Since you first joined fab ?
Mine certainly have and I find myself just going with the flow with regards to meets...ie not always keeping social meets strictly social and thats because ive spent a fair bit of time chatting and getting to know my meets first and we all have busy lives so once in a while its good to just be spontaneous especially if you've already gotten on exceptionally well before meeting .
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"I think I've become more open to possibilities now. And far more aware of the importance of keeping my antics private.
" I know what you mean about possibilities is so good to try new things you never thought you would .
My swinging activites are always private until veris are exchanged xx |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I have always been open minded sexually, I have always declared my true sexuality and never tried to hide it. Fuck that.
My principles have changed, I joined having been brought up to respect women and I stay true to that but, not all women. The way some behave in swinging and how they go about it, is a disgrace to other women.
It's a good question, I will ponder on it more
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"I have always been open minded sexually, I have always declared my true sexuality and never tried to hide it. Fuck that.
My principles have changed, I joined having been brought up to respect women and I stay true to that but, not all women. The way some behave in swinging and how they go about it, is a disgrace to other women.
It's a good question, I will ponder on it more
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say they have yes
Going back to the married guy post
When we 1 St joined we had all these rules lol looking back they were silly as they didn't last very long lol
Rules have changed but our principles havnt as ours was always respect each others decision when it comes to this site and so nope that's not changed
Good question tho jacs x |
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It's strange that you don't change so much , been 8 years, only met couples, don't. Meet single males, have met the odd single male but still sticking with original profile , not much changes but older and wiser xxx |
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When I think back to when I first started
out on here I had lists as long as your arms of things id never do but things do change and Ive done pretty much all I set out to do on here and also many i said id never do lol with one or two exceptions Ive still to do and looking forward to them |
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Since becoming a couple our principles have changed to adapt to each other. He has had to change a lot as he would have met smokers before, but we don't now for example. I am stronger principled than he is but it works well as a package as there are things I would have been unsure of doing before, that we now do. For example large group fun. That would have bothered me before, but with him beside me it is possible and we have indeed done this.
I'm less shy for sure though because of him. |
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By *976scottMan
over a year ago
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I would say in the two years or so I have changed!
Not proud to say it but when I first joined I would have shagged just about any female who showed an interest!
Now I'm quite enjoying the social side of swinging and have had the pleasure of meeting some great people who I would now class as friends!
Fab has it's faults but there are lots of genuine people on here you just need to meet the right ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would suggest there's a difference between principles and rules.
But neither need to be set in tablets of stone, and often life experiences lead to changes."
Absolutely right. Our principles haven't changed in the year and half we've been on here but our willingness to open up to new things, specifically playing on a first meet, have. That didn't really work out for the most part, so we've gone back to social meets first and the quality of our meets has gone way back up again so I guess that'll stay unless in exceptional circumstances.
I think as long as you don't try and alter who you are or your own principles in the pursuit of just getting a blowjob or a shag then you'll get a huge amount out of Fab and it'll never become mundane.
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My attitude has changed. In the almost 10 years I've been here my idea of the site hasn't but my feelings toward people in General has, my tolerance levels for people has definitely changed
The older I get the harder it becomes to get meets and rely more in social meets |
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