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over a year ago
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"Don't see the point in renewing it as its been a year one meet  lots talking  its hard for a single guy to get into the swinging seen lol god I've tried   Why not try one of the many socials thats arranged and get yourself known that way ?
Socials are good especially for a single guy like me its a chance to show your nice and genuine and not one of the idiots with 20 cock shots but there aren't that many just the wons you and shelly organise "
Eh?? Excuse me!!! We organised 3 socials in 2014!!! There will be one being organised in the near future too, details to follow..... |
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"Don't see the point in renewing it as its been a year one meet lots talking its hard for a single guy to get into the swinging seen lol god I've tried Why not try one of the many socials thats arranged and get yourself known that way ?
Socials are good especially for a single guy like me its a chance to show your nice and genuine and not one of the idiots with 20 cock shots but there aren't that many just the wons you and shelly organise
Eh?? Excuse me!!! We organised 3 socials in 2014!!! There will be one being organised in the near future too, details to follow....."
Oooooo excited we love your socials xxx |
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By *ee-YinWoman
over a year ago
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"Don't see the point in renewing it as its been a year one meet lots talking its hard for a single guy to get into the swinging seen lol god I've tried Why not try one of the many socials thats arranged and get yourself known that way ?
Socials are good especially for a single guy like me its a chance to show your nice and genuine and not one of the idiots with 20 cock shots but there aren't that many just the wons you and shelly organise "
I done one (my first ever) and arranging a spring social obviously in west Lothian again xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll also add that you cannot accommodate so many will assume you are attached and not be interested. You've also said you're of average build but some of your pics suggest otherwise. |
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I've never used fab with the sole aim of meeting people. Infact it's rare I did. However it's good for some banter and flirtation. I never had the intention of becoming a hard core swinger. I think sometimes that's where people go wrong. They assume it's a sex site. Guaranteed women are not fussy and will shag anything. It's how a lot of these sites are sold. Fact is we are not robots. We are fussy and we all have our own agendas.
Why some feel the need to play the poor me card, or I'm not going to part with another £5 is beyond me. Do you expect us to beg you to stay? Throw ourselves at you?
No one is god's gift to anyone yet so many feel they have some automatic right. It's quite pathetic really.
Man up. Make some effort.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm leaving threads tend to be a last effort to get folk to message, don't go etc. If you were going on a diet you wouldn't be down the local Greggs saying goodbye to staff that you're not coming in for cakes anymore. |
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"I've never used fab with the sole aim of meeting people. Infact it's rare I did. However it's good for some banter and flirtation. I never had the intention of becoming a hard core swinger. I think sometimes that's where people go wrong. They assume it's a sex site. Guaranteed women are not fussy and will shag anything. It's how a lot of these sites are sold. Fact is we are not robotsp. We are fussy and we all have our own agendas.
Why some feel the need to play the poor me card, or I'm not going to part with another £5 is beyond me. Do you expect us to beg you to stay? Throw ourselves at you?
No one is god's gift to anyone yet so many feel they have some automatic right. It's quite pathetic really.
Man up. Make some effort.
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For me it's not about the clientele and certainly not the £5. I simply find it boring. There is the odd time somethings grabs my attention but not much. If I'm being honest I still haven't sussed if this is a social site or a swinger site. |
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"I'm leaving threads tend to be a last effort to get folk to message, don't go etc. If you were going on a diet you wouldn't be down the local Greggs saying goodbye to staff that you're not coming in for cakes anymore. "
Love it!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never used fab with the sole aim of meeting people. Infact it's rare I did. However it's good for some banter and flirtation. I never had the intention of becoming a hard core swinger. I think sometimes that's where people go wrong. They assume it's a sex site. Guaranteed women are not fussy and will shag anything. It's how a lot of these sites are sold. Fact is we are not robotsp. We are fussy and we all have our own agendas.
Why some feel the need to play the poor me card, or I'm not going to part with another £5 is beyond me. Do you expect us to beg you to stay? Throw ourselves at you?
No one is god's gift to anyone yet so many feel they have some automatic right. It's quite pathetic really.
Man up. Make some effort.
