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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Under the married men banner posted few days ago, it appears there is room for the fairer sex to get their _iews heard as to why they aren't persecuted on here like a married man. I've had few private txt on the subject. Is it worth opening it up to the house? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was married when I joined here met folk was always up front.
Which I think it's fair to be honest I'm now divorced.
I don't judge people for it why should I it's like pot kettle black.
But for girls or guy's who are married playing away without partners consent to say that they are in a happy marriage but always looking for meets
Can't be that happy you need to find someone else to fill your needs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've found that ladies want attention rather than love. Old Man simply not delivering"
Does that not mean that they aren't happy in the bedroom department? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I can only go by my experience. They love hubby but want more. He either not interested in sex or not delivering what lady wants.i tend I not to get involved. If they are there to play im happy to help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've found that ladies want attention rather than love. Old Man simply not delivering" not always the case where its for attention there can be lots of different factors its not always black & white i have always been honest about been.married without consent lots understand but iv had my fair share of nasty abuse over my time on fab over my honesty but its like if i lied saying i was single id get shot down for been a liar have to agree wats was said if any married person is on here playing away without consent there not 100% happy in the marriage be it communication life struggles or sexually sometimes its good hust to be yourself and have some me time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've found that ladies want attention rather than love. Old Man simply not deliveringnot always the case where its for attention there can be lots of different factors its not always black & white i have always been honest about been.married without consent lots understand but iv had my fair share of nasty abuse over my time on fab over my honesty but its like if i lied saying i was single id get shot down for been a liar have to agree wats was said if any married person is on here playing away without consent there not 100% happy in the marriage be it communication life struggles or sexually sometimes its good hust to be yourself and have some me time "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Everyone assumes a married partner is able bodied. Every one has needs without spilling their life story to obtain them. Everyone is so judgemental in life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree no.one should have to spill details of why there here its only when the judgmental cast there nasty _iews at me so if it makes married guys feel better us fems get judged too |
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Not once has anyone ever given me abuse on here for being married so I must have been lucky .
As for peoples reasons why they are here I think thats up to the individuals to tell those people that matter if asked (ie the people they are planning on meeting)no one else matters .
Im a married woman on here with full consent and many of my friends who have actually met my husband will confirm that.
Why im here is between me and my husband and the people I meet but make no mistake im very much in love with my husband despite the situation we find ourselfs in in or relationship. |
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"That was my point. They in love with hubby. But when it's a guy he is automatically cheating as discussed on previous forum" This is what i understood the post be be about the acceptance of married women aganist married men whether with or without consent
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That was my point. They in love with hubby. But when it's a guy he is automatically cheating as discussed on previous forum"
No I was a cheat it went as far as the guy I met a few times looked me up on Facebook found my hubby & mailed my profile to him from here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That was my point. They in love with hubby. But when it's a guy he is automatically cheating as discussed on previous forum
No I was a cheat it went as far as the guy I met a few times looked me up on Facebook found my hubby & mailed my profile to him from here " thats shocking |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That was my point. They in love with hubby. But when it's a guy he is automatically cheating as discussed on previous forum
No I was a cheat it went as far as the guy I met a few times looked me up on Facebook found my hubby & mailed my profile to him from here thats shocking "
Did me a favour though I got away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've found that ladies want attention rather than love. Old Man simply not delivering" is that why you play away,cant deliver to your wife or is it that you dont just satisfy her any longer?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's Incredible.... Why you don't give info away. u simply don't know who you dealing with"
I started here thought I could trust people but hey Ho I've learned my lesson on more than one occasion |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hypothetically. If a partner was wheelchair bound or limited body movement, do you think it wd be a consensual matter to go on a swinger or similar site to obtain sexual needs in a controlled and agreed environment |
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"That's Incredible.... Why you don't give info away. u simply don't know who you dealing with
I started here thought I could trust people but hey Ho I've learned my lesson on more than one occasion " I think that was the case for us all at one point sadly not anymroe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hypothetically. If a partner was wheelchair bound or limited body movement, do you think it wd be a consensual matter to go on a swinger or similar site to obtain sexual needs in a controlled and agreed environment"
