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over a year ago
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We have tried to be honest on our profile but have noticed not everyone is the same unfortunately.
Does anybody think a body type vari would be a good idea? |
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"We have tried to be honest on our profile but have noticed not everyone is the same unfortunately.
Does anybody think a body type vari would be a good idea? "
Too subjective .what you may class as a certain body type will differ to others . You gonna get your meet to step on a set of scales and measure their BMI so you can say they are athletic or ample etc? Lol . I'm a 14 and a short arse so defiantly not a petite wee thing .Some would describe my figure as perfect and others as fat . That's their own view point of the same person . So don'tsee Iit working at all .
Let people make up their own mind on a social meet if that person is body type they are after instead of more complications . |
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over a year ago
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Can relate to this, when I was on here as a single woman I was lied to by a meet about their body size. It was a pretty substantial lie.
Now i'm a size 14 curvy girl but this person I had assumed would be maybe a little bigger than me but this was a BIG lie!
I ended up leaving meet early saying there was no attraction. JUST BE TRUTHFUL FAB PEOPLE  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We have tried to be honest on our profile but have noticed not everyone is the same unfortunately.
Does anybody think a body type vari would be a good idea?
Too subjective .what you may class as a certain body type will differ to others . You gonna get your meet to step on a set of scales and measure their BMI so you can say they are athletic or ample etc? Lol . I'm a 14 and a short arse so defiantly not a petite wee thing .Some would describe my figure as perfect and others as fat . That's their own view point of the same person . So don'tsee Iit working at all .
Let people make up their own mind on a social meet if that person is body type they are after instead of more complications ."
But if the person is submitting a body pic 2 fab and then fab decided then that's them I'm 5.10 and around 14 and a half stone so I'm happy 2 put my body type as large mrs is a size 12 so average. Dont see the point in misleading ppl. Iv seen guys described as athletic who are bigger than myself surely honesty is the best policy? |
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It isnt the body type thing thats at fault all the time I have athletic as my body type many yrs since I did anything athletic (save running after the icey) I stand by it though as my body shape is the same as when I was also sumo wrestlers are athletes so the problem may lie in folks perceptions of the given body type |
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It is
I'd say and this is just what I go with
0-10 small / slim
12-16 average
16-20 large
Anything above ample
Now then you get
Really slim n toned - athletic
Average with wobbly bits- curvy
Fabulous iv no idea???
Lol
Again that's just what I think? |
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They should have an option saying.
athletic ( but I couldn't run a bath let alone a mile)
muscular ( well I lifted weights 10 years ago so still think ive got it)
average ( really ??? Who knows what average is ) |
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"We have tried to be honest on our profile but have noticed not everyone is the same unfortunately.
Does anybody think a body type vari would be a good idea?
Too subjective .what you may class as a certain body type will differ to others . You gonna get your meet to step on a set of scales and measure their BMI so you can say they are athletic or ample etc? Lol . I'm a 14 and a short arse so defiantly not a petite wee thing .Some would describe my figure as perfect and others as fat . That's their own view point of the same person . So don'tsee Iit working at all .
Let people make up their own mind on a social meet if that person is body type they are after instead of more complications .
But if the person is submitting a body pic 2 fab and then fab decided then that's them I'm 5.10 and around 14 and a half stone so I'm happy 2 put my body type as large mrs is a size 12 so average. Dont see the point in misleading ppl. Iv seen guys described as athletic who are bigger than myself surely honesty is the best policy? "
As many have what you see as slim someone else might see as average, what some one sees as fat you might see as curvy.
It is subjective and we all see people differently.
The only people it should really matter to are the peolle interested in you and who want to play with you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We have tried to be honest on our profile but have noticed not everyone is the same unfortunately.
Does anybody think a body type vari would be a good idea?
Too subjective .what you may class as a certain body type will differ to others . You gonna get your meet to step on a set of scales and measure their BMI so you can say they are athletic or ample etc? Lol . I'm a 14 and a short arse so defiantly not a petite wee thing .Some would describe my figure as perfect and others as fat . That's their own view point of the same person . So don'tsee Iit working at all .