For me it's not about the clientele and certainly not the £5. I simply find it boring. There is the odd time somethings grabs my attention but not much. If I'm being honest I still haven't sussed if this is a social site or a swinger site. "
The beauty of sites like this is it can be whatever you want it to be. You decide what you want from it.
Everyone uses it in their own way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it works for you... stay... If you haven't sussed how it works, while others have then go...TBh it's not rocket science,
But good luck either way"
what I've found Is there are some genuine people on here but a hell of a lot of time wasters. Your rite, it's not rocket science and my decision. .. Was possibly better when I was on as couple. |
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Hold on let me make another cuppa !!!!!!!!!!! Ok slurp !!!! Continue !!!!!
We all have good times and crap times on here , but another guy giving it I want to go !!!! Really . Sort yourself out put a fecking smile on your face and make an effort not just on your profile but also going to socials etc . We have all seen it before " I'm leaving what's the point " some people even do it to get attention or then go on to say " if you want my no. Before I go them pm me . Fuck sake man we are here to enjoy like minded people . My advice to you is if you want to go then just leave . Take it or leave it but one thing you've lost through doing this forum are maybe the females that were interested but to tame to reply just now . Treat people with the respect they deserve . You never know you may even find the people that enjoy your company . Either way best of luck !!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it works for you... stay... If you haven't sussed how it works, while others have then go...TBh it's not rocket science,
But good luck either way
what I've found Is there are some genuine people on here but a hell of a lot of time wasters. Your rite, it's not rocket science and my decision. .. Was possibly better when I was on as couple. "
Time waster.. that's me apparently because I've hidden my profile. Because I didn't reply to emails when it was active. Because I don't spend my nights swinging from the lights naked with randoms. Because I'm fussy. Because I don't want to meet in a car and suck cock and leave happy? Yup. Time waster here and very proud of it thanks  |
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"If it works for you... stay... If you haven't sussed how it works, while others have then go...TBh it's not rocket science,
But good luck either way
what I've found Is there are some genuine people on here but a hell of a lot of time wasters. Your rite, it's not rocket science and my decision. .. Was possibly better when I was on as couple.
Time waster.. that's me apparently because I've hidden my profile. Because I didn't reply to emails when it was active. Because I don't spend my nights swinging from the lights naked with randoms. Because I'm fussy. Because I don't want to meet in a car and suck cock and leave happy? Yup. Time waster here and very proud of it thanks "
dammit will take the supports of the lightshade then |
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Everyone at some time or other will " hide " their profile for awhile . This is mainly due to family commitments or just having a break from all the fecking back stabbing two faced shit stirrers on this site . Taking a break for manipulative people that drain the fun out of what is meant to be fun .. ....!!!!
A time waster is a person that thinks they are gods gift !!!!!!! |
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If after 10 months you haven't sussed that 19 near identical cock shots and a one line profile isn't working then maybe it's best you go and leave fab to the folks that actually make an effort 
Look at the profiles of successful guys and see what they are doing different and it should be pretty obvious... Women have lots of choice on here so if you mailed me I'd take a look at your profile and delete your mail without even opening it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone at some time or other will " hide " their profile for awhile . This is mainly due to family commitments or just having a break from all the fecking back stabbing two faced shit stirrers on this site . Taking a break for manipulative people that drain the fun out of what is meant to be fun .. ....!!!!
A time waster is a person that thinks they are gods gift !!!!!!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Y Y do people try to convince a person to stay if they just want to leave let the just feck off cause as we know they will be back in a week or 2 under a different name |
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over a year ago
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"If after 10 months you haven't sussed that 19 near identical cock shots and a one line profile isn't working then maybe it's best you go and leave fab to the folks that actually make an effort
Look at the profiles of successful guys and see what they are doing different and it should be pretty obvious... Women have lots of choice on here so if you mailed me I'd take a look at your profile
and delete your mail without even opening it "
is that a reference to mine? |
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"If after 10 months you haven't sussed that 19 near identical cock shots and a one line profile isn't working then maybe it's best you go and leave fab to the folks that actually make an effort
Look at the profiles of successful guys and see what they are doing different and it should be pretty obvious... Women have lots of choice on here so if you mailed me I'd take a look at your profile
and delete your mail without even opening it
is that a reference to mine? "
Unless you've been here 10 months and have 19 cock shots then nope it was for op 
Although I think he may be one of the ones who post then never return |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If after 10 months you haven't sussed that 19 near identical cock shots and a one line profile isn't working then maybe it's best you go and leave fab to the folks that actually make an effort
Look at the profiles of successful guys and see what they are doing different and it should be pretty obvious... Women have lots of choice on here so if you mailed me I'd take a look at your profile
and delete your mail without even opening it
is that a reference to mine?
