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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Clearly put on my profile not meet married men. N still get asked all the time. I respect there honest that there married. As I'm sure plenty are on single profiles. How ever cheating is cheating. Might be a swingers site but still have morals ?? |
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You're right, everyone should respect everyone else's preferences.
But bear in mind, not ALL married men are simply playing away from home.
Some truly wish they could fulfil their desires at home but don't have that option due to medical situations.
Probably in the minority, but SOME of us are here due to extenuating circumstances.
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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people should just concentrate on people they will meet and leave others to do their thing with people with will do their thing with them....
it makes life so much easier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not here to judge anyone on here its totally up to each individual who they meet.
I was married when I first joined fab playing away from home.
But I was in a very unhappy marriage guess you could say I was cheating |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I except there is those who's marriage is just non existent just convenience. Etc. Just wanted others _iews on it. Now iv read a few posts mabe not so quick to judge ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How do you know the single men on here r single??? You dont. May single people on here not just men, r taken in relationships ir married and dont broadcasr or disclose
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not single .... I'm divorced ... does that count 
people have a different direction on their moral compasses. What is essential is that you stick to yours. The others will just keep trying their luck.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would you meet a married woman tho?
The amount of profiles I see that have huge letters saying NO MARIED MEN !!!
But never say or married ladies???
Erm....  |
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Always reading about its not black and white sorry it is black and white unless the opposite number has little mental function they are cheating unhappy marridge end it sexless relationahip talk about it sorry but every other excuse apart from my partner has little mental function left is nothing more than vindication of no concern for anyone bar themselves oppps that will be a judgement silly me |
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i understand where your coming from with meeting married men. I dont like meeting them either. But when you Clearly state 'do not meet married or attached' when they constantly try there luck its dementing. Im not here to judge its a preference. But most guys who claim to be single are easy to suss with day meets. Times they mail abd other signs. Think me and crumpet very alike. We both selfish. Love the attention and hate being second best.sexual predators Lol xxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes I admire the guys that actually admit to being married or attached. After all I would say a huge percentage of the single guys on here are as well, they just don't have the balls to admit it. |
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"Sometimes I admire the guys that actually admit to being married or attached. After all I would say a huge percentage of the single guys on here are as well, they just don't have the balls to admit it. "
Mr is married, we're completely upfront about it in our profile. If people don't like it then they can pass us by with no hard feelings. Don't see the point in lying about it
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"Sometimes I admire the guys that actually admit to being married or attached. After all I would say a huge percentage of the single guys on here are as well, they just don't have the balls to admit it. "
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"You're right, everyone should respect everyone else's preferences.
But bear in mind, not ALL married men are simply playing away from home.
Some truly wish they could fulfil their desires at home but don't have that option due to medical situations.
Probably in the minority, but SOME of us are here due to extenuating circumstances.
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Many are here with permission.. You can't judge folk until you walk a mile
In their shoes..... |
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By *omaMan
over a year ago
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"A hate people who cheat it's like the scummiest thing people can do to each other!"
You can hate it all you want but the fact is, it will always happen. Cheating, lying is a fact of life and unless you know someono personally then the less you can be sure they are sincere |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A hate people who cheat it's like the scummiest thing people can do to each other!
You can hate it all you want but the fact is, it will always happen. Cheating, lying is a fact of life and unless you know someono personally then the less you can be sure they are sincere "
obviously it happens all the time otherwise I couldn't hate it!!!! ? A just dont get how if ur not happy with the person ur with why not tell the person then split up like adults then fuck someone else, why have cake & eat it too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A hate people who cheat it's like the scummiest thing people can do to each other!
You can hate it all you want but the fact is, it will always happen. Cheating, lying is a fact of life and unless you know someono personally then the less you can be sure they are sincere obviously it happens all the time otherwise I couldn't hate it!!!! ? A just dont get how if ur not happy with the person ur with why not tell the person then split up like adults then fuck someone else, why have cake & eat it too! "
i think you have to realise life is not black & white for some it maybe is a case of cake & eating it but for others it certainly isnt and theres lots of married on here who state single for the simple fact they get judged so really to those who say they wouldnt meet married how do you really know if they are or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A hate people who cheat it's like the scummiest thing people can do to each other!
