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"Fuck all wrong with being average m8, we're all average to someone. Be happy with who you are and if others don't appreciate that then their loss  "
being average feels like ure invisible to everyone , everyone says u should stand out make yourelf be noticed nd how can u do that if ure average ? |
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"Fuck all wrong with being average m8, we're all average to someone. Be happy with who you are and if others don't appreciate that then their loss being average feels like ure invisible to everyone , everyone says u should stand out make yourelf be noticed nd how can u do that if ure average ?"
No offence intended but That's your own personal issuesand self confidence nowt to do with being average
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over a year ago
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"Not many want us average folk lol ah well. i would say nae body doesrubbish no every female is looking for king dong you know  "
i dont mean just size of cock i mean everything |
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"Fuck all wrong with being average m8, we're all average to someone. Be happy with who you are and if others don't appreciate that then their loss being average feels like ure invisible to everyone , everyone says u should stand out make yourelf be noticed nd how can u do that if ure average ?
No offence intended but That's your own personal issuesand self confidence nowt to do with being average
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none taken so how are u meant to stand out then ? |
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"Fuck all wrong with being average m8, we're all average to someone. Be happy with who you are and if others don't appreciate that then their loss being average feels like ure invisible to everyone , everyone says u should stand out make yourelf be noticed nd how can u do that if ure average ?
No offence intended but That's your own personal issuesand self confidence nowt to do with being average
none taken so how are u meant to stand out then ? "
Personality , humour, banter , self confidence , personality the lists endless of things that make people stand out ....
But then again this site may not be for you at the moment either if you feel the way you feel. |
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"Fuck all wrong with being average m8, we're all average to someone. Be happy with who you are and if others don't appreciate that then their loss being average feels like ure invisible to everyone , everyone says u should stand out make yourelf be noticed nd how can u do that if ure average ?
No offence intended but That's your own personal issuesand self confidence nowt to do with being average
none taken so how are u meant to stand out then ?
Personality , humour, banter , self confidence , personality the lists endless of things that make people stand out ....
But then again this site may not be for you at the moment either if you feel the way you feel. "
maybe your right but then again wouldnt matter where i went its always the same invisibility . This is the most replies ive had since i joined here on this post compared with messages |
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"Fuck all wrong with being average m8, we're all average to someone. Be happy with who you are and if others don't appreciate that then their loss being average feels like ure invisible to everyone , everyone says u should stand out make yourelf be noticed nd how can u do that if ure average ?
No offence intended but That's your own personal issuesand self confidence nowt to do with being average
none taken so how are u meant to stand out then ?
Personality , humour, banter , self confidence , personality the lists endless of things that make people stand out ....
But then again this site may not be for you at the moment either if you feel the way you feel. maybe your right but then again wouldnt matter where i went its always the same invisibility . This is the most replies ive had since i joined here on this post compared with messages "
So harm in trying other places build yourself up...start slow and work up...
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Sorry thought you ment cock size .
what in your eyes is an average man ?
My own preference is for a confidant man so if your not confident then your not my type ..there is however a big difference between arrogance and confidence .
If your very negative in your outlook that shows and isnt a nice trait to have in my opinion . |
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Ah well just gotta either take advice you have asked for in this thread and other threads or keep trying your way...
All in all its what you make, it's all about your attitude and the effor you make . |
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"Sorry thought you ment cock size .
what in your eyes is an average man ?
My own preference is for a confidant man so if your not confident then your not my type ..there is however a big difference between arrogance and confidence .
If your very negative in your outlook that shows and isnt a nice trait to have in my opinion ."
me whos down to earth got a steady job who lives week to week nothing special about his looks or physique or that . So having a negative outlook is bad so what u meant to have if u keep getting same responses no matter where u go and still end up with nothing ? |
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"Sorry thought you ment cock size .
what in your eyes is an average man ?
My own preference is for a confidant man so if your not confident then your not my type ..there is however a big difference between arrogance and confidence .
If your very negative in your outlook that shows and isnt a nice trait to have in my opinion . me whos down to earth got a steady job who lives week to week nothing special about his looks or physique or that . So having a negative outlook is bad so what u meant to have if u keep getting same responses no matter where u go and still end up with nothing ?"
I gave you my opinion im not attracted to men who are so negative all the time maybe some other women might be |
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"Sorry thought you ment cock size .
what in your eyes is an average man ?
My own preference is for a confidant man so if your not confident then your not my type ..there is however a big difference between arrogance and confidence .
If your very negative in your outlook that shows and isnt a nice trait to have in my opinion . me whos down to earth got a steady job who lives week to week nothing special about his looks or physique or that . So having a negative outlook is bad so what u meant to have if u keep getting same responses no matter where u go and still end up with nothing ?"
