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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Listening to radio Clyde on way home from work this morning and they said a survey body image was one of the three things that most worried women. Why do you put such a high stock on this looking at the pictures on here has taken me back to my youth of your pals dad's dirty mags and the readers wife's section. It was always the best bit real women real beautiful women in all their glory. They were beautiful wether a size six or size twenty because they had confidence. Confidence and personality rate higher than anything else and remember you are all beautiful and the men on here appreciate every photo you post on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Readers Wife type porn has always been the best, it's much better looking at real people with real bodies rather than the airbrushed fakes you see elsewhere. How can anyone expect to look like an image that is 90% fake? |
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one thing that has shone out on a site like this is that 99% of the people on here see the person not the size only the narrow minded people see peoples size or looks and wonder why anyone would want to be with them whether that be the sbbw,bbw or the stick thin people or ugly people
And your right confidance puts people in a different light too.
I find confidance a very big turn on but not to be mistaken for arrogance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's whatever you think attractive?
Some like BBW
Some like skinny
Some like really tall
Some don't
and...not to mention the wee shortarsed women like me!
somebody must like us."
apparently cliff richard does, makes it easier for him to
"....lock her up in a trunk, so no big hunk can take her away....."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry but call me shallow
Il only have sex with someone I find attractive
Yes he has to have a personality to match but the 1 st thing I see is attraction I'm not here to meet my soul mate  
Auds x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Body image is always going to be an issue and is one that I've struggled with.
It's easy to say to someone that they're beautiful/attractive but until they get a bit of confidence in them they will be more inclined to listen to the people with the negative comments.
I work with a girl who is a size 6 and regularly calls herself fat and tells me how much weight she needs to lose.
It affects all shapes and sizes and is a real shame that they can't see their beauty. |
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It doesn't matter if people find you sexy or not, it's about the way you feel about yourself.
I'm a big girl, I don't think I'm sexy in the slightest. Yet I get loads of messages from guys telling me I am. Does that change how I feel about myself? No, not really.
But I do try to focus on my good points while working to improve what I hate about myself. I'm not always successful, but I am a lot more confident now than I was in my twenties, and I was slimmer then.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It doesn't matter if people find you sexy or not, it's about the way you feel about yourself.
I'm a big girl, I don't think I'm sexy in the slightest. Yet I get loads of messages from guys telling me I am. Does that change how I feel about myself? No, not really.
But I do try to focus on my good points while working to improve what I hate about myself. I'm not always successful, but I am a lot more confident now than I was in my twenties, and I was slimmer then.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Funny thing is in a pub or club I look for women I'm attracted to, I don't have that luxury on here as like most jobs I'm usually one of a thousand vying for the position lol  |
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By *kataliteMan
over a year ago
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I, think, all, women, are, beautiful, and, should, be, told, often, x |
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"remember you are all beautiful and the men on here appreciate every photo you post on here. "
sorry I don't agree with your last statement.
I've had some nasty stuff said to me about my photos and how I look and that's the points I was trying to make in That most people see the person behind the pix and not just a body but for some they can't see past body image on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For every Nasty comment about a larger lady
There's a nasty comment about a slim or gorgeous lady
It's the world of fab alot of jealousy and huff taking unfortunately
As if said many times this site is a sex site grow a pair or grow a thicker skin the hateful nasty people on here you will never meet so why worry?
Iv been called all sorts on here over the yrs do I give a toss... I think you will all know the answer to that question  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder n stuff.
but nah not everyone's beautiful,and not everyone's funny,good at cooking etc,,but everyone has one or two attractive qualities |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's whatever you think attractive?
Some like BBW
Some like skinny
Some like really tall
Some don't
and...not to mention the wee shortarsed women like me!
somebody must like us."
Phwoar... Your a stunner likes!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must be shallow and narrow minded as well based on what i find attractive . Some on here would fuck a cut in a tramps forehead .personally i need to be attracted . Im no slim toned lightweight myself but i like what i like . You could be the nicest kindest soul that walked the earth but if your a bbw chances are you wont make my cock hard so we wont be fucking .