Still cheating for female or male for sickness & health & all that jazz unless partner agreed |
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"Hypothetically. If a partner was wheelchair bound or limited body movement, do you think it wd be a consensual matter to go on a swinger or similar site to obtain sexual needs in a controlled and agreed environment" Anything that doesnt have either partners consent is cheating
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all know its cheating but i think the point was really aimed at do married fems get same grief as married women or am i wrong ?" Not on the forums as such but in ones mind,dirty cow cheating on her man
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We all know its cheating but i think the point was really aimed at do married fems get same grief as married women or am i wrong ?Not on the forums as such but in ones mind,dirty cow cheating on her man
" excuse me ????? |
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"Even reading on here I think guys are unfairly treated compared to ladies in the same circumstance." its not that guys are treated unfairly its that fems are given the sympathy vote cmon they are female and cant be in the wrong
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Even reading on here I think guys are unfairly treated compared to ladies in the same circumstance.its not that guys are treated unfairly its that fems are given the sympathy vote cmon they are female and cant be in the wrong " i really do.have to disagree there yes theres alot of guys who dont mind but as i said earlier i get lots of grief and nasty messages coz im married
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"Even reading on here I think guys are unfairly treated compared to ladies in the same circumstance.its not that guys are treated unfairly its that fems are given the sympathy vote cmon they are female and cant be in the wrong i really do.have to disagree there yes theres alot of guys who dont mind but as i said earlier i get lots of grief and nasty messages coz im married" no excuse for the nasty msgs but a guy puts up wife not giving sex so came here would be met with disdain a woman puts same post up replys would be ... what an ass your hubby must be I would delight in pleasuring you all day every day seen it plenty times and sure Iwill see Iit plenty more
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"Even reading on here I think guys are unfairly treated compared to ladies in the same circumstance.its not that guys are treated unfairly its that fems are given the sympathy vote cmon they are female and cant be in the wrong i really do.have to disagree there yes theres alot of guys who dont mind but as i said earlier i get lots of grief and nasty messages coz im marriedno excuse for the nasty msgs but a guy puts up wife not giving sex so came here would be met with disdain a woman puts same post up replys would be ... what an ass your hubby must be I would delight in pleasuring you all day every day seen it plenty times and sure Iwill see Iit plenty more" Totally agree and seen it many times hence I find it hrd to believe that fem is getting so much abusive messages over being married |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Even reading on here I think guys are unfairly treated compared to ladies in the same circumstance.its not that guys are treated unfairly its that fems are given the sympathy vote cmon they are female and cant be in the wrong i really do.have to disagree there yes theres alot of guys who dont mind but as i said earlier i get lots of grief and nasty messages coz im marriedno excuse for the nasty msgs but a guy puts up wife not giving sex so came here would be met with disdain a woman puts same post up replys would be ... what an ass your hubby must be I would delight in pleasuring you all day every day seen it plenty times and sure Iwill see Iit plenty moreTotally agree and seen it many times hence I find it hrd to believe that fem is getting so much abusive messages over being married " fab isnt only forums alot happens and gets said thru random messages so you can believe " that fem " or not iv got into this thread open and honest and iv no need to lie so ill repeat some guys understand but there are nasty ones out there too |
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"Even reading on here I think guys are unfairly treated compared to ladies in the same circumstance.its not that guys are treated unfairly its that fems are given the sympathy vote cmon they are female and cant be in the wrong i really do.have to disagree there yes theres alot of guys who dont mind but as i said earlier i get lots of grief and nasty messages coz im marriedno excuse for the nasty msgs but a guy puts up wife not giving sex so came here would be met with disdain a woman puts same post up replys would be ... what an ass your hubby must be I would delight in pleasuring you all day every day seen it plenty times and sure Iwill see Iit plenty moreTotally agree and seen it many times hence I find it hrd to believe that fem is getting so much abusive messages over being married fab isnt only forums alot happens and gets said thru random messages so you can believe " that fem " or not iv got into this thread open and honest and iv no need to lie so ill repeat some guys understand but there are nasty ones out there too " I didnt say your wernt getting abuse I said I just find it hard to believe .
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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The biggest thing I have come to appreciate on these sites is leave others to do as they wish. If you aren't interested in what they do, what they seek and leave them be, it is a better place for all.
The treatment of men versus women is truly laughable on here at times, but hey, if people pander to the vagina, they will likely reap what they sow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The biggest thing I have come to appreciate on these sites is leave others to do as they wish. If you aren't interested in what they do, what they seek and leave them be, it is a better place for all.