The vast majority of people on here and other sites are normal people with normal jobs living a normal life in a normal world....
Work, housework, eat , sleep, look after kids.....that's our life....
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"Ah well just gotta either take advice you have asked for in this thread and other threads or keep trying your way...
All in all its what you make, it's all about your attitude and the effor you make ."
thanx cant force people to like me ive txt lots of different people and its a catch 22 situation if people dont talk how do u get to know what people are like ? |
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"You are not a beautiful and unique snowflake..." Fight Club.
We all have quirks and things that differentiates us from the rest, whether or not you'd want to admit or advertise those things is another story.
Sometimes I wish I could be a bit more average in areas of my life, other times I am glad I stand out. I would imagine living with a very exuberant, extroverted, attention seeking psycho bastard would drive someone into the arms of a regular, average joe seeking some sense of normality. So don't knock being average, you're someone's calibration and escape from the intensity and insanity of being anything other than average. mon the average joes! |
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""You are not a beautiful and unique snowflake..." Fight Club.
We all have quirks and things that differentiates us from the rest, whether or not you'd want to admit or advertise those things is another story.
Sometimes I wish I could be a bit more average in areas of my life, other times I am glad I stand out. I would imagine living with a very exuberant, extroverted, attention seeking psycho bastard would drive someone into the arms of a regular, average joe seeking some sense of normality. So don't knock being average, you're someone's calibration and escape from the intensity and insanity of being anything other than average. mon the average joes!"
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Thanx for your opinion , i know everybody likes different things . After 8 yrs an umpteen different sites u would of thought somebody would like me ? |
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"Thanx for your opinion , i know everybody likes different things . After 8 yrs an umpteen different sites u would of thought somebody would like me ? "
If you chill long enough and be less negative and defeatist you mignt find it falls into place....but as I said before the interenet might not be the best place for you to find people. |
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Not sure what average is. Everyone has a body, everyone has a brain and everyone has a sense of morals and humour. The more you enjoy yourself the more people will enjoy you. That's my tuppence worth, love yourself others will do the same. |
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"Thanx for your opinion , i know everybody likes different things . After 8 yrs an umpteen different sites u would of thought somebody would like me ?
If you chill long enough and be less negative and defeatist you mignt find it falls into place....but as I said before the interenet might not be the best place for you to find people. "
yeh i cant do face to face or bars or that either and i dont mingle with people very well and dont have much emotions and very very shy cos with me gaving asperengers so really internet is all i have |
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"Thanx for your opinion , i know everybody likes different things . After 8 yrs an umpteen different sites u would of thought somebody would like me ?
If you chill long enough and be less negative and defeatist you mignt find it falls into place....but as I said before the interenet might not be the best place for you to find people. yeh i cant do face to face or bars or that either and i dont mingle with people very well and dont have much emotions and very very shy cos with me gaving asperengers so really internet is all i have "
Ok confused here if you can't do face to face how will you be abke to play ? |
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"Have you tried going to a social event? There is bound to be some aspect of your personality which is not so average - even if it is just odd TV shows or films you like or something ..."
work 5 days a week and have my son at weekends and with asperengers i stay back from the crowd if u know what i mean ?
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It's a difficult one for you as on the Internet you have to be able to pop out the screen verbally , you have to be able to show personality and humour and to have banter other wise your just another guy.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fuck all wrong with being average m8, we're all average to someone. Be happy with who you are and if others don't appreciate that then their loss being average feels like ure invisible to everyone , everyone says u should stand out make yourelf be noticed nd how can u do that if ure average ?
No offence intended but That's your own personal issuesand self confidence nowt to do with being average
none taken so how are u meant to stand out then ? "
Have you tried a travel size can of lynx on your todger pic?
It makes your cock look HUGE! pmsl !   |
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"Thanx for your opinion , i know everybody likes different things . After 8 yrs an umpteen different sites u would of thought somebody would like me ?
If you chill long enough and be less negative and defeatist you mignt find it falls into place....but as I said before the interenet might not be the best place for you to find people. yeh i cant do face to face or bars or that either and i dont mingle with people very well and dont have much emotions and very very shy cos with me gaving asperengers so really internet is all i have
Ok confused here if you can't do face to face how will you be abke to play ?"
have to get to know sumbody first b4 i meet face to face |
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"Fuck all wrong with being average m8, we're all average to someone. Be happy with who you are and if others don't appreciate that then their loss being average feels like ure invisible to everyone , everyone says u should stand out make yourelf be noticed nd how can u do that if ure average ?
No offence intended but That's your own personal issuesand self confidence nowt to do with being average
none taken so how are u meant to stand out then ?
Have you tried a travel size can of lynx on your todger pic?