Let people make up their own mind on a social meet if that person is body type they are after instead of more complications .
But if the person is submitting a body pic 2 fab and then fab decided then that's them I'm 5.10 and around 14 and a half stone so I'm happy 2 put my body type as large mrs is a size 12 so average. Dont see the point in misleading ppl. Iv seen guys described as athletic who are bigger than myself surely honesty is the best policy? As many have what you see as slim someone else might see as average, what some one sees as fat you might see as curvy.
It is subjective and we all see people differently.
The only people it should really matter to are the peolle interested in you and who want to play with you. "
But maybe some of these ppl who are interested in playing wouldn't be if they knew the whole picture? |
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"We have tried to be honest on our profile but have noticed not everyone is the same unfortunately.
Does anybody think a body type vari would be a good idea?
Too subjective .what you may class as a certain body type will differ to others . You gonna get your meet to step on a set of scales and measure their BMI so you can say they are athletic or ample etc? Lol . I'm a 14 and a short arse so defiantly not a petite wee thing .Some would describe my figure as perfect and others as fat . That's their own view point of the same person . So don'tsee Iit working at all .
Let people make up their own mind on a social meet if that person is body type they are after instead of more complications .
But if the person is submitting a body pic 2 fab and then fab decided then that's them I'm 5.10 and around 14 and a half stone so I'm happy 2 put my body type as large mrs is a size 12 so average. Dont see the point in misleading ppl. Iv seen guys described as athletic who are bigger than myself surely honesty is the best policy? As many have what you see as slim someone else might see as average, what some one sees as fat you might see as curvy.
It is subjective and we all see people differently.
The only people it should really matter to are the peolle interested in you and who want to play with you.
But maybe some of these ppl who are interested in playing wouldn't be if they knew the whole picture? "
yeah quite possibly but i do have photos on my profile that show me in all my fabulous glory so they have the choice to ask to meet or move onto the next profile  |
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"It is
I'd say and this is just what I go with
0-10 small / slim
12-16 average
16-20 large
Anything above ample
Now then you get
Really slim n toned - athletic
Average with wobbly bits- curvy
Fabulous iv no idea???
Lol
Again that's just what I think? "
lol so whats slim but not toned |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot of folk tell porkies
Do not even get me started on "fabulous"
 I have fabulous on my profile do you think I'm fabulous? Probably not.
Do I think I am of course
 and many others do too "
of course I do!!
I'm talking about the double meaning
Some athletic folk say fabulous
And some larger say fabulous also
If they don't have clear body pics
Who knows what's what?
Everyone's take on it is different x |
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So let's say people could verify a body type of a meet .
How many would actually feel comfortable do that in first place? Then of those who do how many would do so 100% truthfully ? You really think they would go against how the meet described themselves and risk not getting another meet ? As with any verification I'd always take with a pinch of salt. People will wax lyrical about the "best sex ever" when in fact probably very average.So I'd never replace that for my own judgement on any type of verification .Some people will lie about anything to get a meet.Theres a who has remained well under 40 all the years ive known him lol! Make up your own mind if they are what you want and if not on to next meet .
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By (user no longer on site)
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" So let's say people could verify a body type of a meet .
How many would actually feel comfortable do that in first place? Then of those who do how many would do so 100% truthfully ? You really think they would go against how the meet described themselves and risk not getting another meet ? As with any verification I'd always take with a pinch of salt. People will wax lyrical about the "best sex ever" when in fact probably very average.So I'd never replace that for my own judgement on any type of verification .Some people will lie about anything to get a meet.Theres a who has remained well under 40 all the years ive known him lol! Make up your own mind if they are what you want and if not on to next meet .
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as you will prob know on here folk are usually far from the truth all we can do is stay truthful to ourselves
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Maybe if they simplified the choices 2 slim, average, curvy, large. It is subjective but if people are honest we all look in a mirror and are aware of where we fall.x |
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"A lot of folk tell porkies
Do not even get me started on "fabulous"
I have fabulous on my profile do you think I'm fabulous? Probably not.
