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over a year ago
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Why oh why do people insist on sending a short message-usually along the lines of "my friend and I are looking for a fem to join us" followed by "are you interested?"
How would I know? I've seen a tiny pic of your dick and know nothing about either of you-do they honestly think my answer will be yes?!? |
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"It's like they forget how to interact with humans?!? I understand it's different online but being on here is a real eye opener! "
eye's opened enough to make you want to stick with the ladies in my case. This isn't macdonalds. Site is hotching with guy's bitching about how shite ththe site is where there mail's go unanswered, it's only logical as to why that is.
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I think they forget it's a swingers site not a hook up site.
I for one am certainly looking for more than a quick shag!
A bit of banter never goes amiss! |
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"It's like they forget how to interact with humans?!? I understand it's different online but being on here is a real eye opener! eye's opened enough to make you want to stick with the ladies in my case. This isn't macdonalds. Site is hotching with guy's bitching about how shite ththe site is where there mail's go unanswered, it's only logical as to why that is. "
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"I think they forget it's a swingers site not a hook up site.
I for one am certainly looking for more than a quick shag!
A bit of banter never goes amiss! "
definitely, I've been hit with abuse and told I'd never find a husband here. O.0 I dinnay want one thanks |
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"It's like they forget how to interact with humans?!? I understand it's different online but being on here is a real eye opener! eye's opened enough to make you want to stick with the ladies in my case. This isn't macdonalds. Site is hotching with guy's bitching about how shite ththe site is where there mail's go unanswered, it's only logical as to why that is. in my defence im just as blunt in person "
So in person you would go up to a woman you had never met and ask her to either join you and a friend for sex/ let you pay her for sex/ offer her drug's for sex/ or how about that she deserves to be raped because she is so beautiful....... that's only a selection of the requests I've received from complete stranger's. When did reading abuse become a known pant dropper? Think I missed the memo. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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It makes me wonder if the approach does actually work though-some of these guys (I appreciate it's maybe not only men who send ridiculous messages but it tends to be as far as I can see!!) have verifications although they do tend to be the rather crude "and then he face fucked me" too much detail kinda ones. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You miss my point I do none of those things but I am very blunt and say exactly what I think no bullshi**ing or making it all fluffy same as in person "
I would say I'm the same-but that would never be my introduction to someone! |
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"You miss my point I do none of those things but I am very blunt and say exactly what I think no bullshi**ing or making it all fluffy same as in person
I would say I'm the same-but that would never be my introduction to someone! "
 same here as def no point in lying to people as if not attracted best being upfront about it, or if feel not on same level.
Don't think my introduction to you was anyway like that ha, just I'm not your type seems n that's the way life goes. As for abuse don't get it, never even send a message if come across the " you have already sent a message to this user n not received a reply as think no point in wasting both our times.
Does abuse work as wonder if so many do where does the idea it works come from??? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've only had one abusive message on here from someone I wasn't interested in that I did reply to saying so-he told me I was stuck up my own arse. I told him at least one of us is up there.
Why bother replying just to be abusive? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've only had one abusive message on here from someone I wasn't interested in that I did reply to saying so-he told me I was stuck up my own arse. I told him at least one of us is up there.
Why bother replying just to be abusive? "
Had that quite A lot of abuse from guys who seem to fail at being politely turned down. Makes me feel good knowing I was right to turn them down in the first place if that's their attitude.
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It does make normal guys realise though why even if go to some bother to write a message they never get a reply and it is deleted. At the start it used to annoy me as thought just decency but soon realised in a lot of cases just been decent resulted in a lot of hassle. Still nice though when get a thanks but no thanks but the abuse prob is as big everywhere as in N.Ireland & the South it's the exact same and since now spending a lot of time over in Scotland it seems it is viral as carried across the water, not by me, honest!! |
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"It does make normal guys realise though why even if go to some bother to write a message they never get a reply and it is deleted. At the start it used to annoy me as thought just decency but soon realised in a lot of cases just been decent resulted in a lot of hassle. Still nice though when get a thanks but no thanks but the abuse prob is as big everywhere as in N.Ireland & the South it's the exact same and since now spending a lot of time over in Scotland it seems it is viral as carried across the water, not by me, honest!! "
Well on behalf of all the decent women I apologise for not replying. I'm not making excuses as I agree it is rude but we do get a hell of a lot of messages and taking time to reply to them all just isn't feasible so I think it's a general consensus on here that no reply=Thanks but no thanks. |
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"It does make normal guys realise though why even if go to some bother to write a message they never get a reply and it is deleted. At the start it used to annoy me as thought just decency but soon realised in a lot of cases just been decent resulted in a lot of hassle. Still nice though when get a thanks but no thanks but the abuse prob is as big everywhere as in N.Ireland & the South it's the exact same and since now spending a lot of time over in Scotland it seems it is viral as carried across the water, not by me, honest!!