I would never send abuse on here regardless of who it was . Some profiles actually turn my stomach but i wouldnt message to say . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"remember you are all beautiful and the men on here appreciate every photo you post on here. sorry I don't agree with your last statement.
I've had some nasty stuff said to me about my photos and how I look and that's the points I was trying to make in That most people see the person behind the pix and not just a body but for some they can't see past body image on here. "
there are trolls all over the internet who deliberately set out to hurt people that will be the wee ladies who have no veris or real pictures just went on and looked at your photos again and it's not me that's wrong it's YOU as suspected I remembered right hot as hell stunning and beautiful as f##k were the phrases that came to mind |
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"remember you are all beautiful and the men on here appreciate every photo you post on here. sorry I don't agree with your last statement.
I've had some nasty stuff said to me about my photos and how I look and that's the points I was trying to make in That most people see the person behind the pix and not just a body but for some they can't see past body image on here. there are trolls all over the internet who deliberately set out to hurt people that will be the wee ladies who have no veris or real pictures just went on and looked at your photos again and it's not me that's wrong it's YOU as suspected I remembered right hot as hell stunning and beautiful as f##k were the phrases that came to mind "
your too kind but thank you... It's all about the bass  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"remember you are all beautiful and the men on here appreciate every photo you post on here. sorry I don't agree with your last statement.
I've had some nasty stuff said to me about my photos and how I look and that's the points I was trying to make in That most people see the person behind the pix and not just a body but for some they can't see past body image on here. there are trolls all over the internet who deliberately set out to hurt people that will be the wee ladies who have no veris or real pictures just went on and looked at your photos again and it's not me that's wrong it's YOU as suspected I remembered right hot as hell stunning and beautiful as f##k were the phrases that came to mind your too kind but thank you... It's all about the bass "
my wife has better taste than me and she wanted to lunch with you? So it's not just me and I don't know if you saw my other post I think the party which will be awesome anyway would only be enhanced by a game of d*unken spin the bottle lol. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's whatever you think attractive?
Some like BBW
Some like skinny
Some like really tall
Some don't
and...not to mention the wee shortarsed women like me!
somebody must like us."
everybody loves you bet even in blackpool this weekend they all love you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It doesn't matter if people find you sexy or not, it's about the way you feel about yourself.
I'm a big girl, I don't think I'm sexy in the slightest. Yet I get loads of messages from guys telling me I am. Does that change how I feel about myself? No, not really.
But I do try to focus on my good points while working to improve what I hate about myself. I'm not always successful, but I am a lot more confident now than I was in my twenties, and I was slimmer then.
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add me to the list of guys saying your photos were beautiful only thing wrong with them is there isn't more xxxx |
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"It doesn't matter if people find you sexy or not, it's about the way you feel about yourself.
I'm a big girl, I don't think I'm sexy in the slightest. Yet I get loads of messages from guys telling me I am. Does that change how I feel about myself? No, not really.
But I do try to focus on my good points while working to improve what I hate about myself. I'm not always successful, but I am a lot more confident now than I was in my twenties, and I was slimmer then.
add me to the list of guys saying your photos were beautiful only thing wrong with them is there isn't more xxxx"
Thank you, we're always trying to get more pics  |
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This topic has been debated many times on here. I do think that people should remember that just because you are not sexually attracted to someone does not mean that they are not attractive. Therefore, slagging someone off for their looks is unnecessary. Lets face it, you may think you are gorgeous but someone else might not.
For me there has to be an attraction of some sort - but it is not all about looks it is both physical and mental.
I hate looking at pictures of me, and by that I mean any part of me and I find it impossible to take a compliment.
As for you Jacs - you may be a big girl - but you have one hell of a sexy and sassy way about you.
