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over a year ago
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I enjoy face sitting fun but you can control how long you get smothered for before having to gasp for air,better than holding your face under the water when in the bath.
Had an ex who used to like me to gently choke/hold her throat when fucking her. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I love the extreme _iews i read - it doesnt have to be about hurting people or choking people, i dont hurt people or choke them and been doing it for a while. A hand around her throat can be very gentle and as many have found out can heighten the orgasm you have - this is not choking.
Its like say swinging is about mad sex orgies - yes for some but im guessing not for most.
Maybe people just arent aware of these things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love the extreme _iews i read - it doesnt have to be about hurting people or choking people, i dont hurt people or choke them and been doing it for a while. A hand around her throat can be very gentle and as many have found out can heighten the orgasm you have - this is not choking.
Its like say swinging is about mad sex orgies - yes for some but im guessing not for most.
Maybe people just arent aware of these things."
this xx |
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Most probably don't understand the true art of bdsm play and how it could be as much about controlling the mind rather than the touch etc...
But that's because it's a swinging site I suppose a very different world to bdsm etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love the extreme _iews i read - it doesnt have to be about hurting people or choking people, i dont hurt people or choke them and been doing it for a while. A hand around her throat can be very gentle and as many have found out can heighten the orgasm you have - this is not choking.
Its like say swinging is about mad sex orgies - yes for some but im guessing not for most.
Maybe people just arent aware of these things."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most probably don't understand the true art of bdsm play and how it could be as much about controlling the mind rather than the touch etc...
But that's because it's a swinging site I suppose a very different world to bdsm etc "
also got that fuknugget that wrote 50 Shades on Andrex. Certainly no marquis de sade. |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"Most probably don't understand the true art of bdsm play and how it could be as much about controlling the mind rather than the touch etc...
But that's because it's a swinging site I suppose a very different world to bdsm etc "
It's more about stimulating the mind but with a little help from the body too  |
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I've met a couple of ladies who wanted it and one even came out with a demand for it in the middle of fucking her.
Something that I'm not very comfortable with. However, the idea of mask play is appealing and would like to find out more about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs likes getting her neck held (site wont allow me to post with the correct term for this, when did that happen)
Especially at the point of orgasm.
I think something like this needs to be with someone you know and trust as you could kill someone if not done right.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've done this lots and on 1st meets too, I've a wealth of experience at this but it's really up to the lady and you need to have some safety guards in place . |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"I like it.....BUT.....with a very very trusted partner! And discussing first.  "
I agree with this .... once on a meet many years ago a bloke did this to me (S was there also) and it totally freaked me out, he couldn't actually see initially with the position he was in but caught sight in a mirror and stopped it! TBH I don't actually think the guy thought he was doing anything wrong he was a really nice bloke just clearly either got too carried away or assumed everyone liked it with people they had just met  |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"No, I'd panic.
Just the hand at your throat without pressure can be enough"
It's not for everyone.
And as I said earlier in the thread there are ways of doing it so she can control the pressure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely a required taste some like it some don't
Like anything involving some kind of BDSM you require
100% trust in whoever you are with then again I find that with 100% of swinging scene if trust not there then no play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I'd panic.
Just the hand at your throat without pressure can be enough
I want to try this but C says no "
Then find someone who will say yes and build trust with them |
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"No, I'd panic.
Just the hand at your throat without pressure can be enough
I want to try this but C says no
Then find someone who will say yes and build trust with them "
I only trust him. It might happen eventually but I'm not going to do anything that he's uncomfortable with me doing |
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By *oney4uCouple
over a year ago
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"No, I'd panic.
Just the hand at your throat without pressure can be enough
I want to try this but C says no
Then find someone who will say yes and build trust with them
I only trust him. It might happen eventually but I'm not going to do anything that he's uncomfortable with me doing "
We do this sometimes. I really like it. It's exciting. Y. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I'd panic.
Just the hand at your throat without pressure can be enough
I want to try this but C says no
Then find someone who will say yes and build trust with them
I only trust him. It might happen eventually but I'm not going to do anything that he's uncomfortable with me doing "
Understandable |
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"No, I'd panic.
Just the hand at your throat without pressure can be enough
I want to try this but C says no
Then find someone who will say yes and build trust with them
I only trust him. It might happen eventually but I'm not going to do anything that he's uncomfortable with me doing "
this amazes me how some miss that its about all partys being comfortable not just the person wanting breath play |
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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago
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"No, I'd panic.
Just the hand at your throat without pressure can be enough
I want to try this but C says no
Then find someone who will say yes and build trust with them
I only trust him. It might happen eventually but I'm not going to do anything that he's uncomfortable with me doing this amazes me how some miss that its about all partys being comfortable not just the person wanting breath play "
Definitely
Both have to be comfortable |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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Any guy that says he isn't comfortable with doing it should be applauded for being honest.
It's not for everyone.
And BOTH parties have to be comfortable with it otherwise there is no point.
So respect to the guys who say no because it is about BOTH parties enjoyment. |
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"No, I'd panic.
Just the hand at your throat without pressure can be enough
I want to try this but C says no
Then find someone who will say yes and build trust with them
I only trust him. It might happen eventually but I'm not going to do anything that he's uncomfortable with me doing
this amazes me how some miss that its about all partys being comfortable not just the person wanting breath play "
We've always said we'd never push to do something the other person was unhappy with, we're a partnership after all. Breath play and BDSM are the only things I'm curious about that he has no interest in, we agree on everything else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any guy that says he isn't comfortable with doing it should be applauded for being honest.
It's not for everyone.
And BOTH parties have to be comfortable with it otherwise there is no point.
So respect to the guys who say no because it is about BOTH parties enjoyment. "
I totally agree. We have been together 13 years. I know every movement my gfs body make during all sutuations.
When I am squeezing her neck I can tell the diffrence very quickly between her having the orgasm of her life and fighting for breath so I know the exact time to let go and also to squeeze again.
This was learned over years and years. I couldnt do it with someone else even if I did think I knew them well enough. I wouldnt fancy my chances in the dock trying to explain "she was into it".
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you'd be kinda shocked by the amount of ladies that enjoy this and it such a turn for them they will do it on a 1st meet, my profile states I'm experienced and I have a couple of decent veris so maybe that sways them but I've done this with lots of ladies the 1st time of meeting them. Maybe it's as simple as they have told me they are submissive and asked me to be a dom so they know to expect whatever I give them ?
I always have a safe work or safe tap in place for safety tho and obviously I know the signs to stop before it's too much . |
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Love doing it though 