The treatment of men versus women is truly laughable on here at times, but hey, if people pander to the vagina, they will likely reap what they sow."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've found that ladies want attention rather than love. Old Man simply not deliveringnot always the case where its for attention there can be lots of different factors its not always black & white i have always been honest about been.married without consent lots understand but iv had my fair share of nasty abuse over my time on fab over my honesty but its like if i lied saying i was single id get shot down for been a liar have to agree wats was said if any married person is on here playing away without consent there not 100% happy in the marriage be it communication life struggles or sexually sometimes its good hust to be yourself and have some me time "
I agree with you on that i was a guilty party on that and its a case of accepting the person not the situation |
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"The biggest thing I have come to appreciate on these sites is leave others to do as they wish. If you aren't interested in what they do, what they seek and leave them be, it is a better place for all.
The treatment of men versus women is truly laughable on here at times, but hey, if people pander to the vagina, they will likely reap what they sow."
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By (user no longer on site)
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If the question is ... Do married men playing without consent get more grief for doing so than married women doing the same thing
Big fat yes!!!!!
Happens on everything on here if a single guy asks a silly question he will get shot down
If a chick asks the same question folk will fall over themselves to post
It's the way the land is on here
Going back to married guys playing away i always said no married guys... Met a guy a few times with jas became really friendly then 1 morning I got a call from his wife.... Not a nice situation to be in
Now.... I take everything a guy tells me with a huge pinch if salt it's up to me wether to meet him or not
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"If the question is ... Do married men playing without consent get more grief for doing so than married women doing the same thing
Big fat yes!!!!!
Happens on everything on here if a single guy asks a silly question he will get shot down
If a chick asks the same question folk will fall over themselves to post
It's the way the land is on here
Going back to married guys playing away i always said no married guys... Met a guy a few times with jas became really friendly then 1 morning I got a call from his wife.... Not a nice situation to be in
Now.... I take everything a guy tells me with a huge pinch if salt it's up to me wether to meet him or not
Auds x"
Couldn't agree more Auds. (I would normally respond in more detail but I'm full ofvthe cold and my head is mince!!!!!) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I agree with auds point about the pinch of salt. Except its the lady I use it with. I simply don't ask personal questions. Then you won't have to decipher the answer. They tell me they single that's how I treat the situation. I just hope hubby doesn't asks the question !!! |
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"If the question is ... Do married men playing without consent get more grief for doing so than married women doing the same thing
Big fat yes!!!!!
Happens on everythiu ng on here if a single guy asks a silly question he will get shot down
If a chick asks the same question folk will fall over themselves to post
It's the way the land is on here
Going back to married guys playing away i always said no married guys... Met a guy a few times with jas became really friendly then 1 morning I got a call from his wife.... Not a nice situation to be in
Now.... I take everything a guy tells me with a huge pinch if salt it's up to me wether to meet him or not
Auds x" do you mean the guy told you he was single Auds then you found out he was married by the call from his wife?
If so the same thing happend to me only difference is he wasn't married but very much attateched to his gf who was pregnant to him at the time |
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I really don't get the fascination with people's marital status and who knows what etc.
I'm single, Mr is married. We won't discuss it with anyone further than that. If people have a problem with it, then they don't message or play with us, which is entirely their choice to do so.
Each to their own, we don't need people' life stories. As I've said before, no one knows what goes on behind closed doors, and we don't judge anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really don't get the fascination with people's marital status and who knows what etc.
I'm single, Mr is married. We won't discuss it with anyone further than that. If people have a problem with it, then they don't message or play with us, which is entirely their choice to do so.
Each to their own, we don't need people' life stories. As I've said before, no one knows what goes on behind closed doors, and we don't judge anyone." |
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There is definately a big difference married men and married women.
You only need to look at all the female profiles that say no married/attached guys yet I bet that I could count on my one hand and have fingers left on the number of male profiles that won't meet an attached female. |
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"There is definately a big difference married men and married women.
You only need to look at all the female profiles that say no married/attached guys yet I bet that I could count on my one hand and have fingers left on the number of male profiles that won't meet an attached female. " so true I've lost count of the amount of couples who have contacted me wanting to meet and have the no married guys in block caps all over their profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I started here attached...broke up now single...
I was upfront about it...never got any abuse or got blocked...since being single I have been blocked a number of times...maybe it's better being attached and honest about it... |
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"There is definately a big difference married men and married women.
You only need to look at all the female profiles that say no married/attached guys yet I bet that I could count on my one hand and have fingers left on the number of male profiles that won't meet an attached female. " knotch a finger up for me I dont play party to cheats |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm here for sex, not to impose morality. I really don't care about an unknowing husband, it's a selfish _iew to take I know but that's a part of me I accept. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If the question is ... Do married men playing without consent get more grief for doing so than married women doing the same thing
Big fat yes!!!!!