You can hate it all you want but the fact is, it will always happen. Cheating, lying is a fact of life and unless you know someono personally then the less you can be sure they are sincere obviously it happens all the time otherwise I couldn't hate it!!!! ? A just dont get how if ur not happy with the person ur with why not tell the person then split up like adults then fuck someone else, why have cake & eat it too! i think you have to realise life is not black & white for some it maybe is a case of cake & eating it but for others it certainly isnt and theres lots of married on here who state single for the simple fact they get judged so really to those who say they wouldnt meet married how do you really know if they are or not "
Good point, never thought about it like that, |
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By *ee-YinWoman
over a year ago
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"A hate people who cheat it's like the scummiest thing people can do to each other!
You can hate it all you want but the fact is, it will always happen. Cheating, lying is a fact of life and unless you know someono personally then the less you can be sure they are sincere obviously it happens all the time otherwise I couldn't hate it!!!! ? A just dont get how if ur not happy with the person ur with why not tell the person then split up like adults then fuck someone else, why have cake & eat it too! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You could put on your profile you're not interested in meeting at all and you'd still get messages. It'd not limited to married men, some guys seem to think they can change your mind regardless. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The majority of guys on here don't tell the truth anyway but I guess why should they it's a swinging site??? I like guys who are up front and say their married so then I can make the choice to carry on with it or not??.. It's no different to single guys who are in a relationship though and couples that play alone and don't tell their other half. As above I don't really see the point in cheating and people getting hurt. It's not a turn on for me sleeping with someone taken or who has a wedding band on. Heartache is a pain that is unforgettable no matter how hard you try |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suppose its about what you want from the site. If your looking for friendship or possibly a relationship then you wouldn't want to meet anyone that's married. If your just looking for random meets though then I don't really see the issue.
If people want to cheat its up to them. I don't know what goes on behind closed doors. I try and take people at face value and how they treat me. I'm sure if I was to dig deeper on a few people I would find things about them that would upset me more than them cheating on their partner |
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The reason i prefer not to meet married as my partner of 13 years cheated with my best friend. I found that very hard to take. Finding out hes cheating off a sex site would be worse. It is a case having cake and eat it. And if they can disrespect there wife/partner/ girlfriend by doing that then youve shit chance of them respecting you! Just my opinion x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The reason i prefer not to meet married as my partner of 13 years cheated with my best friend. I found that very hard to take. Finding out hes cheating off a sex site would be worse. It is a case having cake and eat it. And if they can disrespect there wife/partner/ girlfriend by doing that then youve shit chance of them respecting you! Just my opinion x"
do you honestly know for sure everyguy you have met on here is single tho ? Some ppl are moee open about it than others
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think that's true. Everyone has the chance to earn respect. Because someone doesn't respect someone else doesn't mean they won't respect you. For all we know the guy could be getting cheated on himself or whatever its just not black and white |
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"I don't think that's true. Everyone has the chance to earn respect. Because someone doesn't respect someone else doesn't mean they won't respect you. For all we know the guy could be getting cheated on himself or whatever its just not black and white"
no one ever knows what your being told is true. I go by my gut instinct usually. If they chat on phn. Text day and night. You can usually tell. I totally respect the guys who are up front and honest. Im happy to chat to them just not meet. Xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The reason i prefer not to meet married as my partner of 13 years cheated with my best friend. I found that very hard to take. Finding out hes cheating off a sex site would be worse. It is a case having cake and eat it. And if they can disrespect there wife/partner/ girlfriend by doing that then youve shit chance of them respecting you! Just my opinion x"
That's exactly how I see it with disrespecting a "loved one". Don't see light for much hope after they do that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can totally understand females not wanting to meet married guys, they come on here for uncomplicated fun the last thing they want is some guys irate wife yelling down the phone at them or worse when the guys wife finds a text message or whatever on his phone |
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"Can totally understand females not wanting to meet married guys, they come on here for uncomplicated fun the last thing they want is some guys irate wife yelling down the phone at them or worse when the guys wife finds a text message or whatever on his phone"
Iv actually had that. Chatting for weeks arranged to meet. His mrs found my number in his phn i go calls and texts of grief. Turned out the poor woman was 6 months pregnant with his twins and couldnt have sex as was having a difficult pregnancy. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can totally understand females not wanting to meet married guys, they come on here for uncomplicated fun the last thing they want is some guys irate wife yelling down the phone at them or worse when the guys wife finds a text message or whatever on his phone"
does that apply the opposite way or do guys not care if a woman is married
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lots of different _iews. Bottom line is everybody is different. Depends on your values and morals. What you can live with. I respect the men who are honest that there married. As for the single profiles that are married or attached its there self who need to live with the lies. As long as I know I never willingly meet a married man. I can live with that. Need to have a great memory to be a good cheat and lier. Happy swinging folks x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We never judge or have a go at anyone who is married and on here that's their business. The reason why we won't meet them is we want nsa and there is no way that a married man or woman is nsa fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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oes that apply the opposite way or do guys not care if a woman is married
We are talk about guys that cheat as it it is only men that do it.