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"This topic has been debated many times on here. I do think that people should remember that just because you are not sexually attracted to someone does not mean that they are not attractive. Therefore, slagging someone off for their looks is unnecessary. Lets face it, you may think you are gorgeous but someone else might not.
For me there has to be an attraction of some sort - but it is not all about looks it is both physical and mental.
I hate looking at pictures of me, and by that I mean any part of me and I find it impossible to take a compliment.
As for you Jacs - you may be a big girl - but you have one hell of a sexy and sassy way about you.
Shy "
Lol thank you shy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some on here would fuck a cut in a tramps forehead. If your a bbw chances are you wont make my cock hard so we wont be fucking .
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Tell me how do you define a "Tramp". I do hope it is not based on looks and size?
And I think you have mispelt your user name...and you aint funny.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some on here would fuck a cut in a tramps forehead. If your a bbw chances are you wont make my cock hard so we wont be fucking .
Tell me how do you define a "Tramp". I do hope it is not based on looks and size?
And I think you have mispelt your user name...and you aint funny.
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In which case ive spelt my username correctly as its cunny funt and not funny cunt .
And a bit baffled by the point your trying to raise here . I would have thought that most people would have assumed that by tramp i was referring to a homeless person most likely with an alcohol addiction . Quite what their size or shape has to do with anything i dont know . People. All offended by a phrase as old has the hills . Fuck me ive seen it all on here now lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This topic has been debated many times on here. I do think that people should remember that just because you are not sexually attracted to someone does not mean that they are not attractive. Therefore, slagging someone off for their looks is unnecessary. Lets face it, you may think you are gorgeous but someone else might not.
For me there has to be an attraction of some sort - but it is not all about looks it is both physical and mental.
I hate looking at pictures of me, and by that I mean any part of me and I find it impossible to take a compliment.
As for you Jacs - you may be a big girl - but you have one hell of a sexy and sassy way about you.
Shy "
i haven't seen any public slagging off on here? Dosnt mean it dosnt happen privately but as I said before no one is perfect it's all about preference but.... Think of all the pop songs that's been out about loving the curves and big woman could you imagine the uproar if it was slating them or a song about loving skinny minnies??
Come on people everyone deserves their opinion whether we agree or not
If your happy with what you've got that's all that matters to hell with anyone who dosnt like you the way you are
There's plenty about who do
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"This topic has been debated many times on here. I do think that people should remember that just because you are not sexually attracted to someone does not mean that they are not attractive. Therefore, slagging someone off for their looks is unnecessary. Lets face it, you may think you are gorgeous but someone else might not.
For me there has to be an attraction of some sort - but it is not all about looks it is both physical and mental.
I hate looking at pictures of me, and by that I mean any part of me and I find it impossible to take a compliment.
As for you Jacs - you may be a big girl - but you have one hell of a sexy and sassy way about you.
Shy i haven't seen any public slagging off on here? Dosnt mean it dosnt happen privately but as I said before no one is perfect it's all about preference but.... Think of all the pop songs that's been out about loving the curves and big woman could you imagine the uproar if it was slating them or a song about loving skinny minnies??
Come on people everyone deserves their opinion whether we agree or not
If your happy with what you've got that's all that matters to hell with anyone who dosnt like you the way you are
There's plenty about who do
X "
Was not suggesting anyone was slagging anyone off in this post - if my post infers otherwise sorry!
Shy x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some on here would fuck a cut in a tramps forehead. If your a bbw chances are you wont make my cock hard so we wont be fucking .
Tell me how do you define a "Tramp". I do hope it is not based on looks and size?
And I think you have mispelt your user name...and you aint funny.
In which case ive spelt my username correctly as its cunny funt and not funny cunt .
And a bit baffled by the point your trying to raise here . I would have thought that most people would have assumed that by tramp i was referring to a homeless person most likely with an alcohol addiction . "
My mistake, I thought you might be dyslexic and was just trying to help.
