What do people think about meeting with people who have a disability, i myself do but not that bad as far as im concerned but have been finding that as soon as its mentioned ppl just stop replying alltogether without even bothering to find out what or why etc.
Just wondered what peoples thoughts were. Or am i just wasting time here due to this fact  |
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Probably best not to tell people mate it's sad but people on this site won't meet sum1 if they don't like ur username they are that picky, if it's not something that anyone would see or notice then keep it to urself a think, good luck  |
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"Have to tell them as it is noticeable but not like totally major n wuld rather just b honest anyway"
Nothing wrong with being honest if folk don't want to meet its their loss.
I have two sons who are disabled my kids get stares.
Disability can't be helped but ignorence can |
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"What do people think about meeting with people who have a disability, i myself do but not that bad as far as im concerned but have been finding that as soon as its mentioned ppl just stop replying alltogether without even bothering to find out what or why etc.
Just wondered what peoples thoughts were. Or am i just wasting time here due to this fact "
I met a lovely gentleman a few years ago who was in a wheelchair.
He was straight and upfront with me from when we first started chatting .
due to our shift patterns and stuff we didnt manage to arrange a play meet but i would have without a doubt .
I think if you can get at least a social meet its a start .
Im glad i was able to see the person rather than the disability because he was a lovely man  |
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"Have to tell them as it is noticeable but not like totally major n wuld rather just b honest anyway
Nothing wrong with being honest if folk don't want to meet its their loss.
I have two sons who are disabled my kids get stares.
Disability can't be helped but ignorence can "
i know its just so annoying id rather they asked or even were just open and said that reason just not ignore me, i mean i still have a huge sex drive n can do pretty much everythin sum1 else could just hoping to find some1 willing to meet who isnt bothered by it. (Heres hoping) |
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If someone cant face meeting someone who is disabled then its their problem not that of the person with the disability.
Personally id have no problem meeting someone with a disability,and id think even more of them for not letting it getting in the way of them living a normal life |
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"What do people think about meeting with people who have a disability, i myself do but not that bad as far as im concerned but have been finding that as soon as its mentioned ppl just stop replying alltogether without even bothering to find out what or why etc.
Just wondered what peoples thoughts were. Or am i just wasting time here due to this fact I met a lovely gentleman a few years ago who was in a wheelchair.
He was straight and upfront with me from when we first started chatting .
due to our shift patterns and stuff we didnt manage to arrange a play meet but i would have without a doubt .
I think if you can get at least a social meet its a start .
Im glad i was able to see the person rather than the disability because he was a lovely man "
thats what i mean if people would just chat they wuld find out i try my best not to let it stop me and been told im naughtier and prob hornier than non disabled ppl lol sumtimes i think ppl think its like oh he disabled doesnt need fun |
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"If someone cant face meeting someone who is disabled then its their problem not that of the person with the disability.
Personally id have no problem meeting someone with a disability,and id think even more of them for not letting it getting in the way of them living a normal life"
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"What do people think about meeting with people who have a disability, i myself do but not that bad as far as im concerned but have been finding that as soon as its mentioned ppl just stop replying alltogether without even bothering to find out what or why etc.
Just wondered what peoples thoughts were. Or am i just wasting time here due to this fact I met a lovely gentleman a few years ago who was in a wheelchair.
He was straight and upfront with me from when we first started chatting .
due to our shift patterns and stuff we didnt manage to arrange a play meet but i would have without a doubt .
I think if you can get at least a social meet its a start .
Im glad i was able to see the person rather than the disability because he was a lovely man
thats what i mean if people would just chat they wuld find out i try my best not to let it stop me and been told im naughtier and prob hornier than non disabled ppl lol sumtimes i think ppl think its like oh he disabled doesnt need fun "
i forgot i actually met another guy with a disability and he was lovely too so stick with it and im sure u will find some lovely people to meet xx |
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Ty mizzrandomnymph id love to chat n get to know you more if ud like but at min i dont have pics on here as didnt feel comfortable puttin them up 4 same reasons as post so i cannot msg u if ud like to msg me id love to chat |
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I find with this site it doesn't matter what u look like (disability or not) I find if it's someone that u get on with and have a good laugh with then it's more the chemistry with people that make me want to meet someone !
So id suggest don't mention ur disability until u feel u have a good repor with someone that u feel u would like to meet then let them know about it ! If they reject u or ignore u after that then they are shallow and not someone u would want to meet with anyway . Well that's my view anyway !
I'd rather meet someone I know I can have a good laugh and feel comfortable with , than have someone that's hot and there is no spark with !
Sex site but not always about the sex ! I'm more for the new friends mostly .  |
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Nope I wouldn't but hey that's just me
And always be up front about it as how bad and awkward would you feel if you met face to face and had to explain?
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"Nope I wouldn't but hey that's just me
And always be up front about it as how bad and awkward would you feel if you met face to face and had to explain?
Auds "
See thats y i always am upfront about it but i just wish others wuld b if bothers them or that instead of just ignoring msgs after starting a convo b4 that point id much rather i was told upfront 2 |
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The thing is, it's hard for guys because of the numbers game, way too many of us compared to women, try and look at it that way, maybe it's not your disability, maybe it is, but keep at it and keep chatting and hopefully it will work out for you.
Don't give up on it though, good luck |
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"I have no problem meeting someone who has a disability, visible or not. If they are honest and they are being themselves and we get on, then not an issue.
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ty its good to know not every1 on here will ignore msgs as that how it seemed.
Would it be ok to send u a wee message so we culd chat sum? |
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"What do people think about meeting with people who have a disability, i myself do but not that bad as far as im concerned but have been finding that as soon as its mentioned ppl just stop replying alltogether without even bothering to find out what or why etc.
Just wondered what peoples thoughts were. Or am i just wasting time here due to this fact "
The best sex I have ever had was with an amputee and nicer person would be hard to find... I use the word 'different' rather than 'disability'... it is what is inside that count |
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"If someone cant face meeting someone who is disabled then its their problem not that of the person with the disability.
Personally id have no problem meeting someone with a disability,and id think even more of them for not letting it getting in the way of them living a normal life"
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