You cannot accept or condemn one without the other... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm married and upfront about it and all i ask is not to judge as i have my reasons for being here. However it doesn't stop the abuse if anything it seems to happen more.
It seems as though when a married woman is on here she must have good and valid reasons to do so but a married man is just here to cheat. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No difference if your a married man or woman. Been unfaithful is unfaithful. I understand there is some exemptions ?? As I stated everyone is different. We are mainly on here for the same reason nsa sex. Mabe social side of it to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm married and upfront about it and all i ask is not to judge as i have my reasons for being here. However it doesn't stop the abuse if anything it seems to happen more.
It seems as though when a married woman is on here she must have good and valid reasons to do so but a married man is just here to cheat."
married women still get abuse to from some |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm married and upfront about it and all i ask is not to judge as i have my reasons for being here. However it doesn't stop the abuse if anything it seems to happen more.
It seems as though when a married woman is on here she must have good and valid reasons to do so but a married man is just here to cheat.married women still get abuse to from some"
Abuse is un neccessary and ppl shudnt pre judge i have in the past and been wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can totally understand females not wanting to meet married guys, they come on here for uncomplicated fun the last thing they want is some guys irate wife yelling down the phone at them or worse when the guys wife finds a text message or whatever on his phonedoes that apply the opposite way or do guys not care if a woman is married"
Im my opnion some guys do care but im sure that conversation would be discussed with the 2 ppl meeting without pre judging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can totally understand females not wanting to meet married guys, they come on here for uncomplicated fun the last thing they want is some guys irate wife yelling down the phone at them or worse when the guys wife finds a text message or whatever on his phonedoes that apply the opposite way or do guys not care if a woman is married
Im my opnion some guys do care but im sure that conversation would be discussed with the 2 ppl meeting without pre judging "
i think each to there own preference ijust dont get wat certain ppl say when clearly some have met married |
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Seems to be a bit of man bashing going on in here, there's plenty of married women on the site playing away from home...and for some to suggest that you can't trust anything that any single guys say is just a bit damn judgmental don't you think. Everyone has their reasons for being on here, some are more honest that others but not everyone should be tarred with the same brush so to speak. |
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I'm still married as can't get the house sold and not got enough money to pay two mortgages.
I've not loved or even liked my missus for years. We have not had sex in donkeys years, seperate bedrooms, friends, holidays, etc.
if i was here for sex then i would be very disappointed as had vitually nothing in the way of meets mainly due to not replying to adverts saying no married guys.
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The whole concept of fidelity in a marriage is flawed in my opinion. Our opinions on "affairs" are normally based on the way we have been brought up to _iew love and marriage.
My opinion is that sex is just a bodily function to fill a need. Just like hunger and thirst. For some highly sexed individuals who are forced to go without for a period of time the need becomes untolerable.
Just because you are satusfying that need does not mean you love your partner any less. It does not mean you are cheating. It is the minute you lie to yourself and the people you love that the problem arises
Shy xx. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"people should just concentrate on people they will meet and leave others to do their thing with people with will do their thing with them....
it makes life so much easier"
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I've experienced that judgement too on occasion.