Oh...and I am glad you wouldn't fuck a homeless person with an alcohol problem...they already have enough problems as it is...
PS are all tramps alcoholics?
PPS I feel a song coming on....
"So let me take you by the hand and lead you through the streets of London, I'll show you something..." 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some on here would fuck a cut in a tramps forehead. If your a bbw chances are you wont make my cock hard so we wont be fucking .
Tell me how do you define a "Tramp". I do hope it is not based on looks and size?
And I think you have mispelt your user name...and you aint funny.
In which case ive spelt my username correctly as its cunny funt and not funny cunt .
And a bit baffled by the point your trying to raise here . I would have thought that most people would have assumed that by tramp i was referring to a homeless person most likely with an alcohol addiction .
My mistake, I thought you might be dyslexic and was just trying to help.
Oh...and I am glad you wouldn't fuck a homeless person with an alcohol problem...they already have enough problems as it is...
PS are all tramps alcoholics?
PPS I feel a song coming on....
"So let me take you by the hand and lead you through the streets of London, I'll show you something..."
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Have i upset you in some way at all ? It seems your spoiling for a fight . Let me make this simple for you
The phrase which seems to have caused such an issue with you is a term used much like a barbers floor or dolphins blow hole in reference to the fact that some people will indeed fuck anything that has a hole .
I am not one of those people .
Clear enough ? |
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"Some on here would fuck a cut in a tramps forehead. If your a bbw chances are you wont make my cock hard so we wont be fucking .
Tell me how do you define a "Tramp". I do hope it is not based on looks and size?
And I think you have mispelt your user name...and you aint funny.
In which case ive spelt my username correctly as its cunny funt and not funny cunt .
And a bit baffled by the point your trying to raise here . I would have thought that most people would have assumed that by tramp i was referring to a homeless person most likely with an alcohol addiction .
My mistake, I thought you might be dyslexic and was just trying to help.
Oh...and I am glad you wouldn't fuck a homeless person with an alcohol problem...they already have enough problems as it is...
PS are all tramps alcoholics?
PPS I feel a song coming on....
"So let me take you by the hand and lead you through the streets of London, I'll show you something..."
Have i upset you in some way at all ? It seems your spoiling for a fight . Let me make this simple for you
The phrase which seems to have caused such an issue with you is a term used much like a barbers floor or dolphins blow hole in reference to the fact that some people will indeed fuck anything that has a hole .
I am not one of those people .
Clear enough ? "
So now you would fuck a dolphins blow hole!!!
What kind of sick bastard are you!!!
Flipper done too much for mankind to be abused like this!!!
How many people have you rescued??? |
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"Some on here would fuck a cut in a tramps forehead. If your a bbw chances are you wont make my cock hard so we wont be fucking .
Tell me how do you define a "Tramp". I do hope it is not based on looks and size?
And I think you have mispelt your user name...and you aint funny.
In which case ive spelt my username correctly as its cunny funt and not funny cunt .
And a bit baffled by the point your trying to raise here . I would have thought that most people would have assumed that by tramp i was referring to a homeless person most likely with an alcohol addiction .
My mistake, I thought you might be dyslexic and was just trying to help.
Oh...and I am glad you wouldn't fuck a homeless person with an alcohol problem...they already have enough problems as it is...
PS are all tramps alcoholics?
PPS I feel a song coming on....
"So let me take you by the hand and lead you through the streets of London, I'll show you something..."
Have i upset you in some way at all ? It seems your spoiling for a fight . Let me make this simple for you
The phrase which seems to have caused such an issue with you is a term used much like a barbers floor or dolphins blow hole in reference to the fact that some people will indeed fuck anything that has a hole .
I am not one of those people .
Clear enough ?
So now you would fuck a dolphins blow hole!!!
What kind of sick bastard are you!!!
Flipper done too much for mankind to be abused like this!!!
