How good are you when someone turns you down.
Do you feel shit and feel down for a while?
Do you say oh well Next!!
Or something else?
I think I'm pretty good with accepting being turned down at least I've made a new chat friend if nothing else.. So I'm definitely a NEXT Kinda girl ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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"I never feel down (unless she asks me lol .) that only makes it easier to show that person u are an adult and let them see u are a fun person to be near . And what fun they will miss lol " yes and for some to realise what a near miss they had when their knock back wasn't accepted to well lol ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By *ocknrollerMan
over a year ago
Glasgow/Stirlingshire |
I was knocked back by someone one here about a week ago when I'd just joined. They actually sent me a hello rather than the other way about, then they blocked me lol. I didnt feel sad for not being their type, but felt it was a bit harshly done at the time.
At least they were honest if a bit harsh, have had worse hehe ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"I was knocked back by someone one here about a week ago when I'd just joined. They actually sent me a hello rather than the other way about, then they blocked me lol. I didnt feel sad for not being their type, but felt it was a bit harshly done at the time.
At least they were honest if a bit harsh, have had worse hehe " I don't understand that myself and there is nothing to stop you from still chatting lol |
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By *ocknrollerMan
over a year ago
Glasgow/Stirlingshire |
"I was knocked back by someone one here about a week ago when I'd just joined. They actually sent me a hello rather than the other way about, then they blocked me lol. I didnt feel sad for not being their type, but felt it was a bit harshly done at the time.
At least they were honest if a bit harsh, have had worse hehe I don't understand that myself and there is nothing to stop you from still chatting lol"
Thats what I had been thinking too, but I'm totally ok with it now, just some people are nice n polite, others are weird and rude. someone else said hello almost straight away so quite happy with how it worked out. |
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"I was knocked back by someone one here about a week ago when I'd just joined. They actually sent me a hello rather than the other way about, then they blocked me lol. I didnt feel sad for not being their type, but felt it was a bit harshly done at the time.
At least they were honest if a bit harsh, have had worse hehe I don't understand that myself and there is nothing to stop you from still chatting lol
Thats what I had been thinking too, but I'm totally ok with it now, just some people are nice n polite, others are weird and rude. someone else said hello almost straight away so quite happy with how it worked out." yeah ul learn fast around here ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Knock backs are just how it goes here...everyone gets them...we are defined by how well we react.
Me personally just think that's a shame...as I know it would have been such fun...then it's next...
I am pretty selective as I like a chat first to see if there is anything happening...it's more than just sex it's the anticipation and the excitement.
But maybe that just me... ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are more your sort of 'next!' type of folk. That is when we get a meet anyway. You've no idea the porkies being told on some people's profiles. That's another reason we are more likely to do the knocking back! |
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By *976scottMan
over a year ago
North Lanarkshire |
I just wish them all the best and happy swinging and move on!
Don't understand why some guys and even girls start the abuse!
Do they think they will turn round and say! Ok he / she has called me whatever I think I made a mistake there should have met them! |
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"Yes u got that one right hun !! When is ur next social nyte .i had meeting u all and met other.s downstairs that I knew had 1or 5 dances I think dj thought I was having a fit lol x " next social is 27th feb which I believe ur already down for lol ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It doesn't really bother me as I'm quite confident anyway. I shave my hair and get knocked back every now and again because I'm 'bald' but I don't see it that way because I choose to shave it lol
I just thank people for taking time to reply and wish them well. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never been knocked back yet from a guy ... I say yet as iv never made the 1st move in asking a guy lol
Cpls yip we have had a no thanks or an ignored message but hey ho we can live with it lol
We ain't that far up our own asses that we think everyone wants to meet us lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You mean some people actually agree to meet others!!!!!!!!!!
I had just assumed from my experience that knockbacks were the norm, I get enough practice at it ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"Firstly I like to say how shocked i was that someone knocked back Nawty_MissDynomite !
Does it count as a knock back if the other party don't reply or don't turn up for a meet ?
Next. " lol I didn't say I had been knocked back.... But yes I have in the past and that's absolutely fine as we're not all going to like everyone we meet.
But where knockbacks have come by either party I have still remaind friends with most of them.
It's about being adult enough and knowing how to behave when someone doesn't want to take things any further after a coffee meet. ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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"Firstly I like to say how shocked i was that someone knocked back Nawty_MissDynomite !
Does it count as a knock back if the other party don't reply or don't turn up for a meet ?
Next. "
Funnist thing iv seen on here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A guy asked me today to come to his office for a fuck, I said I'm not a snob but that's not for me so said nah sorry and his reply was it obvious with your Grammar your not a snob then blocked me haha
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"A guy asked me today to come to his office for a fuck, I said I'm not a snob but that's not for me so said nah sorry and his reply was it obvious with your Grammar your not a snob then blocked me haha
" This made me lol |
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