Think Ive got to a stage of not activly looking and just going with the flow too and see who takes my fancy at any given time .
Sometimes that special someone catches your eye and you just cant help but wanting to have a little fun with them lol  |
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over a year ago
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My approach to life has always been the more you search for things the more they elude you. When I first joined I took advantage of some opportunities that were inviting to me and refused others. I never had a wish list or goals to achieve and still don't now that I'm coming to the end of my journey here. I guess I'm different to most people in that I'm not looking to say I've done "it all". But im happy with what has been. If I was starting again now....I doubt I'd last the course.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined initially for probably a terrible reason, a break up which left me no confidence at all but I definitely regained all of that confidence and more after just my first meet.
Still a lot of things I'd like to do and try, going to CJs for one but building up to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I joined initially for probably a terrible reason, a break up which left me no confidence at all but I definitely regained all of that confidence and more after just my first meet.
Still a lot of things I'd like to do and try, going to CJs for one but building up to them."
At least you have your confidence back well done  |
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By *omaMan
over a year ago
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Lived out 1 or 3 fantasys so far here on Fab . . I think I still have 7 or 9 left in the bank before I hang up my profile for good.
So For those wishing to see the back of me get on with making my last ones come true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think you ever find it tbh, there's always another pretty girl catches your eye! Drives me mad this place sometimes but I can't bring myself to leave :P |
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I originally joined to explore my bi side which iv done but found out im actually more bi than i ever thought i was. iv fulfilled most of my fantasys. Ones happening soon but theres one i dont think il ever get so just need to stay till i get it lol. #nogettingridofme x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well fulfilled a couple of fantasies yes and love being part of the site met some smashing people and hope to meet more cpls now,as for finding what I was hoping for,no,still looking but its very hard to find in scotland,need to go over the border I thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have achieved original goals.
However new goals pop up every year I'm here.
At present though it's suck up and see where the Forums and meets are going at the moment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Still wanting to get Hal a dozen couple in a small private party and get to play spin the bottle it's how I got the bug for group sex in my teens and would love to try again even if it is a bit childish |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I achieved what I was seeking a long time ago, it indulged me at a time that I was needing a focus. That past and my outlook changed, it was fun at the time but I would not repeat it again.
But, I only think of it in a positive light.  |
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Still waiting to get my original ideas realised.
As time goes on I just seem to end up with timewasters.
Spent weeks emailing, phoning and texting the last lady who changed her mind an hour before we were due to meet. |
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"Still wanting to get Hal a dozen couple in a small private party and get to play spin the bottle it's how I got the bug for group sex in my teens and would love to try again even if it is a bit childish"
Ooh Spin the bottle never too old to play this
Just need an empty house and a group of willing participants
Biggest shock for me was about 20 years ago my boss suggested this at a corporate away day. About 10 of us evenly mixed agreed for a laugh
What a fun night
No not childish just fun and what's wrong with childish anyway, these daft games from our outgoing is what started a lot of us into the swinging scene |
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"Still wanting to get Hal a dozen couple in a small private party and get to play spin the bottle it's how I got the bug for group sex in my teens and would love to try again even if it is a bit childish
Ooh Spin the bottle never too old to play this
Just need an empty house and a group of willing participants
Biggest shock for me was about 20 years ago my boss suggested this at a corporate away day. About 10 of us evenly mixed agreed for a laugh
What a fun night
No not childish just fun and what's wrong with childish anyway, these daft games from our outgoing is what started a lot of us into the swinging scene"
fancy a wee game of kiss kick or torture?  |
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"Found what you joined here for or are you still searching for that fantasy or dream scenario?"
Going to be hard to explain in English lol but I don't have an agenda. Fab is extra fun. I go with the flow and where my mood or moods take me.
Not looking to tick boxes on a list.
I am having a great time and meeting some great people... Also had messages from not so nice people... But it is all good! Having a Fab time and experience
Hope this makes sense to someone now lol |
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"Found what you joined here for or are you still searching for that fantasy or dream scenario?