How many people have you rescued??? "
How about you ignore each other and get back to the topic in hand ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I thought this post was about body image and not about whether you would shag a bbw or skinny girl on here  "
Sorry Miss Nawty...Just feel strongly about perverts abusing flippers blow hole!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As much as people might not think or believe it im not the most confident person in the world either but I've far more confidence than what I was when I was younger even 10 years ago . Body image is something most people worry about (more so woman ) I feel . Nobody wants to be called fat or be judged for their size. For me attraction has to start at looks but I've also seen myself say no to meeting sometime from a picture to meeting them at a drinks day or social and then think oh actually I do like them and their personality shines through. Also for a man to have confidence but not quite arrogance is a benefit . It's all about preferences and being able to like what we like whilst trying to respect other people's choices . It's nice to put a picture up that YOU feel good about . If you get good feedback then it's a bonus . I don't understand people who send abusive msgs to people regarding their pictures. I've had a few too but you also need to learn to ignore some of the childish responses perhaps because you're not interested and people take the huff. I personally would love my body to be more toned but I don't want to be a skinny Minnie either .
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well as someone who started off on this site about 5years ago with a gym body and did very well, to having had put on weight and having to change my profile from Athletic to Large I can see a definite change in the way people on this site and in life in general treat you. Now I can't even get people I used to meet regularly even to accept my verifications or chat again when I left the site and came back. Still the same handsome, confident, cheeky chappy I've always been just with a belly now. I never think I ever judged shape or size when I was in better condition myself and still don't, but seems I might be in the minority on here. But everyone has their own prerogatives, I agree with janda that firstly there has to be physical attraction to meet with someone, but the difficulty is that we are kind of brainwashed into thinking particular looks, shapes, size etc are unattractive. Funnily enough it is the little imperfections that girls are probably insecure about themselves that I normally find attractive. I generally think people just need to open their minds more. |
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Yeah god forbid someone should give an honest opinion that doesnt fit in with the happy clappy gang that all love and respect each other and see the inner beauty .
Baws |
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"Yeah god forbid someone should give an honest opinion that doesnt fit in with the happy clappy gang that all love and respect each other and see the inner beauty .
Baws "
There's a difference between an opinion and a dispute of the forum....
And as for me being in the happy clappy gang I did giggle |
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"Yeah god forbid someone should give an honest opinion that doesnt fit in with the happy clappy gang that all love and respect each other and see the inner beauty .
Baws
There's a difference between an opinion and a dispute of the forum....
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"Yeah god forbid someone should give an honest opinion that doesnt fit in with the happy clappy gang that all love and respect each other and see the inner beauty .
Baws
There's a difference between an opinion and a dispute of the forum....
And as for me being in the happy clappy gang I did giggle "
my original post was just that . An honest opinion ive yet to met a woman in fab or in the real world happy with her body . I did pick up on the narrow minded comment and do take exception at it . Clearly for whatever reason and im still no very sure why as the posts are just general pish rambling, someone has taken a dislike to a phrase ive used and became a tad abusive themselves .
Sure i will get over it and no lose any sleep tonight |
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"Yeah god forbid someone should give an honest opinion that doesnt fit in with the happy clappy gang that all love and respect each other and see the inner beauty .
Baws
There's a difference between an opinion and a dispute of the forum....
And as for me being in the happy clappy gang I did giggle
my original post was just that . An honest opinion ive yet to met a woman in fab or in the real world happy with her body . I did pick up on the narrow minded comment and do take exception at it . Clearly for whatever reason and im still no very sure why as the posts are just general pish rambling, someone has taken a dislike to a phrase ive used and became a tad abusive themselves .
Sure i will get over it and no lose any sleep tonight "
I agree with you no woman is happy....but neither are men.....I think being unhappy is universal and it's life |
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"Yeah god forbid someone should give an honest opinion that doesnt fit in with the happy clappy gang that all love and respect each other and see the inner beauty .
Baws
There's a difference between an opinion and a dispute of the forum....
