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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anyone go into the chat rooms ? How hard is it to start a conversation .. Everybody knows everybody .. I was like .. / felt like jumping and waving my hands like am here chat to me lol ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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not now, but I used to and the more effort you make, the better the chances your conversation will stick with someone and your network starts to grow.
also, try and go to a social event, you will build it that way too...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I only went on once felt exactly the same. Everyone seems to know each other and the conversation moves so fast....I gave up lol "
Why can't I see you Hun , ? But not that am desprate too lol .. . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm a regular user of the chatrooms, and it does really depend who is in chat. sometimes there is some decent banter and a laugh, you just have to learn to jump in and add to the conversation, nobody will invite you to speak, sadly, it is even the same for 'old hands', some evenings if I haven't much to add to the 'topics' I find myself twiddling my thumbs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't be bothered putting all that effort in .. I was just like fook this .. Am outta here ... Would be better off talking to myself ... X "
as is often said on this site.. you get out what you put in.. if you can't be bothered, why should others be bothered to chat to you?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm a regular user of the chatrooms, and it does really depend who is in chat. sometimes there is some decent banter and a laugh, you just have to learn to jump in and add to the conversation, nobody will invite you to speak, sadly, it is even the same for 'old hands', some evenings if I haven't much to add to the 'topics' I find myself twiddling my thumbs" God your photos are brave Hun .. In the green house ? Hope it's a well shut off garden lol x ![](/icons/s/redface.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I couldn't be bothered putting all that effort in .. I was just like fook this .. Am outta here ... Would be better off talking to myself ... X
as is often said on this site.. you get out what you put in.. if you can't be bothered, why should others be bothered to chat to you??" it's not that I can't be bothered .. I just can't be bothered putting to much effort in .. If an liked then am liked I don't have any issues having meets and if you read my verifications you know am very genuine and very polite and respectful .. And my conversation in the chat rooms aren't .. "Get your tits out " it's more like hello room how's everyone .. Any Gotham fans in x ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I couldn't be bothered putting all that effort in .. I was just like fook this .. Am outta here ... Would be better off talking to myself ... X
as is often said on this site.. you get out what you put in.. if you can't be bothered, why should others be bothered to chat to you?? it's not that I can't be bothered .. I just can't be bothered putting to much effort in .. If an liked then am liked I don't have any issues having meets and if you read my verifications you know am very genuine and very polite and respectful .. And my conversation in the chat rooms aren't .. "Get your tits out " it's more like hello room how's everyone .. Any Gotham fans in x "
well if you ever do put in some effort, be sure to say hello... and yes the garden is enclosed and very very private |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep waste of time, when u don't know anyone and they're all having their own conversations! "
we were all new at some point, and knew nobody... as I said before, even long time members don't get chatted to sometimes, it all depends who is in chatroom at the time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I couldn't be bothered putting all that effort in .. I was just like fook this .. Am outta here ... Would be better off talking to myself ... X
as is often said on this site.. you get out what you put in.. if you can't be bothered, why should others be bothered to chat to you?? it's not that I can't be bothered .. I just can't be bothered putting to much effort in .. If an liked then am liked I don't have any issues having meets and if you read my verifications you know am very genuine and very polite and respectful .. And my conversation in the chat rooms aren't .. "Get your tits out " it's more like hello room how's everyone .. Any Gotham fans in x
well if you ever do put in some effort, be sure to say hello... and yes the garden is enclosed and very very private" I will do Hun .. Private mail me .. Miss I have a private question. X |
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