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"How much do you stick by this or doesn't it apply . If you get to know someone do you find the attraction grows , when possibly it wasn't there initially ? When people msg me I tend to look at the same type of guy and dismiss anything outwith that for the most part . I've always tended to go with the broader bigger bald , shaved head type look I Like a guy to be taller than me ,tattooed and smell good and be clean shaven but how much are people willing to deviate away from this ? I know I have in the past found myself becoming attracted to people who if they msgd me I'd most likely say a straight out sorry no thanks to . When swinging do you say that this applies in the same way if you were for example" dating " I wonder this when I see on some people's profile that size weight colour age doesn't matter . What's your thoughts on this ?? " when I first joined I did have a specific type and to a certain degree I still do. But I think when meeting someone face to face ie at socials and parties that soon changes and as you said it's the connection you feel with someone,the personality,confidence and just a feel you get about the person. I have gone on to have fun with people I once dismissed through emails once I've met them at socials and parties lol | |||
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"Grrr phone . That should be your type not you're "Self correcting your grammar Shelley, that makes me need to take a cold shower! Phew! In the past, a definite type that I would say was my ideal, the arty indie/rock chick look used to be it. I find talent extraordinarily attractive, if given the choice between a glamorous and typically sexy, blonde bombshell who is vapid and talentless and a girl-next-door cellist, then I would take the cellist every time. Attraction for me is very much a fluid, abstract notion and I would never dismiss anyone because of a box-ticking or categorization exercise if they weren't strictly my type. To me, I can be attracted to someone regardless of shape, creed, nose shape, size of breasts, etcetera. Things just have to be beautiful proportionately - it's all down to curves; the curve of her lips, the curve between the nape of her neck and her shoulder, the curve of her breast, down the curve of her belly, across the curves of her bum, gliding down the curve of her thighs. What also matters is that indefinable spark, the connection that happens when two people react to each other's body language, mood, sense of humour, touch, smell and presence instantly (although this can indeed grow over time). It can purely be physical, cerebral or spiritual in some way. It can come down to style, culture, status, talent, or even mating call, plumage and extravagant mating dance. My God I sound like a twat. (I'll say that before anyone else says it.) | |||
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"How much do you stick by this or doesn't it apply . If you get to know someone do you find the attraction grows , when possibly it wasn't there initially ? When people msg me I tend to look at the same type of guy and dismiss anything outwith that for the most part . I've always tended to go with the broader bigger bald , shaved head type look I Like a guy to be taller than me ,tattooed and smell good and be clean shaven but how much are people willing to deviate away from this ? I know I have in the past found myself becoming attracted to people who if they msgd me I'd most likely say a straight out sorry no thanks to . When swinging do you say that this applies in the same way if you were for example" dating " I wonder this when I see on some people's profile that size weight colour age doesn't matter . What's your thoughts on this ?? when I first joined I did have a specific type and to a certain degree I still do. But I think when meeting someone face to face ie at socials and parties that soon changes and as you said it's the connection you feel with someone,the personality,confidence and just a feel you get about the person. I have gone on to have fun with people I once dismissed through emails once I've met them at socials and parties lol " Yeah I agree  | |||
"Sometimes what you think is your type when you get to know them you find out there not.I tend to now be more attracted to the person than base it all on looks.Although looks do matter a good sense of humour and good chat is also important to me personally " | |||
"I've learned thou life via both work and play not to use first appearances as peoples personalities have so much more to offer and tell. Yes it can take time for the real person to bubble to the surface but it's usually worth the effort and wait. With my previous work I have recruited some amazing team members who just needed encouragement to demonstrate those skills. only if their a complete pri*k will I just cut and run. Its the same for fab, people come in many wrappings and quirks. that's what makes this world different and interesting. Yes we all have our "current" view of our dream person but as you experience more or your horizons are widens, that usually changes. That's true for geographical local too as some of my lifes experiences would never have happened if I had not travelled with work. Enjoy life, keep your eyes and mind open, consider the different view of the world... then enjoy it!" some really good points in this post .. Some have many more layers than we can ever imagine | |||
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"Grrr phone . That should be your type not you're
Self correcting your grammar Shelley, that makes me need to take a cold shower! Phew!
In the past, a definite type that I would say was my ideal, the arty indie/rock chick look used to be it. I find talent extraordinarily attractive, if given the choice between a glamorous and typically sexy, blonde bombshell who is vapid and talentless and a girl-next-door cellist, then I would take the cellist every time. Attraction for me is very much a fluid, abstract notion and I would never dismiss anyone because of a box-ticking or categorization exercise if they weren't strictly my type. To me, I can be attracted to someone regardless of shape, creed, nose shape, size of breasts, etcetera. Things just have to be beautiful proportionately - it's all down to curves; the curve of her lips, the curve between the nape of her neck and her shoulder, the curve of her breast, down the curve of her belly, across the curves of her bum, gliding down the curve of her thighs. What also matters is that indefinable spark, the connection that happens when two people react to each other's body language, mood, sense of humour, touch, smell and presence instantly (although this can indeed grow over time). It can purely be physical, cerebral or spiritual in some way. It can come down to style, culture, status, talent, or even mating call, plumage and extravagant mating dance.
My God I sound like a twat.