It makes your cock look HUGE! pmsl ! "
hahaha no i havnt if folk ask i wud tell them the size |
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Ive read a few of your posts now and the reasons you give for not meeting have varied from working to having son at weekend to being shy and cant meet face to face and all sorts of other things ..maybe its time to rethink you criteria for meeting otherwise your going no where fast . |
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"Ive read a few of your posts now and the reasons you give for not meeting have varied from working to having son at weekend to being shy and cant meet face to face and all sorts of other things ..maybe its time to rethink you criteria for meeting otherwise your going no where fast ."
what do u mean by my criteria for meeting ?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fuck all wrong with being average m8, we're all average to someone. Be happy with who you are and if others don't appreciate that then their loss being average feels like ure invisible to everyone , everyone says u should stand out make yourelf be noticed nd how can u do that if ure average ?
No offence intended but That's your own personal issuesand self confidence nowt to do with being average
none taken so how are u meant to stand out then ?
Have you tried a travel size can of lynx on your todger pic?
It makes your cock look HUGE! pmsl ! hahaha no i havnt if folk ask i wud tell them the size "
Aww well I tried lol.
Best of luck me auld china |
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"Not sure what average is. Everyone has a body, everyone has a brain and everyone has a sense of morals and humour. The more you enjoy yourself the more people will enjoy you. That's my tuppence worth, love yourself others will do the same. "
Spot on !! |
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"Ive read a few of your posts now and the reasons you give for not meeting have varied from working to having son at weekend to being shy and cant meet face to face and all sorts of other things ..maybe its time to rethink you criteria for meeting otherwise your going no where fast . what do u mean by my criteria for meeting ? "
well you dont seem to have on ...you cant meet during the week because you work , you cant meet at weekends because you have your son , your not confident face to face and you cant do socials so what else does that leave you ?  |
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"Fuck all wrong with being average m8, we're all average to someone. Be happy with who you are and if others don't appreciate that then their loss being average feels like ure invisible to everyone , everyone says u should stand out make yourelf be noticed nd how can u do that if ure average ?
No offence intended but That's your own personal issuesand self confidence nowt to do with being average
none taken so how are u meant to stand out then ?
Have you tried a travel size can of lynx on your todger pic?
It makes your cock look HUGE! pmsl ! hahaha no i havnt if folk ask i wud tell them the size
Aww well I tried lol.
Best of luck me auld china "
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"Not sure the swinging life style is the right way to go if your struggling! so what is then ? "
 have you tried coffee mornings? Or maybe the local wri? Lol oh there's a woman in the sun newspaper that's really good at advice emmmm i think her name's deirdre. Dont be so doom and gloom grab life by the balls and get on with it! Peace out  |
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"Ive read a few of your posts now and the reasons you give for not meeting have varied from working to having son at weekend to being shy and cant meet face to face and all sorts of other things ..maybe its time to rethink you criteria for meeting otherwise your going no where fast . what do u mean by my criteria for meeting ? well you dont seem to have on ...you cant meet during the week because you work , you cant meet at weekends because you have your son , your not confident face to face and you cant do socials so what else does that leave you ? "
so basically im fcked lol i can only meet at weekday nites so looks like a monks life for me then lol |
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"Not sure the swinging life style is the right way to go if your struggling! so what is then ?
have you tried coffee mornings? Or maybe the local wri? Lol oh there's a woman in the sun newspaper that's really good at advice emmmm i think her name's deirdre. Dont be so doom and gloom grab life by the balls and get on with it! Peace out "
im just being realistic thats all |
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"Ive read a few of your posts now and the reasons you give for not meeting have varied from working to having son at weekend to being shy and cant meet face to face and all sorts of other things ..maybe its time to rethink you criteria for meeting otherwise your going no where fast . what do u mean by my criteria for meeting ? well you dont seem to have on ...you cant meet during the week because you work , you cant meet at weekends because you have your son , your not confident face to face and you cant do socials so what else does that leave you ? so basically im fcked lol i can only meet at weekday nites so looks like a monks life for me then lol"
No if your now saying you can meet weekday nights then there is nothing stopping you from meeting then ? |
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"Ive read a few of your posts now and the reasons you give for not meeting have varied from working to having son at weekend to being shy and cant meet face to face and all sorts of other things ..maybe its time to rethink you criteria for meeting otherwise your going no where fast . what do u mean by my criteria for meeting ? well you dont seem to have on ...you cant meet during the week because you work , you cant meet at weekends because you have your son , your not confident face to face and you cant do socials so what else does that leave you ? so basically im fcked lol i can only meet at weekday nites so looks like a monks life for me then lolNo if your now saying you can meet weekday nights then there is nothing stopping you from meeting then ?"