Happens on everythiu ng on here if a single guy asks a silly question he will get shot down
If a chick asks the same question folk will fall over themselves to post
It's the way the land is on here
Going back to married guys playing away i always said no married guys... Met a guy a few times with jas became really friendly then 1 morning I got a call from his wife.... Not a nice situation to be in
Now.... I take everything a guy tells me with a huge pinch if salt it's up to me wether to meet him or not
Auds xdo you mean the guy told you he was single Auds then you found out he was married by the call from his wife?
If so the same thing happend to me only difference is he wasn't married but very much attateched to his gf who was pregnant to him at the time " yip he assured us he was single and this is after a cpl of yrs meeting up when he was over here
We were totally gutted he lied that long to us
So now I just don't ask
I'm here for sex not a life story
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"I'm here for sex, not to impose morality. I really don't care about an unknowing husband, it's a selfish _iew to take I know but that's a part of me I accept."
I don't think it's selfish at all, surely that's the point of the site?
We're here for sex with fun, like minded people, not interested in drama |
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The point alot of folk seem to miss is its not the marital status its the deception that causes problems if you wanna cheat fine do it with those that are willing to accept it be honest for those who wish no part of a cheats life this will fall on deaf ears why .... cheats dont care about anyone apart from themselves the amount of times ive heard he/she is honest with me I dont care if he/she lies to their wife cmon get real |
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"The point alot of folk seem to miss is its not the marital status its the deception that causes problems if you wanna cheat fine do it with those that are willing to accept it be honest for those who wish no part of a cheats life this will fall on deaf ears why .... cheats dont care about anyone apart from themselves the amount of times ive heard he/she is honest with me I dont care if he/she lies to their wife cmon get real"
I'm not saying that. And if someone on here's playing with their partners knowledge it's rather unfair to automatically call them a cheat. Not everyone is in the same boat.
My point was that if you don't want to play with someone that's married, then don't. No ones being forced to. If people are being honest about it, as we are, then you have the choice to avoid.
Unfortunately not everyone is honest, and how can you really know for sure? |
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"The point alot of folk seem to miss is its not the marital status its the deception that causes problems if you wanna cheat fine do it with those that are willing to accept it be honest for those who wish no part of a cheats life this will fall on deaf ears why .... cheats dont care about anyone apart from themselves the amount of times ive heard he/she is honest with me I dont care if he/she lies to their wife cmon get real" think its unfair to say all cheats are selfish but i respect your honesty in saying married ppl arnt for you its personal preference
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I've been reading back through all the comments. It's a subject that will split many. It's also very clear that the world is still a very judgemental place. Something I believe is installed in you during your up bringing. I used to be tunnel vision in my _iews but now a lot more open minded. I wouldn't close off an avenue simply because a profile is changed on meeting the person or couple from their online description. Meet them, make up your own mind if you want to meet them again. Whether its my initial post about it being a lady getting more leeway than a guy, I think the varied opinion tells me it's simply down to the individuals principles. ... |
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"The point alot of folk seem to miss is its not the marital status its the deception that causes problems if you wanna cheat fine do it with those that are willing to accept it be honest for those who wish no part of a cheats life this will fall on deaf ears why .... cheats dont care about anyone apart from themselves the amount of times ive heard he/she is honest with me I dont care if he/she lies to their wife cmon get realthink its unfair to say all cheats are selfish but i respect your honesty in saying married ppl arnt for you its personal preference " im fine with married people as long as all partys know whats going on |
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"That was my point. They in love with hubby. But when it's a guy he is automatically cheating as discussed on previous forum
No I was a cheat it went as far as the guy I met a few times looked me up on Facebook found my hubby & mailed my profile to him from here "
FFS...... Scary. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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A lot of the angst on these types of threads is when people are asked to justify why they don't meet people in relationships who are playing without their loved ones knowledge. If people just got on with and searched for people who will play them, life may be easier for them in the context of swinging.
There are people for all on here. |
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"The point alot of folk seem to miss is its not the marital status its the deception that causes problems if you wanna cheat fine do it with those that are willing to accept it be honest for those who wish no part of a cheats life this will fall on deaf ears why .... cheats dont care about anyone apart from themselves the amount of times ive heard he/she is honest with me I dont care if he/she lies to their wife cmon get realthink its unfair to say all cheats are selfish but i respect your honesty in saying married ppl arnt for you its personal preference im fine with married people as long as all partys know whats going on " fair enuff ill correct myself just married without consent isnt your choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wonder how many married go to cj's n pose as other. By all accounts it's popular. "
At cj's no one is judged if married or not everyone is there for adult fun
as I said in the beginning I was married when I joined I'm not anymore but I wouldn't judge people who are married as it's calling pot kettle black |
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Many years ago I was a married woman. I joined a different adult site. I was honest to say I was married but I wanted some excitement. I ended up becoming the other woman to someone else and if honest it's been the role I'm most comfortable in. Clearly defibed boundaries. Less mind games or over thinking. However it's lonely. Now I'm here as a single woman and I'd probably avoid married men now. Not because I've anything against them but because I need to learn the rules of being something else.
