many people suggested be patient or keep at it politely it was gets the sticks lol mob rule on new guy and neither did I get one message private offering advice either.
Just saying...... "
A lot of the posts are people's opinions on the subject. Not everyone is going to agree.
Try not take things to heart x |
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"what a welcome to fabs forums
Maybe it will help him to engage his brain b4 posting about a fiver as money is tight these days "
To be fair we all started somewhere and we were all naive at some point....fair play to any newbie jumping into the forums/chat etc....especially for a single guy....don't think its about engaging the brain etc he asked a question simple as .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what a welcome to fabs forums
Maybe it will help him to engage his brain b4 posting about a fiver as money is tight these days
To be fair we all started somewhere and we were all naive at some point....fair play to any newbie jumping into the forums/chat etc....especially for a single guy....don't think its about engaging the brain etc he asked a question simple as ...."
That i totally agree with you on jumping straight in there and he has been given some good opinions but he is the 1 that's taken it to heart as no-one has belittled him for his question again just opinions given just like your have given and no-one has been nasty to yourselfs or am i reading from start off post differently . Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The women on here are the same women you see on the street. You wouldn't walk up to a woman on the street or in a pub and say 'want sex!' would you. You would probably get a frosty response so why expect a different reaction on here.
Didn't you get the memo? We have to drop our knickers to anyone who pays their fiver "
Awaiting my next payday eagerly now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think it matters how many guys are on the site. Women are only going to pick the guys that they are attracted to.
If a guy doesn't make an effort with their profile they won't get a meet even if they were the only guy on the site. It's all about selling yourself on here( not for money). Your profile is your advert. "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess having a lot of single males on the site is something we will have to live with. And ultimately it will be up to the people we chat to to decide wether or not we are worthy of their chat or company. I wouldnt expect a single guy to pay £250 for a membership why should we ? im happy with the status quo on the site. There are single guys who get meets there are single guys who don't get meets that's life. And it's a life I'm happy to continue with at present. It is what it is !!! |
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