Well on behalf of all the decent women I apologise for not replying. I'm not making excuses as I agree it is rude but we do get a hell of a lot of messages and taking time to reply to them all just isn't feasible so I think it's a general consensus on here that no reply=Thanks but no thanks. "
No excuse needed was more the observation than a direct remark to you, as I said after a while on here realise it's nothing personal and not taken as such ever, just meant does be nice the occasional one.
And yes from what little been on the Scottish Forum since spending a lot of time over there have to say already have you on that list just not on my list as ain't on yours lol! Happy fabbin!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think they forget it's a swingers site not a hook up site.
I for one am certainly looking for more than a quick shag!
A bit of banter never goes amiss! "
to be fair it's a swinger site to couples, you can't be a swinger when your single! & most of the guys myself included see this as a sex site & not really interested in chatting, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think they forget it's a swingers site not a hook up site.
I for one am certainly looking for more than a quick shag!
A bit of banter never goes amiss! to be fair it's a swinger site to couples, you can't be a swinger when your single! & most of the guys myself included see this as a sex site & not really interested in chatting, "
Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity. |
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"I think they forget it's a swingers site not a hook up site.
I for one am certainly looking for more than a quick shag!
A bit of banter never goes amiss! to be fair it's a swinger site to couples, you can't be a swinger when your single! & most of the guys myself included see this as a sex site & not really interested in chatting, "
swinging has evolved from car keys in a bowl thats how you can swing as a single imo |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why oh why do people insist on sending a short message-usually along the lines of "my friend and I are looking for a fem to join us" followed by "are you interested?"
How would I know? I've seen a tiny pic of your dick and know nothing about either of you-do they honestly think my answer will be yes?!? "
having had a we look at your profile /pics then reading what you are looking for , not surprising you get those kind of messages/pics ! Sorry for sounding blunto but 90 odd% just seem peeved off with up your arse single/couples that make no need demands on there profiles  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It does make normal guys realise though why even if go to some bother to write a message they never get a reply and it is deleted. At the start it used to annoy me as thought just decency but soon realised in a lot of cases just been decent resulted in a lot of hassle. Still nice though when get a thanks but no thanks but the abuse prob is as big everywhere as in N.Ireland & the South it's the exact same and since now spending a lot of time over in Scotland it seems it is viral as carried across the water, not by me, honest!! "
I can't blame women for deleting messages without readin or replying, most I not all women on here get bombarded with mails everyday & it would take too long to go trough them all, it goes to show that guys are pathetic I bet all the women get the same copy & paste mails from guys every day they just mail every female profile they see in the hopes that someone will want to meet them, that's why I have never & will never mail anyone 1st on here I someone is interested they'll let me know,
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"I think they forget it's a swingers site not a hook up site.
I for one am certainly looking for more than a quick shag!
A bit of banter never goes amiss! to be fair it's a swinger site to couples, you can't be a swinger when your single! & most of the guys myself included see this as a sex site & not really
interested in chatting, Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity. "
impressed! Nicely put this time of the morn, you are in full flow, sober take it lol!
Right need to hit the sack as this ain't good the time it is! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think they forget it's a swingers site not a hook up site.
I for one am certainly looking for more than a quick shag!
A bit of banter never goes amiss! to be fair it's a swinger site to couples, you can't be a swinger when your single! & most of the guys myself included see this as a sex site & not really interested in chatting, "
Why can't a single be a swinger? I know it's known as "wife swapping" but it's a lifestyle and a social circle of naughty people so being single isn't an issue?! Or am I in the wrong place? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think they forget it's a swingers site not a hook up site.
I for one am certainly looking for more than a quick shag!
A bit of banter never goes amiss! to be fair it's a swinger site to couples, you can't be a swinger when your single! & most of the guys myself included see this as a sex site & not really
interested in chatting, Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.
impressed! Nicely put this time of the morn, you are in full flow, sober take it lol!
Right need to hit the sack as this ain't good the time it is!"
always sober better thing's to be wasting my wages on.  Good night. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why oh why do people insist on sending a short message-usually along the lines of "my friend and I are looking for a fem to join us" followed by "are you interested?"
How would I know? I've seen a tiny pic of your dick and know nothing about either of you-do they honestly think my answer will be yes?!? having had a we look at your profile /pics then reading what you are looking for , not surprising you get those kind of messages/pics ! Sorry for sounding blunto but 90 odd% just seem peeved off with up your arse single/couples that make no need demands on there profiles "
I'm not sure there's no need-if I make it clear what I'm not looking for it should mean I won't get messages from those types of people I don't want to meet.
Clearly there's a flaw in my plan or I wouldn't be complaining lol |
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"I think they forget it's a swingers site not a hook up site.
I for one am certainly looking for more than a quick shag!
