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Site Etiquette....or lack of!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Bemused as to how difficult it is to have a 'normal' chat........some examples
1. tendency to be invisible unless on cam
2. but when we go on cam, it's not enough but get your 'tits' out!
3. with such charm we refuse only to suffer abuse and negative comments, charming
4. couples invite/ ask for our msn, seem nice only don't chat or say hello and if they do it's always the guy on his own!
Any one else faced issues?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any rude or coarse comments, click on their name then BLOCK on their avatar box.... Instant peace!
If more folk blocked the ejjits then they would soon change their ways and start to respect folk.
Many of the regulars try and 'educate' them regarding manners and respect and in fairness many do take the hint. You will always get the odd one though.
If anyone is more than rude, is more offensive then report their profile. Admin do check every single report.
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
I think it's just the nature of the site. If I go in chat a couple of people will say 'hi', if I go on cam then I get swamped with messages etc
Still can't work our if I should be flattered by it or not lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol Defo not flattering in respect to you have to be visible for peeps to make that effort or even say hello (ahh the quick fixers of the site lol) besides the irony is alot of the messages/ whispers come from those who don't cam or even have pics on their profiles...
The question arises is the site now losing a grip on reality and expectation and are the majority using it as an adult 'fantasy' playground and not a means to the intended end?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I definately find that if I go on cam i get much more people speaking to me , albeit , i have to agree its 'are u getting ur tits out' , or 'what size are those bad boys' , or words to a smiliar effect , not good at all . Yes the cam lets folks see you are who u say u are but it also brings out the perverts who just want to pull their pudding.
I also find I get called fake just because i wont drop my knickers for anyone who asks , but i couldnt care less what that kind of person thinks of me , I dont feel its wrong to want to take a bit of time to get to know someone who u are going to play with a little more than ' i live near u wanna meet' .
This may be a swingers site , but manners and respect should be very far up on the list, so come on people , learn to say hello , and learn some manners and some respect , after all if u cant be nice who is gonna want to have a roll in the hay with you ?
Merely my opinion of course |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of the benefits of the new chat system that is in beta just now is the ability to only accept PM's of friends or turn them off completely.
In the mean time though, what I have seen people do is to just say in the room "Please stop whispering, if you dont I will block you". By blocking them, stops them _iewing your cam and stops their text been visible to you.
OK, this doesnt actually solve the problem of rudeness.... but what will? All the sites we have been on before that have a chat room suffer the same, even those sites that are fully pay sites.
We know someone that pays approx £150 a month to join various adult sites, never meets anyone off them, has fake pics on his 'profile' and just gets off been rude to the women in chat on those sites. (PS. He's not on here)
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Totally _cottishcouple, hence our question has the true meaning and ethos of the site lost on some ortad the case may be an increasing majority and it certainly appears via the behavioural patterns ( that's been consistent over the last few months) that it's fast becomming an Adult Fantasy Playground......lol |
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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago
kirkcaldy |
hardly ever on cam and if i do go on usually just face on it. hardly ever have problems getting people to chat to me. maybe they just feel sorry for me and chat i don't know. maybe its because i usually try and say hi to people when i see them come in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hardly ever on cam and if i do go on usually just face on it. hardly ever have problems getting people to chat to me. maybe they just feel sorry for me and chat i don't know. maybe its because i usually try and say hi to people when i see them come in"
Mad hun ...one simple reason everyone talks to you ......we all loves ya xxxxxxx  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
in the very short time I have been back.. I think the behaviours of some people whilst in chat are better.
seems more respect for people on cam and less ladies getting crap.
apologies if I am wrong tho.
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By *nTCouple
over a year ago
funland |
Dont think the site has lost it's grip on what it is - well not for us anyway. we find the fun we are looking for
do agree with more people chat when the cam is on to some degree but not totally - people who either kow us from the chatroom or socials or meets chat even when the cam isnt on
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Typical, read carefully, we didn't say that.....oh well!
You could ask, are there more chatters, quick fix cammers and timewasters than actual swingers??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally over the time i have been on the site, which is almost a year now , havent found the site to be much different to when i joined , still the same amount of wand wavers who will watch anyones cam just to 'get off'.
Still the same amount of directors trying their luck especially when there is no room mods in, but thats the nature of the site it attracts all sorts.
If the people of the swinging world think this , then its no wonder the vanilla community frown upon swinging in general. |
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