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Is chivalry required?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On this site not all have manners sadly there are few cavemen who think women are here for a service and chat & meet on there say so but thankfully few with manners and respect so age of chivary isnt completely dead  |
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"In this day and age (and on a site like this) is chivalry still appreciated and desirable, or should we all revert back to our caveman roots?"
Totally alive and well but sadly not all men have it .
Gentlemen are my prefered choice of playmates but they must also have that nawty streak that also attract me to them  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In this day and age (and on a site like this) is chivalry still appreciated and desirable, or should we all revert back to our caveman roots?Totally alive and well but sadly not all men have it .
Gentlemen are my prefered choice of playmates but they must also have that nawty streak that also attract me to them "
Not a true gentleman if they don't have that nawty streak to begin with in my opinion  |
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"Chivalry and manners are diffrent things if defending a female from harsh words then no they are quitebcapable ofholding their own if manners all should have these"
Your quite right Kola in that women are capable of holding their own but I for one think its nice when a gentleman will comes to your defence once in awhile .
Ive also seen a few gentlemen do this on here and it is nice to see . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I agree, that said if a woman was getting abuse I would jump in..as I would if the same thing was happening outdoors...I suppose that's the way I was brought up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree, that said if a woman was getting abuse I would jump in..as I would if the same thing was happening outdoors...I suppose that's the way I was brought upThats a true gentleman   "
with caveman tendencies  lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Chivalry and manners are diffrent things if defending a female from harsh words then no they are quitebcapable ofholding their own if manners all should have theseYour quite right Kola in that women are capable of holding their own but I for one think its nice when a gentleman will comes to your defence once in awhile .
Ive also seen a few gentlemen do this on here and it is nice to see ."
Of course women can look after themselves and certainly don't require us gents to protect them, however we should always treat them like the ladies they are and go that extra mile to make them feel special. If however some man starts getting out of line then times do require swift action to put them in their place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree, that said if a woman was getting abuse I would jump in..as I would if the same thing was happening outdoors...I suppose that's the way I was brought upThats a true gentleman
with caveman tendencies lol"
Haha you hiding that club |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I pride myself in being a gentleman at all times. I'm not sure if it's always appreciated as I do try to display it at all times. I know there is a massive imbalance of lady's to gents here and sometimes wonder if being polite and respectful is sometimes a reason for not receiving much feed back. That being said I wouldn't want to change that and of it's not appreciated so be it (sure there's a French phrase for that!).
Manners as has been said many times in this thread cost nothing! However, please and thank you are perhaps not attractive in the bedroom! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I as a woman can hold my own never needed a man to defend me.
My brother still cracks up because I tend to be the protective one of everybody.
He tells people her bite is worse than her bark 
But being to much of a gentleman bores me I need excitement |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's the thing, every man can be a gentleman as every an can be a "caveman" its just some don't know when to be one or the other.
I see myself as a gentleman, will always respect the other person, I think you can tell when the time is right to unleash the caveman lol...if you cant then you need to have a look at yerself...if you get my meaning.. |
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"That's the thing, every man can be a gentleman as every an can be a "caveman" its just some don't know when to be one or the other.
I see myself as a gentleman, will always respect the other person, I think you can tell when the time is right to unleash the caveman lol...if you cant then you need to have a look at yerself...if you get my meaning.."
And thats what i met by the gentleman with the nawty streak lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A gentleman always holds the door open for a lady, a true gentleman slaps her ass as she's walking through the door "
That's the man I'm thinking of lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree, that said if a woman was getting abuse I would jump in..as I would if the same thing was happening outdoors...I suppose that's the way I was brought up"
Couldn't agree more |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A gentleman always holds the door open for a lady, a true gentleman slaps her ass as she's walking through the door "
I know one of those very well.
He knows that I'm a strong, capable woman but treats me like a lady....always. "You know who you are" Lol  |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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"A gentleman always holds the door open for a lady, a true gentleman slaps her ass as she's walking through the door
I know one of those very well.
He knows that I'm a strong, capable woman but treats me like a lady....always. "You know who you are" Lol "
Sounds to me like that AndyKay, you been bribing him with cake again?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A gentleman always holds the door open for a lady, a true gentleman slaps her ass as she's walking through the door
I know one of those very well.
He knows that I'm a strong, capable woman but treats me like a lady....always. "You know who you are" Lol
Sounds to me like that AndyKay, you been bribing him with cake again? "
Saying nothing.....  |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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"A gentleman always holds the door open for a lady, a true gentleman slaps her ass as she's walking through the door
I know one of those very well.
He knows that I'm a strong, capable woman but treats me like a lady....always. "You know who you are" Lol
Sounds to me like that AndyKay, you been bribing him with cake again?
Saying nothing..... "
Not like you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's important to me. I'm very independent but I do still like the idea of it. However I think sometimes your expectations drop and people then get just as far without it so stop making the effort.
It should work both ways though. Women should also follow the lady code. It's a bit lost on here too though I suppose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally, even if chivalry was on the way out I'd still do what I could to keep it going.
I held a door open for a woman at work and she looked completely stunned. That said, I work with a bunch of neanderthals and social hand grenades. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Manners are always to the fore...and Chivalry is defence of anyone under attack.
I have on a number of occasions defended ladies in chat...when they have come under attack...I know that most people are well capable of defending themselves...it does no harm in adding some weight to that.
To be honest I would never want to be described as a caveman...and I am never boring or bored...my over active imagination makes sure if that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My father insisted manners and a shine on your shoes cost nothing and I have stuck with that all my life !!!"
Add to that "manners maketh the man" and I'm with you all the way |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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People seem to be confusing chivalry and manners, two different things.
Right back at the beginning of my time on here, I defended and supported a lady and got dogs' abuse for it. But I have a long memory!! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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The white knight syndrome is a fasinating one, it is lovely to see when they are supporting the lady, it is funny to watch them then fall out and have spats in the forums.
Then the white knight become the person they were defending the lady from... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My father insisted manners and a shine on your shoes cost nothing and I have stuck with that all my life !!!
Add to that "manners maketh the man" and I'm with you all the way"
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