Everyone has a reason for being here, and if you knew details of what brought a particular married man here, you might not be so quick to condemn. I've been upfront on my profile about it and I'm sure that's why I get a lot of 'instant deletes' from messages I send. However, those who've been open minded enough to engage in some conversation, and hear a little background to my journey here, can then make up their minds about whether to meet or not. Some still prefer not to go there but at least they've made an informed decision.
As for married women being on here alone, I've always been open minded and interested in their reasons for being here. Vast majority are happy to talk about why they're here. I think that comes easily if you develop a trust early on in the conversation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't get why people think there being judged for being married and being on here when others don't want to meet married. Concentrate on who does want to meet yourself. Its a preference, just like people who have black only or bbw only or vwe etc. I choose not to listen to married men's story's as why there cheating and all that goes with it. My choice. Same as yours to cheat. |
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"people should just concentrate on people they will meet and leave others to do their thing with people with will do their thing with them....
it makes life so much easier"
People seem more concerned than what others do than there own fun at times...
Live n let live
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I choose not to listen to married men's story's as why there cheating and all that goes with it. My choice. Same as yours to cheat. "
I was agreeing with this until this bit. Pure judgemental attitude. All married singers are cheaters and not worth listening to. Any reason is just an excuse without validity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I choose not to listen to married men's story's as why there cheating and all that goes with it. My choice. Same as yours to cheat.
I was agreeing with this until this bit. Pure judgemental attitude. All married singers are cheaters and not worth listening to. Any reason is just an excuse without validity. "
Ok im judgemental then cause i don't want to listen to some married mans story as why he cheats?!/!?!?!  |
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"I choose not to listen to married men's story's as why there cheating and all that goes with it. My choice. Same as yours to cheat.
I was agreeing with this until this bit. Pure judgemental attitude. All married singers are cheaters and not worth listening to. Any reason is just an excuse without validity.
Ok im judgemental then cause i don't want to listen to some married mans story as why he cheats?!/!?!?! "
lol we are all judgemental just some of us will admit it rather than toe the line |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I choose not to listen to married men's story's as why there cheating and all that goes with it. My choice. Same as yours to cheat.
I was agreeing with this until this bit. Pure judgemental attitude. All married singers are cheaters and not worth listening to. Any reason is just an excuse without validity.
Ok im judgemental then cause i don't want to listen to some married mans story as why he cheats?!/!?!?! lol we are all judgemental just some of us will admit it rather than toe the line"
ohhh so now i toe the line and wont admit to being judgemental. Lol only messing.  |
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"I choose not to listen to married men's story's as why there cheating and all that goes with it. My choice. Same as yours to cheat.
I was agreeing with this until this bit. Pure judgemental attitude. All married singers are cheaters and not worth listening to. Any reason is just an excuse without validity.
Ok im judgemental then cause i don't want to listen to some married mans story as why he cheats?!/!?!?! lol we are all judgemental just some of us will admit it rather than toe the line
ohhh so now i toe the line and wont admit to being judgemental. Lol only messing. "
you toe the line I will bend over backwards to put as many slurp posts up as possible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The whole concept of fidelity in a marriage is flawed in my opinion. Our opinions on "affairs" are normally based on the way we have been brought up to _iew love and marriage.
My opinion is that sex is just a bodily function to fill a need. Just like hunger and thirst. For some highly sexed individuals who are forced to go without for a period of time the need becomes
untolerable.
Just because you are satusfying that need does not mean you love your partner any less. It does not mean you are cheating. It is the minute you lie to yourself and the people you love that the problem arises
Shy xx. "
Very well put and totally agree, if it was solely about sex then I could just use a pro, got females as friends that I've only ever chatted with and I have a good craic with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, it's judgemental because you're tarring everyone with the same brush. A marriedvman is on here ergo he's cheating and the reasons are not worth your time. You're judging people with no information. |
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As a women on here and having spoken to many married men I'd say at least 90% are here for more sex.
Most of them are still in sexual relationships with their partners so in otherword's they are just being greedy and i think the same applies to females too.
Yes of course there will be other reasons too so if you don't want to meet married people don't it's as simple as that |
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The reason I'm on here is to try and meet someone and have a fun time.