Going to be hard to explain in English lol but I don't have an agenda. Fab is extra fun. I go with the flow and where my mood or moods take me.
Not looking to tick boxes on a list.
I am having a great time and meeting some great people... Also had messages from not so nice people... But it is all good! Having a Fab time and experience
Hope this makes sense to someone now lol "
sounds fabulous but when you first joined was it for something specific or just sexual experiences? |
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"Found what you joined here for or are you still searching for that fantasy or dream scenario?
Going to be hard to explain in English lol but I don't have an agenda. Fab is extra fun. I go with the flow and where my mood or moods take me.
Not looking to tick boxes on a list.
I am having a great time and meeting some great people... Also had messages from not so nice people... But it is all good! Having a Fab time and experience
Hope this makes sense to someone now lol sounds fabulous but when you first joined was it for something specific or just sexual experiences? "
Nothing specific. Sexual self-development, self-discovery and enjoyment. Does that makes sense lol |
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"Found what you joined here for or are you still searching for that fantasy or dream scenario?
Going to be hard to explain in English lol but I don't have an agenda. Fab is extra fun. I go with the flow and where my mood or moods take me.
Not looking to tick boxes on a list.
I am having a great time and meeting some great people... Also had messages from not so nice people... But it is all good! Having a Fab time and experience
Hope this makes sense to someone now lol sounds fabulous but when you first joined was it for something specific or just sexual experiences?
Nothing specific. Sexual self-development, self-discovery and enjoyment. Does that makes sense lol "
of course enjoying it is what it's all about when it stop being fun and enjoyable it's time to close the door xx |
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over a year ago
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"Found what you joined here for or are you still searching for that fantasy or dream scenario?
Going to be hard to explain in English lol but I don't have an agenda. Fab is extra fun. I go with the flow and where my mood or moods take me.
Not looking to tick boxes on a list.
I am having a great time and meeting some great people... Also had messages from not so nice people... But it is all good! Having a Fab time and experience
Hope this makes sense to someone now lol sounds fabulous but when you first joined was it for something specific or just sexual experiences?
Nothing specific. Sexual self-development, self-discovery and enjoyment. Does that makes sense lol "
Makes perfect sense to me!!!! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I achieved what I was seeking a long time ago, it indulged me at a time that I was needing a focus. That past and my outlook changed, it was fun at the time but I would not repeat it again.
But, I only think of it in a positive light. "
passed, not past
in case someone picks me up on my spelling or use of the English language.
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"I achieved what I was seeking a long time ago, it indulged me at a time that I was needing a focus. That past and my outlook changed, it was fun at the time but I would not repeat it again.
But, I only think of it in a positive light.
passed, not past
in case someone picks me up on my spelling or use of the English language.
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I achieved what I was seeking a long time ago, it indulged me at a time that I was needing a focus. That past and my outlook changed, it was fun at the time but I would not repeat it again.
But, I only think of it in a positive light.
passed, not past
in case someone picks me up on my spelling or use of the English language.
as if "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the gap is widening between those who are looking to enhance their sexual experience and those who are searching for ANY kind of sexual activity. Room for both definitely, but with new members being bombarded with pushy messages and leaving after a short while the emphasis on the fact that this is not "instashag" and that patience and respect are required to fulfill fantasies can't be overplayed. Before I set phasers to stun, I was challenged on a daily basis as to why I wouldn't meet and then asked why the hell I was here! Its a sex site after all....[sic]. Be prepared for your wants and desires to change over your journey and take an optimistic but measured approach and you tend to fare much more successfully I feel. Its still all about fun...not angst.  |
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" Before I set phasers to stun, I was challenged on a daily basis as to why I wouldn't meet and then asked why the hell I was here! Its a sex site after all....[sic].
Huh, another timewaster!!   "
Two words....clock and alarm!!!!
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