And as for me being in the happy clappy gang I did giggle
my original post was just that . An honest opinion ive yet to met a woman in fab or in the real world happy with her body . I did pick up on the narrow minded comment and do take exception at it . Clearly for whatever reason and im still no very sure why as the posts are just general pish rambling, someone has taken a dislike to a phrase ive used and became a tad abusive themselves .
Sure i will get over it and no lose any sleep tonight
I agree with you no woman is happy....but neither are men.....I think being unhappy is universal and it's life "
Yep . I agree maybe i take a simplistic _iew that some will like my body others wont regardless of what i think .
Im comfortable and accepting of that . |
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"Yeah god forbid someone should give an honest opinion that doesnt fit in with the happy clappy gang that all love and respect each other and see the inner beauty .
Baws "
It is ok Brother Cunny Funt... we all have our crosses to bare and our prayer's are with you.
"He that once was lost will soon be found"
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"Yeah god forbid someone should give an honest opinion that doesnt fit in with the happy clappy gang that all love and respect each other and see the inner beauty .
Baws
There's a difference between an opinion and a dispute of the forum....
And as for me being in the happy clappy gang I did giggle
my original post was just that . An honest opinion ive yet to met a woman in fab or in the real world happy with her body . I did pick up on the narrow minded comment and do take exception at it . Clearly for whatever reason and im still no very sure why as the posts are just general pish rambling, someone has taken a dislike to a phrase ive used and became a tad abusive themselves .
Sure i will get over it and no lose any sleep tonight "
Why would you take exception to me speaking about narrow minded people?
The world is full of them.
Only a narrow minded person in my opinion would have issues with someone because of their size or how someone looks.
The world would indeed be a wonderful place if we saw people and not sizes or looks |
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"Yeah god forbid someone should give an honest opinion that doesnt fit in with the happy clappy gang that all love and respect each other and see the inner beauty .
Baws
There's a difference between an opinion and a dispute of the forum....
And as for me being in the happy clappy gang I did giggle
my original post was just that . An honest opinion ive yet to met a woman in fab or in the real world happy with her body . I did pick up on the narrow minded comment and do take exception at it . Clearly for whatever reason and im still no very sure why as the posts are just general pish rambling, someone has taken a dislike to a phrase ive used and became a tad abusive themselves .
Sure i will get over it and no lose any sleep tonight Why would you take exception to me speaking about narrow minded people?
The world is full of them.
Only a narrow minded person in my opinion would have issues with someone because of their size or how someone looks.
The world would indeed be a wonderful place if we saw people and not sizes or looks "
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"Yeah god forbid someone should give an honest opinion that doesnt fit in with the happy clappy gang that all love and respect each other and see the inner beauty .
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There's a difference between an opinion and a dispute of the forum....
And as for me being in the happy clappy gang I did giggle
my original post was just that . An honest opinion ive yet to met a woman in fab or in the real world happy with her body . I did pick up on the narrow minded comment and do take exception at it . Clearly for whatever reason and im still no very sure why as the posts are just general pish rambling, someone has taken a dislike to a phrase ive used and became a tad abusive themselves .
Sure i will get over it and no lose any sleep tonight Why would you take exception to me speaking about narrow minded people?
The world is full of them.
Only a narrow minded person in my opinion would have issues with someone because of their size or how someone looks.
The world would indeed be a wonderful place if we saw people and not sizes or looks "
But thats not what you said was it
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"Yeah god forbid someone should give an honest opinion that doesnt fit in with the happy clappy gang that all love and respect each other and see the inner beauty .
Baws
There's a difference between an opinion and a dispute of the forum....
And as for me being in the happy clappy gang I did giggle
my original post was just that . An honest opinion ive yet to met a woman in fab or in the real world happy with her body . I did pick up on the narrow minded comment and do take exception at it . Clearly for whatever reason and im still no very sure why as the posts are just general pish rambling, someone has taken a dislike to a phrase ive used and became a tad abusive themselves .