I've not had sex with my missus for almost 10 years and that was about the same time I last got a civil word out of her.
Not every married guy is here for some extra sex but because he has no chance of getting any at home. |
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"The reason I'm on here is to try and meet someone and have a fun time.
I've not had sex with my missus for almost 10 years and that was about the same time I last got a civil word out of her.
Not every married guy is here for some extra sex but because he has no chance of getting any at home."
As I said not every guy or female are but the biggest majority are here for sex while still getting it at home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The reason I'm on here is to try and meet someone and have a fun time.
I've not had sex with my missus for almost 10 years and that was about the same time I last got a civil word out of her.
Not every married guy is here for some extra sex but because he has no chance of getting any at home.As I said not every guy or female are but the biggest majority are here for sex while still getting it at home."
if you dont know the biggest majority personally how can you say than? |
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"The reason I'm on here is to try and meet someone and have a fun time.
I've not had sex with my missus for almost 10 years and that was about the same time I last got a civil word out of her.
Not every married guy is here for some extra sex but because he has no chance of getting any at home.As I said not every guy or female are but the biggest majority are here for sex while still getting it at home.if you dont know the biggest majority personally how can you say than? "
Because the biggest majority of guys ive spoken to have admitted it thats why.
nearly every married man ive spoke to is quite happily attached or married and still in a sexual relationship with their partner with the odd exception . |
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Always check the dent on finger on left hand . Never strayed when I was married and waited on all the fun that comes my way .and then had the cheek to date a lovely woman that was in a crap marrage and like me her kids came first it was a sad time when she asked me to stop seeing her ! |
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"The reason I'm on here is to try and meet someone and have a fun time.
I've not had sex with my missus for almost 10 years and that was about the same time I last got a civil word out of her.
Not every married guy is here for some extra sex but because he has no chance of getting any at home.As I said not every guy or female are but the biggest majority are here for sex while still getting it at home.if you dont know the biggest majority personally how can you say than? Because the biggest majority of guys ive spoken to have admitted it thats why.
nearly every married man ive spoke to is quite happily attached or married and still in a sexual relationship with their partner with the odd exception ."
oh i forgot you know it all haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well when I joined I was unhappily married I don't think for one minute if I was happy in my marriage I'd have been on here
It's simple if your not getting satisfied at home it's only obvious some people are going to look elsewhere
So to an extent there's an element of unhappiness somewhere  |
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"The reason I'm on here is to try and meet someone and have a fun time.
I've not had sex with my missus for almost 10 years and that was about the same time I last got a civil word out of her.
Not every married guy is here for some extra sex but because he has no chance of getting any at home.As I said not every guy or female are but the biggest majority are here for sex while still getting it at home.if you dont know the biggest majority personally how can you say than? Because the biggest majority of guys ive spoken to have admitted it thats why.
nearly every married man ive spoke to is quite happily attached or married and still in a sexual relationship with their partner with the odd exception .oh i forgot you know it all haha"
excuse me you asked a question I answered if you don't like what i have to say then don't ask.
I gave my answer based on my experience on here so no i dont know it all but I know from what guys have told me. |
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"Well when I joined I was unhappily married I don't think for one minute if I was happy in my marriage I'd have been on here
It's simple if your not getting satisfied at home it's only obvious some people are going to look elsewhere
So to an extent there's an element of unhappiness somewhere "
everyone's reasons are personal to them and as i said before everyone's reasons vary |
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over a year ago
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"The reason I'm on here is to try and meet someone and have a fun time.
I've not had sex with my missus for almost 10 years and that was about the same time I last got a civil word out of her.
Not every married guy is here for some extra sex but because he has no chance of getting any at home.As I said not every guy or female are but the biggest majority are here for sex while still getting it at home.if you dont know the biggest majority personally how can you say than? Because the biggest majority of guys ive spoken to have admitted it thats why.
nearly every married man ive spoke to is quite happily attached or married and still in a sexual relationship with their partner with the odd exception .oh i forgot you know it all hahaexcuse me you asked a question I answered if you don't like what i have to say then don't ask.
I gave my answer based on my experience on here so no i dont know it all but I know from what guys have told me. "
and im commenting on things that are said same as everyone else but you always seem to think you know it all |
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"The reason I'm on here is to try and meet someone and have a fun time.