A bit of banter never goes amiss! to be fair it's a swinger site to couples, you can't be a swinger when your single! & most of the guys myself included see this as a sex site & not really
interested in chatting, Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.
impressed! Nicely put this time of the morn, you are in full flow, sober take it lol!
Right need to hit the sack as this ain't good the time it is!always sober better thing's to be wasting my wages on. Good night. "
Ha sober here too but def not always, don't have your will power but sure fuck it wouldn't be on here if had will power lol!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why oh why do people insist on sending a short message-usually along the lines of "my friend and I are looking for a fem to join us" followed by "are you interested?"
How would I know? I've seen a tiny pic of your dick and know nothing about either of you-do they honestly think my answer will be yes?!? having had a we look at your profile /pics then reading what you are looking for , not surprising you get those kind of messages/pics ! Sorry for sounding blunto but 90 odd% just seem peeved off with up your arse single/couples that make no need demands on there profiles
I'm not sure there's no need-if I make it clear what I'm not looking for it should mean I won't get messages from those types of people I don't want to meet.
Clearly there's a flaw in my plan or I wouldn't be complaining lol "
were not looking for the larger type but wouldn't be as blunt to say
And all fat fuckers that havnt read profile why do you think we would ever reply ,comes across mmm ye x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why oh why do people insist on sending a short message-usually along the lines of "my friend and I are looking for a fem to join us" followed by "are you interested?"
How would I know? I've seen a tiny pic of your dick and know nothing about either of you-do they honestly think my answer will be yes?!? having had a we look at your profile /pics then reading what you are looking for , not surprising you get those kind of messages/pics ! Sorry for sounding blunto but 90 odd% just seem peeved off with up your arse single/couples that make no need demands on there profiles
I'm not sure there's no need-if I make it clear what I'm not looking for it should mean I won't get messages from those types of people I don't want to meet.
Clearly there's a flaw in my plan or I wouldn't be complaining lol were not looking for the larger type but wouldn't be as blunt to say
And all fat fuckers that havnt read profile why do you think we would ever reply ,comes across mmm ye x"
I think there's a very different level there though. You do state you are looking for people around your build so you have stated what you want, maybe we need to learn something about tact from you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why oh why do people insist on sending a short message-usually along the lines of "my friend and I are looking for a fem to join us" followed by "are you interested?"
How would I know? I've seen a tiny pic of your dick and know nothing about either of you-do they honestly think my answer will be yes?!? having had a we look at your profile /pics then reading what you are looking for , not surprising you get those kind of messages/pics ! Sorry for sounding blunto but 90 odd% just seem peeved off with up your arse single/couples that make no need demands on there profiles
I'm not sure there's no need-if I make it clear what I'm not looking for it should mean I won't get messages from those types of people I don't want to meet.
Clearly there's a flaw in my plan or I wouldn't be complaining lol were not looking for the larger type but wouldn't be as blunt to say
And all fat fuckers that havnt read profile why do you think we would ever reply ,comes across mmm ye x
I think there's a very different level there though. You do state you are looking for people around your build so you have stated what you want, maybe we need to learn something about tact from you "
pmsl not from me but Ye maybe tact is something you should put an your to learn list x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ah but that brings me to my original point! If I got better messages I wouldn't need to be blunt  you would deffo get that on a site like match .com "
But I don't want to date I want to swing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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And I appreciate that-you're the kind of people I want to talk to!
My point was really about people who lose the art of communication and expect others to want to meet and shag just because they're on here, I was expressing my dismay at the lack of effort. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And I appreciate that-you're the kind of people I want to talk to!
My point was really about people who lose the art of communication and expect others to want to meet and shag just because they're on here, I was expressing my dismay at the lack of effort. "
some of our best meets have come from a wink or were horny free and can accom and some of our least fav from a 1000 word hi we are most are looking for anything,anytime x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I could see how it's different for couples.
If you do go for a quick meet you still have the fact if it's rubbish you have each other lol.
I have to know it at least has the chance if being good and the only way I know is by chatting! |
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"I could see how it's different for couples.
If you do go for a quick meet you still have the fact if it's rubbish you have each other lol.
I have to know it at least has the chance if being good and the only way I know is by chatting! "
we have never had a quick/ rubbish last minute if anything they have been the most genuine caring and sensative to our needs and hospitality,and yes last min meets let's say normally end up fun fun fun and lasting friend ships x |
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"Sounds like it works for you guys then. Each to their own! X"
Haha Ye but it's been a while since that type of meet has happened and do try and chat /flirt etc and think it's only fair publicly on the forum and with our chat here we can perhaps arrange a social between us and yourself For a cuppa or small drink if you like ? X  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha! I might offend you with my bluntness though? I'm a proper sarky bitch when I get going! "
ok but there's not much that offends us even a public eh no !! Lol x
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"Haha! I might offend you with my bluntness though? I'm a proper sarky bitch when I get going! ok but there's not much that offends us even a public eh no !! Lol x"
Lol sure, let me know what suits |
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This is actually a really good post to ask this sort of question I know not completely related as much but sorta is
Can't stand being in the chat room and one cam is a huge amount of the profilers friends and them I find its a evasion of privacy and as much as I'm aware if you do go on cam at your own discretion I still find people should respect others privacy.