Sure i will get over it and no lose any sleep tonight
I agree with you no woman is happy....but neither are men.....I think being unhappy is universal and it's life
Yep . I agree maybe i take a simplistic _iew that some will like my body others wont regardless of what i think .
Im comfortable and accepting of that . "
I am accepting of it too.
I got told on here not so long ago by someone that I should go get a gastric band fitted.. Why? Just so I would be more aesthetically pleasing to someone so narrow minded.. No thank you.
The whole point is we are never going to be attractive to everyone and that's perfectly alright.
I have met a few who have not been attracted to me because of my size but we have remaind chat friends. |
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"Yeah god forbid someone should give an honest opinion that doesnt fit in with the happy clappy gang that all love and respect each other and see the inner beauty .
Baws
There's a difference between an opinion and a dispute of the forum....
And as for me being in the happy clappy gang I did giggle
my original post was just that . An honest opinion ive yet to met a woman in fab or in the real world happy with her body . I did pick up on the narrow minded comment and do take exception at it . Clearly for whatever reason and im still no very sure why as the posts are just general pish rambling, someone has taken a dislike to a phrase ive used and became a tad abusive themselves .
Sure i will get over it and no lose any sleep tonight Why would you take exception to me speaking about narrow minded people?
The world is full of them.
Only a narrow minded person in my opinion would have issues with someone because of their size or how someone looks.
The world would indeed be a wonderful place if we saw people and not sizes or looks
But thats not what you said was it
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isn't it sorry thought it was |
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"Yeah god forbid someone should give an honest opinion that doesnt fit in with the happy clappy gang that all love and respect each other and see the inner beauty .
Baws
There's a difference between an opinion and a dispute of the forum....
And as for me being in the happy clappy gang I did giggle
my original post was just that . An honest opinion ive yet to met a woman in fab or in the real world happy with her body . I did pick up on the narrow minded comment and do take exception at it . Clearly for whatever reason and im still no very sure why as the posts are just general pish rambling, someone has taken a dislike to a phrase ive used and became a tad abusive themselves .
Sure i will get over it and no lose any sleep tonight Why would you take exception to me speaking about narrow minded people?
The world is full of them.
Only a narrow minded person in my opinion would have issues with someone because of their size or how someone looks.
The world would indeed be a wonderful place if we saw people and not sizes or looks
But thats not what you said was it
isn't it sorry thought it was "
Certainly not the way it comes over . And if it was what you said my response would have been very different .
I would have said anyone who has a problem with someone because of their size or shape is no better than a racist or bigot .
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I think size doesn't matter to me however rudeness to people of any shape is not acceptable
On Friday at the social a male introduced himself to me asked my username I said I think you know you said I'd never get a meet because of my size he said nothing wrong with your size I said maybe now to you but when I was three stone heavier you had seemed to have an opinion as well |
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"I think size doesn't matter to me however rudeness to people of any shape is not acceptable
On Friday at the social a male introduced himself to me asked my username I said I think you know you said I'd never get a meet because of my size he said nothing wrong with your size I said maybe now to you but when I was three stone heavier you had seemed to have an opinion as well "
Is that not fair ?
He said he wouldnt meet because your size . Your no longer that size . 3 stone is a huge difference and would change your shape . |
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"Yeah god forbid someone should give an honest opinion that doesnt fit in with the happy clappy gang that all love and respect each other and see the inner beauty .
Baws
There's a difference between an opinion and a dispute of the forum....
And as for me being in the happy clappy gang I did giggle
my original post was just that . An honest opinion ive yet to met a woman in fab or in the real world happy with her body . I did pick up on the narrow minded comment and do take exception at it . Clearly for whatever reason and im still no very sure why as the posts are just general pish rambling, someone has taken a dislike to a phrase ive used and became a tad abusive themselves .