I've not had sex with my missus for almost 10 years and that was about the same time I last got a civil word out of her.
Not every married guy is here for some extra sex but because he has no chance of getting any at home.As I said not every guy or female are but the biggest majority are here for sex while still getting it at home.if you dont know the biggest majority personally how can you say than? Because the biggest majority of guys ive spoken to have admitted it thats why.
nearly every married man ive spoke to is quite happily attached or married and still in a sexual relationship with their partner with the odd exception .oh i forgot you know it all hahaexcuse me you asked a question I answered if you don't like what i have to say then don't ask.
I gave my answer based on my experience on here so no i dont know it all but I know from what guys have told me. and im commenting on things that are said same as everyone else but you always seem to think you know it all "
Really!!!... Have a closer look i think it's actually you who thinks I know it all so as i ask before if you don't like what i have to say then simply ignore. |
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"The reason I'm on here is to try and meet someone and have a fun time.
I've not had sex with my missus for almost 10 years and that was about the same time I last got a civil word out of her.
Not every married guy is here for some extra sex but because he has no chance of getting any at home.As I said not every guy or female are but the biggest majority are here for sex while still getting it at home.if you dont know the biggest majority personally how can you say than? Because the biggest majority of guys ive spoken to have admitted it thats why.
nearly every married man ive spoke to is quite happily attached or married and still in a sexual relationship with their partner with the odd exception .oh i forgot you know it all hahaexcuse me you asked a question I answered if you don't like what i have to say then don't ask.
I gave my answer based on my experience on here so no i dont know it all but I know from what guys have told me. and im commenting on things that are said same as everyone else but you always seem to think you know it all Really!!!... Have a closer look i think it's actually you who thinks I know it all so as i ask before if you don't like what i have to say then simply ignore. "
hard to ignore such comments when you say most male female are happy well as im a female ill comment to your assumption well as its meant to be an open forum |
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"Can you both just ignore each other posts please and keep it off the forums. Thanks"
i thot the idea of forums was to discuss topics not everyone has the same point of _iew but thats life and opinions
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By *ummersun99Woman
over a year ago
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"people should just concentrate on people they will meet and leave others to do their thing with people with will do their thing with them....
it makes life so much easier"
It would be If Everyone did it. The volume of messages received from people ignoring your preferences is quite high for some, and hard to ignore in certain cases. |
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"Can you both just ignore each other posts please and keep it off the forums. Thanks
Oh Jezz I love it when you get the badge out.
xxI think some want the badge lol "
Some may want a badge, i want the vag...but i am a horny miscreatant after all |
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"Can you both just ignore each other posts please and keep it off the forums. Thanks
Oh Jezz I love it when you get the badge out.
xxI think some want the badge lol
Some may want a badge, i want the vag...but i am a horny miscreatant after all "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Find that a lot of people on here say they are single when they aren't so I now just base my meets on who I have an attraction with not what their personal life is about. End of the day I'm single, if they want to play away from home who am I to judge?x |
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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago
Lanarkshire |
I think if the person tells you they are married then you can make an informed choice as to meet or not. It is when they say single and they aren't that problems arise, if they want to cheat that is their business but don't drag others innocently into your business. |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"Wouldn't meet anyone who was married and cheating. Have net a femals in the past who was married but that was with her husband's permission and we'd spoken to him a few times."
Shocking amount of spelling mistakes in there. Must have the shakes after last night's partying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once met single lady. She still had her rings on as we ordered coffee. Went to loo n came back minus them. Told her she was better with them on just incase they got lost. She just smiled. I'm not judgemental in any form nor is it my concern. But I do respect people's opinions and actions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some people don't read the profiles, and those that do are just chancing their arms as some of the requirements on profiles it seems are flexible in some cases.
But if yours a fixed then that's how you should keep them.
Personally if someone wants to be with me then its not really my business to ask about their business ... is it ? If I know enough to like the person and I'm comfortable with the situation that's really all that counts. That said I wouldn't entertain a married woman who has young (under 10) children who was cheating, its ok for adults to fuck up their lives but not kids. |
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