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"Do you think its possible to Be trusted and not judged for being on a sex site. Iv just been pure judged. Asking if my concious would be clear!! Ps(not that im going in a relationship lol  "
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
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"Iv met someone off here. He just said he would never trust me x"
They clearly have double standards. I'd consider it lucky they have said this at the outset and then end it with them. |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"Yeah i just was asking a hypothetical quwstion. Is it possible to be trusted if your on a site thats all x "
It depends on what you mean though as there are different circumstances, i.e. if they aren't on the site and you are or if you agree to be 'exclusive' together and they leave the site etc |
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"Yeah i just was asking a hypothetical quwstion. Is it possible to be trusted if your on a site thats all x "
your heading is confusing with what your saying then lol
But id say it would be very difficult to trust someone on a swinging site and if you were getting serious then id say leave and let the relationship develop without outside influances getting in the way xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Id agree with jacs
if a relationship is formed on here the best thing to do is both leave and work on the exclusive relationship
then if and when you feel ready to return you can
gives you a fighting chance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id agree with jacs
if a relationship is formed on here the best thing to do is both leave and work on the exclusive relationship
then if and when you feel ready to return you can
gives you a fighting chance "
I agree with this comment
However the original question is quite clouded
Did you meet the guy on here........... Yes then follow above advice
Did you meet him in the vanilla world......... Yes, staying on a swinging site whilst in this relationship makes you in his eyes and that of many in here no better than cheating scum
Ask majority of other "singles" playing away on here
Not one to judge but unfortunately in this world that's the way many see it especially the vanilla world
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I think swingers are more honest and open with what they want than say people that have relationships they are the ones that sneek behind partners backs and have affairs so if there is no trust then not worth having a relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id agree with jacs
if a relationship is formed on here the best thing to do is both leave and work on the exclusive relationship
then if and when you feel ready to return you can
gives you a fighting chance "
 agree but also think there is more trust in a swinging relationship as no one needs to hide anything or do anything behind the others back as its all cards on the table as such plus if someone really liked someone n wants to play with them then it's easily done with other half being there?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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agree but also think there is more trust in a swinging relationship as no one needs to hide anything or do anything behind the others back as its all cards on the table as such plus if someone really liked someone n wants to play with them then it's easily done with other half being there?
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totally agree with this! Absolutely more trust and honesty in a relationship that has come from Fab. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Id agree with jacs
if a relationship is formed on here the best thing to do is both leave and work on the exclusive relationship
then if and when you feel ready to return you can
gives you a fighting chance
agree but also think there is more trust in a swinging relationship as no one needs to hide anything or do anything behind the others back as its all cards on the table as such plus if someone really liked someone n wants to play with them then it's easily done with other half being there?
Geek "
over many years I have met a good few people who don't know what their other half gets upto. Mostly secretly Bi or playing away and hiding under secret profiles... |
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Are you saying trust not to have sex with someone else, or trust not to fall in love with someone else, or are they referring to STD risk? I think most guys will have sex with someone they find attractive if the opportunity arises - trying to control someone else probably just reflects their own insecurities. Sounds like you need a frank and open discussion with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am on here and married with my wife's knowledge. It took a while but now she has a regular F Buddy and I get to have fun. If that's possible on here although I do go to CO'S with here approval |
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