have to chat first tho |
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"Ive read a few of your posts now and the reasons you give for not meeting have varied from working to having son at weekend to being shy and cant meet face to face and all sorts of other things ..maybe its time to rethink you criteria for meeting otherwise your going no where fast . what do u mean by my criteria for meeting ? well you dont seem to have on ...you cant meet during the week because you work , you cant meet at weekends because you have your son , your not confident face to face and you cant do socials so what else does that leave you ? so basically im fcked lol i can only meet at weekday nites so looks like a monks life for me then lolNo if your now saying you can meet weekday nights then there is nothing stopping you from meeting then ? have to chat first tho "
lol good luck |
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"  just a thought but maybe your kink of rasperberry jam and ramming cougettes up yer pooper whilst hanging upside down in your wardrobe might be putting people off, each to their own though "
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Lots of people offering advice but you keep putting barriers up. If you do that on messages to people then you have no chance. I wish you well but trying to get the sorry vote very rarely works on sites like this! |
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"Ive read a few of your posts now and the reasons you give for not meeting have varied from working to having son at weekend to being shy and cant meet face to face and all sorts of other things ..maybe its time to rethink you criteria for meeting otherwise your going no where fast . what do u mean by my criteria for meeting ? well you dont seem to have on ...you cant meet during the week because you work , you cant meet at weekends because you have your son , your not confident face to face and you cant do socials so what else does that leave you ? so basically im fcked lol i can only meet at weekday nites so looks like a monks life for me then lolNo if your now saying you can meet weekday nights then there is nothing stopping you from meeting then ? have to chat first tho lol good luck "
thsnx need more than luck tho more like a miracle lol nd oh dinnae woorry about me asking to be a butler cos i ken it wud never happen |
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"Lots of people offering advice but you keep putting barriers up. If you do that on messages to people then you have no chance. I wish you well but trying to get the sorry vote very rarely works on sites like this! "
i aint looking for the sympathy vote and im just telling u all my difficulties it doesnt matter what i put on my profile cos i get the same responses if i get any but at least with what i do have on my profile it has made sumbody laugh tonite so thats guid
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"Ive read a few of your posts now and the reasons you give for not meeting have varied from working to having son at weekend to being shy and cant meet face to face and all sorts of other things ..maybe its time to rethink you criteria for meeting otherwise your going no where fast . what do u mean by my criteria for meeting ? well you dont seem to have on ...you cant meet during the week because you work , you cant meet at weekends because you have your son , your not confident face to face and you cant do socials so what else does that leave you ? so basically im fcked lol i can only meet at weekday nites so looks like a monks life for me then lolNo if your now saying you can meet weekday nights then there is nothing stopping you from meeting then ? have to chat first tho lol good luck thsnx need more than luck tho more like a miracle lol nd oh dinnae woorry about me asking to be a butler cos i ken it wud never happen what you on about ? "
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"Ive read a few of your posts now and the reasons you give for not meeting have varied from working to having son at weekend to being shy and cant meet face to face and all sorts of other things ..maybe its time to rethink you criteria for meeting otherwise your going no where fast . what do u mean by my criteria for meeting ? well you dont seem to have on ...you cant meet during the week because you work , you cant meet at weekends because you have your son , your not confident face to face and you cant do socials so what else does that leave you ? so basically im fcked lol i can only meet at weekday nites so looks like a monks life for me then lolNo if your now saying you can meet weekday nights then there is nothing stopping you from meeting then ? have to chat first tho lol good luck thsnx need more than luck tho more like a miracle lol nd oh dinnae woorry about me asking to be a butler cos i ken it wud never happen what you on about ? ladies nite post"
It's on a weekend can you do weekend? |
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"Woah woah woah hold your horses, it's just come to me there! It's not very often i get these brain farts but none of our advice will help you out at all you lot are silly...... it's those ladies on the undateables he needs to chat to they really are amazing with this sort of thing sumtimes i excel myself lol "
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"Ive read a few of your posts now and the reasons you give for not meeting have varied from working to having son at weekend to being shy and cant meet face to face and all sorts of other things ..maybe its time to rethink you criteria for meeting otherwise your going no where fast . what do u mean by my criteria for meeting ? well you dont seem to have on ...you cant meet during the week because you work , you cant meet at weekends because you have your son , your not confident face to face and you cant do socials so what else does that leave you ? so basically im fcked lol i can only meet at weekday nites so looks like a monks life for me then lolNo if your now saying you can meet weekday nights then there is nothing stopping you from meeting then ? have to chat first tho lol good luck thsnx need more than luck tho more like a miracle lol nd oh dinnae woorry about me asking to be a butler cos i ken it wud never happen what you on about ? ladies nite post
It's on a weekend can you do weekend? "
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