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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Would scaring of any sort put you off having sex With a partner.
Any sort from facial, on the inside of legs or even stretch marks.
Would anyone see this as a turn off or a reason not to meet just curious on different opinions on this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, it wouldn't put us off.
I have a couple of scars on my face, one for a removal of a cancerous growth, and he has one on his face. Both aren't that big.
Usually I'm covered in bruises from my dance class, people do look twice at those more. |
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My scar does bother me always has always will.
I keep it covered at all times.
But as a test to myself I added a photo here on my public gallery and never once has anyone been nasty about it so I know folk are ok about such things.
And if I was to meet someone with a scar I don't think it would bother me either xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Scars wouldn't bother us either, some can even make people look dangerous and sexier!
It comes down a general attraction and although scarring may add or detract from someones looks, we would never not meet someone specifically because they a scar.
J is pretty accident prone and has a few she can show off and I've got a couple of wee ones so yeah, no ones perfect!
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By *omaMan
over a year ago
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I'm thinking the
Majority of folks have some kind of scarring. Whether it be from bumps and scrapes to operational work. Nothing to hide.
Maybe the fact some do try to hide them draws more attention to the scar.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had 3 children so I've got a few tiger stripes on my tummy and it's certainly never going to be flat. It's something I'm very aware of and would never expect anyone to like . However would hope it wouldnt pit someone off. As a few have said no one is perfect and sometimes the flaws can be the most amazing things about a person X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Got stretch marks from pregnancy. Had c section hysterectomy at 29 and had breastfeeding surgery 7 years ago with a fair bit of scarring . But they are part of me and my journey in life so I'm not embarrassed about them now at all . No 2 bodies are the same so be proud of them xx |
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I was severely burnt as a baby on my leg. Resulted in a series of operations to my ankle and lower leg. I have ever since lived with the scars. Not with pride but neither with shame.
I have no option but to accept them as they are a part of me and tell part of my story. To reject my scars is to reject me.
Shy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a guy it has always amazed me that the ladies are all very body concious. To the extent of covering up certain bits even when in bed. I understand that they themselves see it as not nice, but honestly , none of us guys are Greek Gods with Brad Pitt looks. Moobs, pot belly, baldy heads, saggy arses and the rest......enough about me LOL A lady is sexy for who she is and how she acts... not cause she has no wobbly bits or no stretch marks. |
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By *ocknrollerMan
over a year ago
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I thought this was going to be about giving someone a fright hehe
anyway, a past girlfriend had a couple of scars on her shoulder, where they had to cut in for an operation. They were just neat lines though, didnt bother me at all and I can't think why it would have done. She's gone now... 
thanks for reminding me about that, I'm off to sit and feel kinda depressed for the rest of the night, you bugger |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I used to meet someone with scarring around her upper thighs, it didn't bother me in the slightest.
Her constant worry about it, despite many reassurances it didn't bother me did eventually lead to us stopping meeting. She just would never, ever fully relax, it was a shame.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I used to meet someone with scarring around her upper thighs, it didn't bother me in the slightest.
Her constant worry about it, despite many reassurances it didn't bother me did eventually lead to us stopping meeting. She just would never, ever fully relax, it was a shame.
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I can relate to this as it's scaring in my inner thighs i have and the fear it puts people off can put me off meets   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Scars and stretchmarks and lumps and bumps don't bother me in the slightest. I can absolutely understand why some women would worry but my _iew is that it's all the imperfections that make us who we are. Miss Nutella is a real woman and she has things that she's conscious of but I don't see them the way that she does. |
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we haven't played since op but hey who knows 