Do I think I am of course
and many others do too of course I do!!
I'm talking about the double meaning
Some athletic folk say fabulous
And some larger say fabulous also
If they don't have clear body pics
Who knows what's what?
Everyone's take on it is different x"
if people don't have clear body shots then it's upto the people meeting whether to go ahead with that meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Maybe instead of a drop-down list it should be an open box & let us describe ourselves... "half decent sized tit, fat arse - in general just a wee fatty lol"  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Maybe instead of a drop-down list it should be an open box & let us describe ourselves... "half decent sized tit, fat arse - in general just a wee fatty lol" "
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By *ee-YinWoman
over a year ago
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Think after large it should say massive I'm a wee fat thing I know what I am and I see the FABULOUS description as a nice way to say I'm a fat chick xx some people see fabulous option as a way to say perfect but it comes after large so to me it means fat xx
I'm comfortable with myself and my body just others that have a problem with it |
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"Think after large it should say massive I'm a wee fat thing I know what I am and I see the FABULOUS description as a nice way to say I'm a fat chick xx some people see fabulous option as a way to say perfect but it comes after large so to me it means fat xx
I'm comfortable with myself and my body just others that have a problem with it "
That's all that matters that your happy in your own skin. I'm the same couldn't care what others think of me if they don't like how I look jog on  |
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By *ee-YinWoman
over a year ago
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"Told the truth on my profile am fat so i put large "
Think I'm bigger than large and there is no huge/massive option so since fabulous is after large I choose that xx
Think my username says it all really |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think after large it should say massive I'm a wee fat thing I know what I am and I see the FABULOUS description as a nice way to say I'm a fat chick xx some people see fabulous option as a way to say perfect but it comes after large so to me it means fat xx
I'm comfortable with myself and my body just others that have a problem with it "
This is why I list as fabulous as well. I don't feel right having curvy as I don't feel like they're good curves flaunt to have and large really upsets me now I'm losing weight.
I don't hide the fact I carry a bit of weight but dont exactly want to show off my fat rolls in my pictures. I used to have my dress size on profile and always make sure people know what to expect. |
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I can't get my head round it either as been said before by several slim ladies say fabulous and then you have the larger lady saying fabulous it gets confusing. And please I hope not to offend anybody with this part. You have the people not just females saying athletic or average when they are plain old fat or the plain old fat ones that say curvy. Again I hope not to ofend anybody with my comments. I've put athletic for myself as I would say I am and body not changed in 30yrs n |
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"I can't get my head round it either as been said before by several slim ladies say fabulous and then you have the larger lady saying fabulous it gets confusing. And please I hope not to offend anybody with this part. You have the people not just females saying athletic or average when they are plain old fat or the plain old fat ones that say curvy. Again I hope not to ofend anybody with my comments. I've put athletic for myself as I would say I am and body not changed in 30yrs n"
for the record curvy is a shape not a size ...im fat but im also very curvy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Iv put large as i have a large arse, boobs and belly I make all men i talk to aware of this and while im not confident displaying body pics to all on here i do have them private to send to any potential meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's quite hard as people's weight, co guidance & self image also fluctuates a bit, I know mine does.
I go between slim and curvy as all the cream cakes I eat to console myself when Bo's away go straight to my boobs & bum.
Maybe there should be a sliding scale that you could move up & down depending on how you feel at the time lol.
Dx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's quite hard as people's weight, co guidance & self image also fluctuates a bit, I know mine does.
I go between slim and curvy as all the cream cakes I eat to console myself when Bo's away go straight to my boobs & bum.
Maybe there should be a sliding scale that you could move up & down depending on how you feel at the time lol.
Dx"
Meant confidence, silly predictive text! |
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being an old fat bastard like myself due I might add to a medical problem I only just found out about... and its under control I hope ,I never judge folk on size for me the bigger the personality is more important so big or small love us all |
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