Sure i will get over it and no lose any sleep tonight Why would you take exception to me speaking about narrow minded people?
The world is full of them.
Only a narrow minded person in my opinion would have issues with someone because of their size or how someone looks.
The world would indeed be a wonderful place if we saw people and not sizes or looks
But thats not what you said was it
isn't it sorry thought it was
Certainly not the way it comes over . And if it was what you said my response would have been very different .
I would have said anyone who has a problem with someone because of their size or shape is no better than a racist or bigot .
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maybe I'm not the brightest at getting my point of _iew across but that's what I ment.
No one should feel unacceptable in today's society. |
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"I think size doesn't matter to me however rudeness to people of any shape is not acceptable
On Friday at the social a male introduced himself to me asked my username I said I think you know you said I'd never get a meet because of my size he said nothing wrong with your size I said maybe now to you but when I was three stone heavier you had seemed to have an opinion as well
Is that not fair ?
He said he wouldnt meet because your size . Your no longer that size . 3 stone is a huge difference and would change your shape . "
It's not nice to be on the receiving end of it. I got a similar comment recently about how I'm 'bangable' now. I'm still the same person as I was then and to make me feel like I wasn't good enough when I was bigger is exactly what knocks people's confidence and raises the body image issue. |
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"I think size doesn't matter to me however rudeness to people of any shape is not acceptable
On Friday at the social a male introduced himself to me asked my username I said I think you know you said I'd never get a meet because of my size he said nothing wrong with your size I said maybe now to you but when I was three stone heavier you had seemed to have an opinion as well
Is that not fair ?
He said he wouldnt meet because your size . Your no longer that size . 3 stone is a huge difference and would change your shape . "
No because he was abusive first time round why would I want to chat to him or meet with him now ? |
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" Confidence and personality rate higher than anything else and remember you are all beautiful and the men on here appreciate every photo you post on here. "
I disagree with that |
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" Confidence and personality rate higher than anything else and remember you are all beautiful and the men on here appreciate every photo you post on here.
I disagree with that"
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If people need invisible people on the internet to appreciate their pictures to reinforce self confidence...,they may need to work through a better solution to that, getting superficial commentary is not going to plug any gaps there may be... |
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"I think size doesn't matter to me however rudeness to people of any shape is not acceptable
On Friday at the social a male introduced himself to me asked my username I said I think you know you said I'd never get a meet because of my size he said nothing wrong with your size I said maybe now to you but when I was three stone heavier you had seemed to have an opinion as well
Is that not fair ?
He said he wouldnt meet because your size . Your no longer that size . 3 stone is a huge difference and would change your shape .
No because he was abusive first time round why would I want to chat to him or meet with him now ?"
Ah thats fair enough . If he was abusive about it then yeah . Fuck um |
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"I think size doesn't matter to me however rudeness to people of any shape is not acceptable
On Friday at the social a male introduced himself to me asked my username I said I think you know you said I'd never get a meet because of my size he said nothing wrong with your size I said maybe now to you but when I was three stone heavier you had seemed to have an opinion as well
Is that not fair ?
He said he wouldnt meet because your size . Your no longer that size . 3 stone is a huge difference and would change your shape .
No because he was abusive first time round why would I want to chat to him or meet with him now ?"
Well said,I hope he was suitably embarrassed by his previous comment and was at least man enough to apologise for it too. |
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"If people need invisible people on the internet to appreciate their pictures to reinforce self confidence...,they may need to work through a better solution to that, getting superficial commentary is not going to plug any gaps there may be..."
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Well said. Dead right x mmmm readers wives. I am suprised I can see now, at 12 I spanked my plank over readers wives so much, salt came out the end of my knob. I thought I would go blind. Lol |
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"If people need invisible people on the internet to appreciate their pictures to reinforce self confidence...,they may need to work through a better solution to that, getting superficial commentary is not going to plug any gaps there may be..."
agree _iew
Some folk on here can't seperate virtual life and real life  |
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