(I'll say that before anyone else says it.)"perfectly put , love how you describe the curves in particular. So you most definitely don't sound like a twat at all Another great post | |||
"Don't think we have a 'type' that said, we certainly know what we won't like. It's like pics, you get sent some and are maybe not too sure, then you meet them face to face and it's different. I guess if you're around people long enough you develop a natural bond anyhoo, which could lead in the attraction direction. B" I agree with the being around people part too here | |||
"I've been told I have a type by my friends but I don't really see it myself. I think a connection is a lot more important than physical appearance. I have been known to say thanks but no thanks to guys in their twenties though just because I do prefer an older gentleman " I think that type is very similar to mine haha
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"A pulse and breathing normally does the trick for me "lol xx | |||
"I (D) do have a type when it comes to guys, I like them to be taller than me (not hard as I'm only 5'4"), I prefer them broad and for some reason I like a shaved head. Having said that when I meet someone it kind of goes out the window as if they can make me laugh then they're in with a chance lol. As for women, its all in the eyes! "I'm the same as you D ... As for the woman I'm very glad you said that as I think that's really important and maybe it's for another thread but for me to be want to be with a woman just because both female aren't bisexual does that mean the 2 of you are necessarily into one another . I tend to more go for blondes than dark haired and smile teeth and eyed in a woman gets me | |||
"I judge each person on their own mmerits and don't specify type on my profile. Beauty is skin deep and yes attraction is a big thing but sometimes it's good to look beyond." very true . You're spot in | |||
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"I (D) do have a type when it comes to guys, I like them to be taller than me (not hard as I'm only 5'4"), I prefer them broad and for some reason I like a shaved head. Having said that when I meet someone it kind of goes out the window as if they can make me laugh then they're in with a chance lol. As for women, its all in the eyes! I'm the same as you D ...
As for the woman I'm very glad you said that as I think that's really important and maybe it's for another thread but for me to be want to be with a woman just because both female aren't bisexual does that mean the 2 of you are necessarily into one another . I tend to more go for blondes than dark haired and smile teeth and eyed in a woman gets me "Mr kk, Taller than 5'4" - ? tick broadish - ? tick Shaved head - ? tick Mrs kk, Nice eyes - ? tick
Blonde hair - ? tick
Smile - ? tick
We could be heading for a great Friday at this rate!!!
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"I've learned thou life via both work and play not to use first appearances as peoples personalities have so much more to offer and tell. Yes it can take time for the real person to bubble to the surface but it's usually worth the effort and wait. With my previous work I have recruited some amazing team members who just needed encouragement to demonstrate those skills. only if their a complete pri*k will I just cut and run. Its the same for fab, people come in many wrappings and quirks. that's what makes this world different and interesting. Yes we all have our "current" view of our dream person but as you experience more or your horizons are widens, that usually changes. That's true for geographical local too as some of my lifes experiences would never have happened if I had not travelled with work. Enjoy life, keep your eyes and mind open, consider the different view of the world... then enjoy it!some really good points in this post .. Some have many more layers than we can ever imagine "Thanks Shelley, it takes awhile to get to know people and awhile to get to know me and my secrets  x | |||
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"i know its a cliché but personality goes a long way along with a sense of humour...its all fun at the end of the day..i do enjoy getting to know people who are in reality strangers and if we connect all the better." | |||
"I (D) do have a type when it comes to guys, I like them to be taller than me (not hard as I'm only 5'4"), I prefer them broad and for some reason I like a shaved head. Having said that when I meet someone it kind of goes out the window as if they can make me laugh then they're in with a chance lol. As for women, its all in the eyes! I'm the same as you D ...
As for the woman I'm very glad you said that as I think that's really important and maybe it's for another thread but for me to be want to be with a woman just because both female aren't bisexual does that mean the 2 of you are necessarily into one another . I tend to more go for blondes than dark haired and smile teeth and eyed in a woman gets me
Mr kk,
Taller than 5'4" - ? tick
broadish - ? tick
Shaved head - ? tick
Mrs kk,
Nice eyes - ? tick
Blonde hair - ? tick
Smile - ? tick
We could be heading for a great Friday at this rate!!!
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"My type good personality Can hold a conversion Good hygiene Looks after there self fit Age isn't really an issue Need to feel comfortable with them Not selfish Honest Is that asking to much ????" for some they will be anything you want them to be
Well for a while till the mask slips | |||
"My type good personality Can hold a conversion Good hygiene Looks after there self fit Age isn't really an issue Need to feel comfortable with them Not selfish Honest Is that asking to much ????for some they will be anything you want them to be
Well for a while till the mask slips " | |||
"My type good personality Can hold a conversion Good hygiene Looks after there self fit Age isn't really an issue Need to feel comfortable with them Not selfish Honest Is that asking to much ????" Here I am LOL xx | |||
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"Beauty is only skin deep. I need someone who can communicate, have a laugh & isnt full of themselves x" Aye | |||
"Beauty is only skin deep. I need someone who can communicate, have a laugh & isnt full of themselves x" Spot on, someone who can engage the brain as much as the libido | |||
"Beauty is only skin deep. I need someone who can communicate, have a laugh & isnt full of themselves x Spot on, someone who can engage the brain as much as the libido "Guess we can all agree on this, spot on | |||
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