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Not being in control

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Has any of the ladies on here ever given over control to the guy shes with - allowed him to tie her up, blind fold her, tease her entire body and more

Or would you be too scared too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes only one person I completely trust. Was an amazing experience.

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By *ee-YinWoman over a year ago

nr bathgate

I'd love to do this but would need to be with someone I had complete trust in xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh I certainly have on numerous occasions and it is the best feeling I have ever experienced x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd love to do this but would need to be with someone I had complete trust in xx "

Me too

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By *wiftieeMan over a year ago

near Glasgow

Have done it with one lady. And threatened to do it to a certain other one!

But as has been said, the lady has to have trust in the guy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah done it twice but only because I had built up a lot of trust with him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Many a time with a few friends

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By *ndykayMan over a year ago

Falkirk

I know a lady on fab who would say yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep, but trust is imminent.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I have done and I love it but gotta be with the right person

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I should have added that you gotta trust the person (whisper - took that for a given)

If there's no trust then I wouldn't go near someone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yep, but trust is imminent. "

If I were you I wouldn't trust until you know them well. Anyone can sweet talk their way into you believing that you can trust then

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By *ouncingBiscuitsWoman over a year ago

toy town, Glasgow

Yip love it

But like others have said I would have to know him very well and have trust him fully .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have in the past with someone and to this day he's probably the only person id do that with.

However tying men up I'm much better at

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By *abrina59TV/TS over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

I hope I find a dom or fomme who can come to trust enough expierence this is sooooo want to xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only once after a good few meets. I trusted him completely and he knew my boundaries

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't bring myself to allow anyone to have control over me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope and never would

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would love to try. I naturally give some control but not been with anyone I could give full control to yet

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By *acenleather69Couple over a year ago

glasgow

Done it with Sue on many occasions but on Saturday at the Patadise had a great experience of seperate room fun during which the other lady suggested i tie her up and torment her. A great night was had and our fantasy now is for sue and another lady to be tied and dominated together, so if any ladies out there are interested and would like to know more, feel free to drop us a line x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yep, but trust is imminent.

If I were you I wouldn't trust until you know them well. Anyone can sweet talk their way into you believing that you can trust then "
that should be implicit not imminent. Stupid phone lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

With someone you utterly trust it's incredible

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yep, but trust is imminent.

If I were you I wouldn't trust until you know them well. Anyone can sweet talk their way into you believing that you can trust then that should be implicit not imminent. Stupid phone lol "

Auto correct is a bugger

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"With someone you utterly trust it's incredible

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By *adybee77Woman over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Yes, but only with someone I trust implicitly, and not likely to be with someone I met via fab at all

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By *acenleather69Couple over a year ago

glasgow

The lady I met on Saturday night was fantastic but we'd met them the night before and we'll all got on well....I promised I'd respect her boundaries which I did 100%.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did this on many an occasion

TRUST is the key word here.

Another is RESPECT. Everyone has boundaries, before you even consider taking 100% control in this kind of situation you must first listen to what her boundaries are and then respect them.

Follow these simple rules and a great time is has by both parties involved

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By *ensual temptressWoman over a year ago

Southampton

Intense, erotic and orgasmic!! Sadly was many moons ago

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By *acenleather69Couple over a year ago

glasgow

We just think it's the ultimate in a real kinky time, with accessories of course

;-)

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