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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey guys,
We're a young Edinburgh couple K (21) and R (24) who are new to swinging. 
Some couple's we've spoken to already on here have said that they find it hard being so young because people have apprehensions about meeting up with them.
Would you say this is the usual case? Was it similar when you were starting out? or do you have any advice for a couple eager to become involved in meets?
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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There's a fairly common belief that swinging is for the slightly older couple, who are looking to maintain/enhance an established relationship, and that a couple of your age haven't had enough time to build the stable relationship required to bring others into your sex life.
I don't agree with it, but it *is* out there.
PLUS, there's another common approach. Many people don't feel able to have sex with people in the same age group as their own children (and many many people are more then 16 years older than you), as it feels wrong to them.
Add those two factors together and you'll see the problem you face - but don't despair, it doesn't mean you can't meet people.
On this site, your age is clearly defined on your profile - out in the world you change to "mid twenties" or somesuch, which muddies the waters slightly (if that makes sense). Or, to put it another way - get to clubs and socials and put yourself out there, age is slightly less a concern in person.
In the meantime, there are others in the same situation - it's a smaller pool to fish in (!) but you may get some success there.
It's not easy to get meets for anyone - and to an extent it shouldn't be, otherwise it would become less exciting...but I wish you luck.
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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On your specific profile.....
You're after an extra lady - this is a very common position, which gives single ladies a great deal of choice...and power. Therefore I would suggest you be more clear about what you're looking for - FF? FF with M around? Full FFM?
Clearer pictures of both of you would be good - not necessarily face, but something to indicate body type. Also add a little text about what kind of lady you're after - does long hair turn you on? Tall? Do you want someone to explore with, or someone a bit more experienced? And so on...
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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A couples profile would also help as just now it seems like your man is just in the backgroaund waiting to "pop out" when you arrange meets.
I'm sure this would put a lot of single females off as it would seem that you are the "honeytrap" and he will just expect to be involved, with a couples profile the people you intend to meet would know more about the both of you.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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thanks for your advice guys its been really helpful. I tried to put a couples profile on I don't know what I've done wrong but i'll try and fix it. We're taking photos tomorrow when a whole bunch of new lingerie comes arrives and we have some fun.
thanks again
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