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Swinging - a way of life or just a phase?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What way do you guys see it? Noticed a lot of folk dropping on and off the radar recently and got me wondering.
Is it a way of life or just a phase? When do you decide to throw in the towel?
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By *976scottMan
over a year ago
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Think like everyone i go through phases where swinging is important in my life! Thinking of a wee break after the festive period and see how things work out!
So to answer the question yeah I think it is a phase however when you've tried strawberry it's hard to go back to vanilla  |
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"What way do you guys see it? Noticed a lot of folk dropping on and off the radar recently and got me wondering.
Is it a way of life or just a phase? When do you decide to throw in the towel?
Geek "
When it is not achieving what you set out to achieve.
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Been swinging for many years and enjoyed every minuet of it.
I don't swing as much as I did and prefer now to just meet up occasionally with regular playmates or the selected few who catch my eye.
Still love the social side of swinging tho and meeting new friends as well as catching up with friends I already have.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a hobby
Defo not a way of life
As jacs said
When we 1 st started it was fast n furious lol but now older and wiser it's more of a if it happens it happens if not no loss
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hope its a phrase. But when you love sex so much can get addictive. Would like to think I'd meet that one man who would make me feel I don't need to meet different men. Better for you mental I think ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think when you start out it becomes very addictive and is a big part of your social life for a while,then you kinda relax into it and tend to just meet up with folk on ocassion it becomes part of your sex life rather than your social life,like a special treat if you must .. Its fun its free and I stirs the emotions.. Why not |
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When i first staryed it was a phase. But iv in the last few months found out im actually alot more bi than i thought i was. So hopefully i cam meet a guy who will want woman on the bedroom with me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I still have the hope that one day I'll get happily ever after and I will be enough for someone. Just me. No need for other people to be involved. It will mean the end of my time here and I'll not be back.
This site has allowed me to explore a few fantasies and meet some people I'd never have met otherwise. I don't class myself as a swinger and I'd never see this as anything more than a bit of fun. I think it's important to keep this very separate. Fantasy land and reality are different for me. That said I understand how it becomes much more for some people at times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site has allowed me to explore a few fantasies and meet some people I'd never have met otherwise. I don't class myself as a swinger and I'd never see this as anything more than a bit of fun. I think it's important to keep this very separate. Fantasy land and reality are different for me. That said I understand how it becomes much more for some people at times. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I first joined fab I saw it as a bit of fun and excitement after a very unhappy time in my life and a chance to enjoy a rediscovered sex life with no ties. Yes, I met some lovely people and had a great time with my new freedom exploring things I never thought I'd do.
Its very different now and I see that as a need I had at the time. Our lives evolve and I'm in a happy place now with a lovely man to share a very meaningful and fulfilling relationship with which gives me a great deal of pleasure. All thanks to fab. I still enjoy my friends here and the craic but its not my lifestyle any more, if indeed it ever was.
We all have differing desires and needs and luckily fab is here for us to use in our own unique ways. I don't class myself as a swinger...just a fun person trying to get the best out of my life as it currently is. I do, however, celebrate everyones right to involve themselves as much or as little as they want.
Vive la difference... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a bit of fun for me it's for my pleasure no one else's
It's my me time although I don't get much of it got to much going on in the real llife that gets in the way a lot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I first joined fab I saw it as a bit of fun and excitement after a very unhappy time in my life and a chance to enjoy a rediscovered sex life with no ties. Yes, I met some lovely people and had a great time with my new freedom exploring things I never thought I'd do.
Its very different now and I see that as a need I had at the time. Our lives evolve and I'm in a happy place now with a lovely man to share a very meaningful and fulfilling relationship with which gives me a great deal of pleasure. All thanks to fab. I still enjoy my friends here and the craic but its not my lifestyle any more, if indeed it ever was.
We all have differing desires and needs and luckily fab is here for us to use in our own unique ways. I don't class myself as a swinger...just a fun person trying to get the best out of my life as it currently is. I do, however, celebrate everyones right to involve themselves as much or as little as they want.
Vive la difference... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I honestly think it will just be a phase. Something I'm wanting to try. So far met some really nice ppl and been lucky that I've not met any not so nice ppl. I'll continue until it becomes too serious or no fun |
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We always refer to it as a hobby.
Pick it up when I am horny leave it when life gets busy.
we have had this hobby ov ours for years tho lol
We don't get out 2 play as often as I would like, boo ho
BUT it is only a hobby after all
As we are only looking for soft swing most just look at our pics then pass us by, their loss,
but the people that do take time to meet us always come back for more and more and more he he
So most ov the people we have played with we would consider as friends.
so now we really enjoy the social side ov things more than we did 10 years ago when we started our wee hobby lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When i first staryed it was a phase. But iv in the last few months found out im actually alot more bi than i thought i was. So hopefully i cam meet a guy who will want woman on the bedroom with me x"
Looking at your pics and profile I can't imagine what you want will be hard to find
Ink x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A way of life? Probably not but neither would I say just a phase, for us its just a little bit of extra excitement, although we're becoming more and more interested about the whole social side of swinging
Ink x |
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Originally a few years back we were like rabbits...was exciting....then it took over our lives...then shit happened we learned from our mistakes.....now it's something we can pop in and out of when we choose.
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By *uttyMan
over a year ago
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"We just dip in and out nowadays. Tend to stick with friends made, certainly not the be all and end all  "
Nothing beats dipping in and out
It's an escape from everyday normal life for me
A rare escape these days lol |
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