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If tomorrow you were outed as being a swinger
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just something I often think about, so if tomorrow you were outed as being a swinger. If you could save one person from finding out who would it be and why ?
Mines I'd say would be my mum because she just gets so nervous and anxious over everyday things xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me I'd say no one, my life, my choices to do as I wish with them. People that know me that didnt like it they can let the door hit them on the bum on the way out my life.  .
No one is perfect and people in glass houses.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think there's still a huge stigma attached and as much as it's my life and my choices . There's still people most of h's would want to protect from knowing as they a)wouldn't quite understand it or b) would worry about the safety and risks that comes with it as a single female in my case . Though it's not that different to meeting someone in a bar or on a dating site .Then again my mum wouldn't like that thought either lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think it's the age old thing it's ok for a man but frowned upon for a female , and if your a single woman you should be tarred and feathered , think a female can never win , where a man is just one of the boy's , sorry girls. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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While no one knows I'm on this site most know I'm a bit of a dirty so can't say it really bothers me if close relatives found out. Awkward yes, but they've found out worse about me before and I wasn't disowned then..  |
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I am a firm believer that my life choices are my own to make and that only I can let others judgement of me affect me.
That being said I wouldn't want this choice rubbed in the face of our kids. More for their benefit than mine though.
Mrs S |
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"I am a firm believer that my life choices are my own to make and that only I can let others judgement of me affect me.
That being said I wouldn't want this choice rubbed in the face of our kids. More for their benefit than mine though.
Mrs S "
^^^this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't want my kids to know or for people to use it as a reason to bully them
To be honest though I don't class myself as a swinger. I'm single and here for the banter mostly. Aside from it getting back to my children I wouldn't care who knew. |
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