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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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U have a fuck buddy for months and they tell u they want to just fuck u and vice versa to begin with I wasn't sure but did it all the same and have never met anyone else.... seems same can't be said for him. Now I'm aware it's a swingers site but why wud u actually say u want to stick to each other when clearly not honesty surely the best policy . I can't help but have a feeling that in the case I've just been taken for a ride picked up and thrown away when's good for him.. anyone else had similar experiences? ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you mean he agreed to monogomy with you then fucked anything with a pulse no its not right why settle for idiocy"
Not anything with a pulse but couple meets I stupidly went back tho silly me eh. Suppose it's time for some fun now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm intrigued to ho he is so I inow to stay away and not listen to the lies lol x"
As a person he is actually really nice and I really have nothing bad to say really and tbh girls I wouldn't pass him up . I just can't stand lies maybe that's where I'm too sensitive for on here. I just feel that because it's been months maybe I do feel a little hurt only human I suppose x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My interpretation of fuck buddies is 2 people that can call on each other for sex without hassle but who also have the freedom to do the same with others? I may be wrong but what you've described is a relationship and that's where feelings can get in the way. It seems that your interpretations of what you were to each other have differed, nobody's fault just feelings getting in the way. Hope you're ok and you can find what you're looking for in a fuck buddy in the future.  xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My interpretation of fuck buddies is 2 people that can call on each other for sex without hassle but who also have the freedom to do the same with others? I may be wrong but what you've described is a relationship and that's where feelings can get in the way. It seems that your interpretations of what you were to each other have differed, nobody's fault just feelings getting in the way. Hope you're ok and you can find what you're looking for in a fuck buddy in the future. xx"
I think u r right here like. I understand the difference between a fb and fwb but it was more the fact he said we will only fuck each other no one else. But anyways I know I'd rather have a fwb now tbh so off I go to try and find that xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"U have a fuck buddy for months and they tell u they want to just fuck u and vice versa to begin with I wasn't sure but did it all the same and have never met anyone else.... seems same can't be said for him. Now I'm aware it's a swingers site but why wud u actually say u want to stick to each other when clearly not honesty surely the best policy . I can't help but have a feeling that in the case I've just been taken for a ride picked up and thrown away when's good for him.. anyone else had similar experiences? ?"
Taken for a ride no pun intended lol
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"U have a fuck buddy for months and they tell u they want to just fuck u and vice versa to begin with I wasn't sure but did it all the same and have never met anyone else.... seems same can't be said for him. Now I'm aware it's a swingers site but why wud u actually say u want to stick to each other when clearly not honesty surely the best policy . I can't help but have a feeling that in the case I've just been taken for a ride picked up and thrown away when's good for him.. anyone else had similar experiences? ?
Taken for a ride no pun intended lol
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I did think about this after I had posted lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"U have a fuck buddy for months and they tell u they want to just fuck u and vice versa to begin with I wasn't sure but did it all the same and have never met anyone else.... seems same can't be said for him. Now I'm aware it's a swingers site but why wud u actually say u want to stick to each other when clearly not honesty surely the best policy . I can't help but have a feeling that in the case I've just been taken for a ride picked up and thrown away when's good for him.. anyone else had similar experiences? ?
Taken for a ride no pun intended lol
I did think about this after I had posted lol "
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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people lie to get what they want... both genders.
it's a NSA site, you may be too sensitive for the site as many, many people will say what they think you want to hear.
in swinging and in life. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"and the slave thing, may give the non slave to think they have the upper hand and they can do as they wish and you will do as they wish...."
That's very valid point think I'll take that off thanks xc |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"and the slave thing, may give the non slave to think they have the upper hand and they can do as they wish and you will do as they wish....
That's very valid point think I'll take that off thanks xc"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why would you ever agree not to sleep with anyone else in this situation? You're not in a relationship. Is it possible you had feelings for him and hoped more would develop?"
I don't even know myself anymore . More fool me. Lesson well and truly learned |
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