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over a year ago
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"Could you live with a sexless marriage if you were both very much in love? "
Having already been in a loveless sexless marriage in the last 4/5 years of a 21 yr marriage, ...... If I ever got married again and for whatever reason it became sexless and we were very much in love - yeah I could happily live without nookie! |
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over a year ago
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Certainly like to think I'd be happy in a sexless marriage if we were very much in love with each other, need to find the right woman to marry first though. |
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"i think they go hand in hand
If you no longer love someone it's very difficult to have sex with them unless you just see it as a shag"
I think the opposite sex is a tiny part of life you could live without .......love on the otherhand you couldnt sexless marriage easy id guess |
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I could but I'd prefer not too . If there was a reason for not having sex due to health etc then I could.
If it was other reasons and I stopped turning my partner on or vice versa then no . To me its a huge part of a relationship /marriage and the act of sex when you love someone is very different to just having a fuck because you're horny . It's as close as you can become for me . It's where you do let everything else go from your mind for that time . Passion tenderness, desire, being vulnerable to that person. Trust and pleasure .
Chocolate. . Erm no I love that too  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"... tried it, really did and after a year the strain got too much for me, felt un-wanted and ugly. yes I'm a guy but sometimes it's nice to be wanted. "
It sure is |
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"... tried it, really did and after a year the strain got too much for me, felt un-wanted and ugly. yes I'm a guy but sometimes it's nice to be wanted. "
I lasted a bit longer than a year. It does nothing for your self esteem. Wouldn't like to go through it again |
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I'd take love. True love where you know you'll never have to face the big stuff alone. when there is someone to hole your hand or give you a hug after a hard day. Yup all that worth so much more than sex. X |
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"I'd take love. True love where you know you'll never have to face the big stuff alone. when there is someone to hole your hand or give you a hug after a hard day. Yup all that worth so much more than sex. X"
 I could easily live without sex. Without love and companionship is way harder. |
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