FabSwingers.com > Forums > Scotland > dundee social
dundee social
Jump to: Newest in thread
Hello fabbers, have had discussions with quite a few people on here who have indicated that the scene in Dundee is not the greatest...was going to have a bash at changing that with a female friend who has agreed to help me out ( she's the brains if the operation) lol... please leave any comments regarding the above and we can get dundee rocking?? .. look forward to hearing from you. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
_radesman62 who is a very hot dude ladies is havin a kickass party on the 31st so msg him and find out more. u definately won't be disappointed with this guy!!!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Depending on the numbers?? PM and I will give details, and let you know our thoughts x  "
I'm sorry, I don't understand the big mystery. Why can't you simply say whether its a social open to all or a private party. That's how socials are usually conducted on the forum. With no need for PM's......so like the dragons...."I'm out!".....  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It's just a thought in motion. The more that seems interested then the more they'll know if it's a small gathering not worth getting a venue for.
Miss K's lunches are normally popular but i have seen others organise a social in dundee where no one turned up barr 2 males.
No cloak and danger, this side of Scotland is dead for swinging. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's just a thought in motion. The more that seems interested then the more they'll know if it's a small gathering not worth getting a venue for.
Miss K's lunches are normally popular but i have seen others organise a social in dundee where no one turned up barr 2 males.
No cloak and danger, this side of Scotland is dead for swinging."
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's just a thought in motion. The more that seems interested then the more they'll know if it's a small gathering not worth getting a venue for.
Miss K's lunches are normally popular but i have seen others organise a social in dundee where no one turned up barr 2 males.
No cloak and danger, this side of Scotland is dead for swinging."
Dundee is close for me and I would love to attend a local social event. Miss K's last one was not a convenient date for me so I had to pass.
I thought my question regarding the nature of this proposed event was justified since "party" had been mentioned twice by friends of the OP and as private messages were being requested I thought there might be a selection process. The OP has been a member for 4 weeks and is at this time unverified... so my choice would be not to message at this time.
I'm sure security and confidentiality are matters we are all aware of only too well.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Should the op not have asked the question who would all be intrested in a Dundee social and got an idea off how meny would be.no reason for the PM. "
He has asked for interest from members as we have all stated we are interested in arranginf something if the numbers were right |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Depending on the numbers... exactly.!! . not going to run a social with a handful of people...a house party is an option for those who are chilled out, intelligent and know how to have fun...like I said all dependant on numbers! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Depending on the numbers... exactly.!! . not going to run a social with a handful of people...a house party is an option for those who are chilled out, intelligent and know how to have fun...like I said all dependant on numbers! "
Thank you.... that clears it up for me. Lol...  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Right,I'm off to bed, working tomorrow unfortunately.... and to all those who use the phrase "cloak and dagger" and "secret "...remember this.
Just because YOU don't know something it doesn't make it a secret.. there's lots of things I don't know... but they are not secrets.... ps... house party it is... all those who are interested and have assisted with thoughts and ideas... thanks very much x chat soon |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Just for the record, the phrases "cloak and dagger" and "secret" were never used by me.
It would also have been helpful if your thread had not been entitled "Dundee Social" in the first place.
I may not be intelligent but I know the difference between an apple and a banana..... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *oznrayCouple
over a year ago
helensburgh |
I think the problem here was definition as the post is about a social, which in the terms of the site is just that an social gathering in a public place with no sexual activities, where as party, is a gathering usually at someone's house where there WILL BE sexual activates |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *andj888Couple
over a year ago
Dundee |
Cheers for the definition, we are very new to this and there are lots of terms and abbreviations which are totally lost on us.
Whether it is a social event or a party we think it would be a good opportunity for us to meet new people with similar lifestyles so whatever it is we are looking forward to it.
The guy who started this seems to be getting a lot of stick we think rather than giving him stick about not knowing exactly what he is hoping to organise he should be praised and helped for at least making an effort to get things in motion. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
near Glasgow |
"Cheers for the definition, we are very new to this and there are lots of terms and abbreviations which are
The guy who started this seems to be getting a lot of stick we think rather than giving him stick about not knowing exactly what he is hoping to organise he should be praised and helped for at least making an effort to get things in motion. "
As you say, you're new to this, and I don't see anybody giving the guy needless stick. The title says "social" which is one thing, but it sounds as if it's now a house party, which is another thing entirely.
People are just asking for clarification, as some would be comfortable with a social, but not with a house party attended by people they'd never met. Simples! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Cheers for the definition, we are very new to this and there are lots of terms and abbreviations which are
The guy who started this seems to be getting a lot of stick we think rather than giving him stick about not knowing exactly what he is hoping to organise he should be praised and helped for at least making an effort to get things in motion.
As you say, you're new to this, and I don't see anybody giving the guy needless stick. The title says "social" which is one thing, but it sounds as if it's now a house party, which is another thing entirely.
People are just asking for clarification, as some would be comfortable with a social, but not with a house party attended by people they'd never met. Simples!"
Agree with this (Mr) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"
Sunday... friend requests will be sent to all people interested in the dundee social thread.. "
Personally I don't accept friends requests till I have met In person and defo wouldn't be accepting one from a guy for this
The last social was arranged by _ky hook. The way he done it was everyone who wished to attend got a mail in the morning of the meet with location.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
near Glasgow |
" The last social was arranged by _ky hook. The way he done it was everyone who wished to attend got a mail in the morning of the meet with location.
"
I believe that's the normal way of doing things! Simple and discreet. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
" The last social was arranged by _ky hook. The way he done it was everyone who wished to attend got a mail in the morning of the meet with location.
I believe that's the normal way of doing things! Simple and discreet."
Any social we have been too has been done this way. Never heard of sending friend invites, private messages (Mr) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
From reading the whole thread I got the impression the op wasnt sure what he was intending on having and it was going to come down to numbers and their preference. With the responce he got I believe he has gone with a house party. I also got the impression that he wasnt sure about getting involved in the costs of organising a 'social' that folks wouldnt show up for. I can understand this as this is the reason I organised a drinks night rather than a full on social. t |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Apologies to all.. i used the incorrect terminology that's all... im planning a party for about 10 to 14 people in which everyone will know everyone else who's going beforehand .
Gives a break.... im trying |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Apologies to all.. i used the incorrect terminology that's all... im planning a party for about 10 to 14 people in which everyone will know everyone else who's going beforehand .
Gives a break.... im trying "
Im not trying to give you a hard time but what then was the point in this post?
if its only a party for friends of friends why not just mail them ? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
we'd probably attend a Dundee social, we like missk's lunches, but sometimes can't manage on a Saturday cos we have our grandson during the day, so a social evening would be great |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"How do people feel about a Friday eve? "
As long as we have enough time to get babysitters & it doesn't clash with other big socials/gatherings (TG or the Burlesque fair) we will be there . Friday or Saturday .
Dx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
ah, great honey!
organisation is not exactly a strong point for me lol 
hopefully enough people will want a little pre-xmas/holiday season 'blow-out' haha 
always got a few ideas if you need them (not sayin' they'll be good tho!)
xxx  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I'm awaiting emails from a few places with details, then I'll begin a new thread for this "
More than happy to lend a hand with organisation....impending grannyhood permitting!!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I'm awaiting emails from a few places with details, then I'll begin a new thread for this
More than happy to lend a hand with organisation....impending grannyhood permitting!!! "
Thanks Jinty, I'll pm you |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
That's not a clever statement to make 
if a definitive answer is ever reached or a social/meeting for drinks/whatever the terminology for a group of Fab Members, meeting in a public venue (albeit very low key/secerative/whatever 
