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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My last meet seemed to be going rather well, but the girl eventually got put off by the fact that I didn't come, after a good while.
I don't really climax from just sex, so I just keep going - I think she got the impression that I didn't like her or something.
Is a man not cumming off-putting for women? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had the same experience, I think a lot of women think that the guy has to cum.  personally I'm happy with them coming and me not, obviously I'd like too though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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'After a good while' what are we talking about here? Minutes, hours, all day?? 
I think anyone would be unimpressed if all you did was shag them non stop. Don't get me wrong I like a good seeing to but too much of the same thing can get a bit boring, if not a tad sore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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surely if we can have an equal outlook on things that'd help?
some women dont cum from a standard penetration fuck..so its about using what other methods might get them orgasmed
men can be the same
I dont like hearing someones taken it personally as if they werent attractive enough etc...
it seems its ok for women to have a myriad of reasons for not cumming..but not men, as we arent seen as sexually complex, which in itself is a pile of shite.
lots of us are psychosexual beings...sometimes we need a little bit more to get to our 'end result' |
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Non stop shagging is not a good idea if it aint happening take a break and chill .
start up the foreplay again and hopefully it will happen .
I have been with some men who just dont cum and its not put me off meeting them at all . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It happens. When it does acknowledge it , tell her, both of you laugh about it, stop, and just chill out together for a while. Talk, touch, stroke etc. and when the time is right start again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah, id feel a bit deflated in that situation.Id take it a little personally I think. Besides, the guy cumming is one of my favourite bits, the harder and noisier the better "
Adds that to your file  |
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By *976scottMan
over a year ago
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Think this has happened to most guys at some point!
There is only so much pumping away you can do before you have to just accept the fact it's not happening!
I'm my experience it's not down to who you are with! |
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