I do think on here people make far too many assumptions and as a result there are prejudices. No one knows the extent of anyone's life outside of fab. In my mind it's how it should stay |
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"Many years ago I was a married woman. I joined a different adult site. I was honest to say I was married but I wanted some excitement. I ended up becoming the other woman to someone else and if honest it's been the role I'm most comfortable in. Clearly defibed boundaries. Less mind games or over thinking. However it's lonely. Now I'm here as a single woman and I'd probably avoid married men now. Not because I've anything against them but because I need to learn the rules of being something else.
I do think on here people make far too many assumptions and as a result there are prejudices. No one knows the extent of anyone's life outside of fab. In my mind it's how it should stay "
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"I wonder how many married go to cj's n pose as other. By all accounts it's popular. Have you established if attatched /married women are treated differently to married men ?"
yes. Absolutely, no doubt about it. The fairer sex get away with murder by fluttering the eye lashes. This forum discussion proves it. ..... |
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"I wonder how many married go to cj's n pose as other. By all accounts it's popular. Have you established if attatched /married women are treated differently to married men ?
yes. Absolutely, no doubt about it. The fairer sex get away with murder by fluttering the eye lashes. This forum discussion proves it. ..... " really ? |
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"I wonder how many married go to cj's n pose as other. By all accounts it's popular. Have you established if attatched /married women are treated differently to married men ?
yes. Absolutely, no doubt about it. The fairer sex get away with murder by fluttering the eye lashes. This forum discussion proves it. ..... " Not suure about this post proving it but over all women to have an earsier time of it on here than males . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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If you read through the opinions you Can draw your own conclusions. ..I believe. Married lady on here gets an easier Time than a married guy both looking for same thing. |
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over a year ago
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"If you read through the opinions you Can draw your own conclusions. ..I believe. Married lady on here gets an easier Time than a married guy both looking for same thing. " i must remember n post a few of the insults i get then
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"At the end of the day
We are all on a sex site
Who are we to judge anyone?" for me its about a connection of sorts I make no bones about it I JUDGE lots say they dont hell plenty on these forums decry im not here to judge....... yet block me as they have judged me unworthy of their time and thats fine I just wish at times I read less of the I dont judge simple facts we all judge |
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"At the end of the day
We are all on a sex site
Who are we to judge anyone?for me its about a connection of sorts I make no bones about it I JUDGE lots say they dont hell plenty on these forums decry im not here to judge....... yet block me as they have judged me unworthy of their time and thats fine I just wish at times I read less of the I dont judge simple facts we all judge "
In the terms of weighing up whether you are interested in someone from their profile, photos and messages, then yes we do all judge whether that person meets our requirements.
But in the case of "oh they're married so they must be cheating", no, we don't think like that. |
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I'm a married guy,I don't want a divorce but I do want to experiment a bit and just have fun,wife is not as sexual as me so rather than ditch her and the kids I play solo and have discreet nsa fun |
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"I'm a married guy,I don't want a divorce but I do want to experiment a bit and just have fun,wife is not as sexual as me so rather than ditch her and the kids I play solo and have discreet nsa fun " to satify my curiosity and I understand if you wish not to answer why not tell your wife gain approval if she knows you are a far more sexual creature ? That way no one needs ditched
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over a year ago
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"I'm a married guy,I don't want a divorce but I do want to experiment a bit and just have fun,wife is not as sexual as me so rather than ditch her and the kids I play solo and have discreet nsa fun "
have you asked her if you can play? |
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"I'm a married guy,I don't want a divorce but I do want to experiment a bit and just have fun,wife is not as sexual as me so rather than ditch her and the kids I play solo and have discreet nsa fun
have you asked her if you can play? "
Probably not by the comment he doesn't want to ditch her |
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"I'm a married guy,I don't want a divorce but I do want to experiment a bit and just have fun,wife is not as sexual as me so rather than ditch her and the kids I play solo and have discreet nsa fun "
Fair play to you fella. Just make sure you use protection and get checked regularly. Stay safe and protect your family. |
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