And also I report any profile who advertise single people to be a tag team operation as I find its a dishonest profile of it states otherwise |
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Interesting post. Short messages . Well as a single guy here i must say that i normally send longer style messages with "no cock pictures" either i actually send a face picture. !! . But this in its self does not relate to getting a reply either. Saying that! some do reply with a" no thanks" and very few reply with a yes please (these are very very few but you do get them).. and i've meet some nice people through my time here..
But not all the guys on here are a waste of space .and some of us are not here to
Offend either we are here to swing,play with others that are looking for the same.
Chatting is good but a real meet is way better if you can do them . Yours Garry |
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"Why oh why do people insist on sending a short message-usually along the lines of "my friend and I are looking for a fem to join us" followed by "are you interested?"
How would I know? I've seen a tiny pic of your dick and know nothing about either of you-do they honestly think my answer will be yes?!? "
This is quite a detailed message tbf.
I've had 'interested?' before. No pic. Nothing on the profile either |
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over a year ago
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the second the messages become a chore, overly rude or totally lack effort: block all and do the searching for people that take your fancy and become the hunter.
good luck |
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"Why oh why do people insist on sending a short message-usually along the lines of "my friend and I are looking for a fem to join us" followed by "are you interested?"
How would I know? I've seen a tiny pic of your dick and know nothing about either of you-do they honestly think my answer will be yes?!? "
I think that relatively short messages can be okay if they are along the lines of intoducing themselves and then asking you to check out their profile to see if you like it with a _iew to further correspondence. |
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"This is actually a really good post to ask this sort of question I know not completely related as much but sorta is
Can't stand being in the chat room and one cam is a huge amount of the profilers friends and them I find its a evasion of privacy and as much as I'm aware if you do go on cam at your own discretion I still find people should respect others privacy.
And also I report any profile who advertise single people to be a tag team operation as I find its a dishonest profile of it states otherwise "
my profile says can meet as a cpl but it dosnt mean msg me and if im not enough I can bring a fem infact its the complete oppoaite as it takes even more for me tomeet as a cpl social Iis almost always the case and nwither of us see any point in a cpls profile wouldnt work for us |
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"the second the messages become a chore, overly rude or totally lack effort: block all and do the searching for people that take your fancy and become the hunter.
good luck "
I just realised that in the time I've been here I haven't approached anyone first! Maybe I should try and see what it's like being on that side!
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By *iewMan
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"the second the messages become a chore, overly rude or totally lack effort: block all and do the searching for people that take your fancy and become the hunter.
good luck
I just realised that in the time I've been here I haven't approached anyone first! Maybe I should try and see what it's like being on that side!
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good luck Some females that I know do it and it has made for a more enjoyable time |
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"Interesting post. Short messages . Well as a single guy here i must say that i normally send longer style messages with "no cock pictures" either i actually send a face picture. !! . But this in its self does not relate to getting a reply either. Saying that! some do reply with a" no thanks" and very few reply with a yes please (these are very very few but you do get them).. and i've meet some nice people through my time here..
But not all the guys on here are a waste of space .and some of us are not here to
Offend either we are here to swing,play with others that are looking for the same.
Chatting is good but a real meet is way better if you can do them . Yours Garry"
I'm sorry if I implied it was most men who did this, I know this isn't the case.
I'm not adverse to short messages, just ones asking to meet or if I'm interested when I don't know them at all! |
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"the second the messages become a chore, overly rude or totally lack effort: block all and do the searching for people that take your fancy and become the hunter.
good luck
I just realised that in the time I've been here I haven't approached anyone first! Maybe I should try and see what it's like being on that side!
good luck Some females that I know do it and it has made for a more enjoyable time "
I feel weirdly liberated lol |
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"Interesting post. Short messages . Well as a single guy here i must say that i normally send longer style messages with "no cock pictures" either i actually send a face picture. !! . But this in its self does not relate to getting a reply either. Saying that! some do reply with a" no thanks" and very few reply with a yes please (these are very very few but you do get them).. and i've meet some nice people through my time here..
But not all the guys on here are a waste of space .and some of us are not here to
Offend either we are here to swing,play with others that are looking for the same.
Chatting is good but a real meet is way better if you can do them . Yours Garry"
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"the second the messages become a chore, overly rude or totally lack effort: block all and do the searching for people that take your fancy and become the hunter.
good luck "
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