Unless you've been here 10 months and have 19 cock shots then nope it was for op
Although I think he may be one of the ones who post then never return "
lol. Thot you were slagging my superb piece of self importance literature |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never used fab with the sole aim of meeting people. Infact it's rare I did. However it's good for some banter and flirtation. I never had the intention of becoming a hard core swinger. I think sometimes that's where people go wrong. They assume it's a sex site. Guaranteed women are not fussy and will shag anything. It's how a lot of these sites are sold. Fact is we are not robotsp. We are fussy and we all have our own agendas.
Why some feel the need to play the poor me card, or I'm not going to part with another £5 is beyond me. Do you expect us to beg you to stay? Throw ourselves at you?
No one is god's gift to anyone yet so many feel they have some automatic right. It's quite pathetic really.
Man up. Make some effort.
For me it's not about the clientele and certainly not the £5. I simply find it boring. There is the odd time somethings grabs my attention but not much. If I'm being honest I still haven't sussed if this is a social site or a swinger site. "
id say mostly social  |
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It's a social site if you want it to be a social nite, its a sex site if you want it to be a sex site, it's a site for attending clubs if that's what you want it to be....
It quite simply is a site to use as you please.
too many are too concerned about others to concentrate on themselves. |
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"It's a social site if you want it to be a social nite, its a sex site if you want it to be a sex site, it's a site for attending clubs if that's what you want it to be....
It quite simply is a site to use as you please.
too many are too concerned about others to concentrate on themselves."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try putting a little effort into your profile.
If you looked at a profile and seen 19 public pics of a cock and less than 2 line of profile text would you be interested in you?
Don't think so.
It's your profile however and if you want to put little effort into it then you will get little reward. |
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bye - do you think youll be missed eh no
if you are not willing to put any effort in to getting to know folk or your profile then why should they bother with you and if you want a guaranteed shag then get a hooker.
if you have not yet sussed swinging is about socialising not just sex |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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Wow, is this a record? 2 'I'm leaving' posts in the one thread!
OP, it's already been said in this thread, but then most of the guys who post similar threads seem to ignore the advice they're given.
A cock pic, not a good move, mentioned regularly in the forums. One line profile, doesn't say a lot and usually an immediate turn off. No proper location other than Scotland, might seem smart/funny to you OP, but really not much use.
And according to veris, you've had 2 meets, with the same couple, although it would seem that they haven't verified the 2nd one, but as recently as November!
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"Wow, is this a record? 2 'I'm leaving' posts in the one thread!
OP, it's already been said in this thread, but then most of the guys who post similar threads seem to ignore the advice they're given.
A cock pic, not a good move, mentioned regularly in the forums. One line profile, doesn't say a lot and usually an immediate turn off. No proper location other than Scotland, might seem smart/funny to you OP, but really not much use.
And according to veris, you've had 2 meets, with the same couple, although it would seem that they haven't verified the 2nd one, but as recently as November!
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"Everyone at some time or other will " hide " their profile for awhile . This is mainly due to family commitments or just having a break from all the fecking back stabbing two faced shit stirrers on this site . Taking a break for manipulative people that drain the fun out of what is meant to be fun .. ....!!!!
A time waster is a person that thinks they are gods gift !!!!!!! "
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"Don't see the point in renewing it as its been a year one meet lots talking its hard for a single guy to get into the swinging seen lol god I've tried Why not try one of the many socials thats arranged and get yourself known that way ?
Socials are good especially for a single guy like me its a chance to show your nice and genuine and not one of the idiots with 20 cock shots but there aren't that many just the wons you and shelly organise "
You're such a nice guy, you wouldn't call anyone an idiot.
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