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Inappropriate Blocking
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey all
I don't normally post on here but for once I find myself speechless (I know it's an oxymoron on a forum)
I've been chatting a lot to a nice lady all good nothing inappropriate said.
Suddenly I say in not from originally Scotland and bang! Message back "I don't do English"
Blocked ...
I know everyone has the right to an opinion but surely that's not the right way to go about it. A polite no thanks would have been ok but this is savage !!
Obviously her loss but I feel very saddened at the way it was done
Am I being to sensitive ???  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see that as quite a harsh reaction to be honest  All because you aren't scottish?
I know people have a preference of body type, skin colour but over heritage?  |
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"Hey all
I don't normally post on here but for once I find myself speechless (I know it's an oxymoron on a forum)
I've been chatting a lot to a nice lady all good nothing inappropriate said.
Suddenly I say in not from originally Scotland and bang! Message back "I don't do English"
Blocked ...
I know everyone has the right to an opinion but surely that's not the right way to go about it. A polite no thanks would have been ok but this is savage !!
Obviously her loss but I feel very saddened at the way it was done
Am I being to sensitive ??? "
No your not being sensitive we all have our own reasons for blocking but this does seem a little extreme, but like all of us I'm sure who ever it was has their reasons for it just forget and move on.xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own I guess and the recent referendum has stirred up a real hornets nest of nationalism but yeah, thats pretty damn harsh! Especially as you guys were getting on really well.
Onwards and upwards!
She can't see the status you've put on your profile about being blocked by the way because, well, you're blocked.  |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
south east |
"That's bad, I say I don't do skodas but I would meet the guy just not get in the car, unless it's a taxi,  "
whats wrong with skodas....ok mine is a taxi lol but as a car they are fab and cost nearly 20 grand now for a decent 1 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't do inappropriate blocking I have clear reasons why I do block although some people take it well
Wish real life had a block button also but hey I live in a world that's real |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's bad, I say I don't do skodas but I would meet the guy just not get in the car, unless it's a taxi,
whats wrong with skodas....ok mine is a taxi lol but as a car they are fab and cost nearly 20 grand now for a decent 1 "
It's a skoda, |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
south east |
"That's bad, I say I don't do skodas but I would meet the guy just not get in the car, unless it's a taxi,
whats wrong with skodas....ok mine is a taxi lol but as a car they are fab and cost nearly 20 grand now for a decent 1
It's a skoda, "
car snob  |
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"That's bad, I say I don't do skodas but I would meet the guy just not get in the car, unless it's a taxi,
whats wrong with skodas....ok mine is a taxi lol but as a car they are fab and cost nearly 20 grand now for a decent 1
It's a skoda,
car snob "
I'm not a car snob _unkie you can pick me up anytime   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't do inappropriate blocking I have clear reasons why I do block although some people take it well
Wish real life had a block button also but hey I live in a world that's real "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If somebody blocks you for a fickle reason, likelihood is they aren't genuine or are such a pain you wouldn't want to meet them anyway. Just forget it and move on
Perhaps fab should display the number of people you've blocked that might stop it |
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"Just remember there are lots of nice folk on here and the one's that block aren't worth talking to anyway,, they are shallow people with bad manners, "
really? I'm sorry but I totally disagree I've got many blocked and I know my reasons for it I'm not bad mannerd or shallow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just remember there are lots of nice folk on here and the one's that block aren't worth talking to anyway,, they are shallow people with bad manners, really? I'm sorry but I totally disagree I've got many blocked and I know my reasons for it I'm not bad mannerd or shallow "
Got 700+ on my block list and i have excellent manners and not shallow either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just remember there are lots of nice folk on here and the one's that block aren't worth talking to anyway,, they are shallow people with bad manners, really? I'm sorry but I totally disagree I've got many blocked and I know my reasons for it I'm not bad mannerd or shallow
Got 700+ on my block list and i have excellent manners and not shallow either "
Anti social git!!!! xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely I'm not a shallow person
So if you block someone for harassment,stalking,rude messages you are a shallow?
I call it protecting yourself to continue having fun as that's why I joined the site for fun Not drama or be shallow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely I'm not a shallow person
So if you block someone for harassment,stalking,rude messages you are a shallow?
I call it protecting yourself to continue having fun as that's why I joined the site for fun Not drama or be shallow "
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"Can't agree I'm afraid
It was all very pleasant and nothing unsuitable was sent as a message
Just ignorance I believe but hey that's life x"
what are you not agreeing with?
Quote who's comment your speaking about helps lol x |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
Being blocked is more often than not a blessing, there is something between the two people that is causing concern, angst or whatever. A message, a forum post, something said in chat, a sexual preference and a million other factors.
I have never, nor will I ever waste a nano second of my life wondering why a total stranger has blocked me or I them. I really couldn't give a flying fuck.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was blocked by someone on this thread
I was publicly ridiculed on a previous forum post by someone , when I retaliated back in defence , someone privately mailed me a vicious mail and blocked me , wtf
Double standards  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
"I was blocked by someone on this thread
I was publicly ridiculed on a previous forum post by someone , when I retaliated back in defence , someone privately mailed me a vicious mail and blocked me , wtf
Double standards "
and your life will be richer for that block so it's a positive |
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Alot of time i think people block simply because they can. Makes them feel powerful and important. Quite frankly they aint worth worrying about. Ive been blocked, sometimes even by folk i havent even spoke to. Those i have spoke to and have been blocked by I can honestly say i havent been offensive or anything yet have still be blocked. Basically its their loss and no skin off my nose. |
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"I was blocked by someone on this thread
I was publicly ridiculed on a previous forum post by someone , when I retaliated back in defence , someone privately mailed me a vicious mail and blocked me , wtf
Double standards "
No great loss then.
The block button is one of my most used features on here and I'm grateful of it.
Just accept that whoever blocked you had their own reason for doing so. |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
near Glasgow |
"That's bad, I say I don't do skodas but I would meet the guy just not get in the car, unless it's a taxi,
whats wrong with skodas....ok mine is a taxi lol but as a car they are fab and cost nearly 20 grand now for a decent 1 "
It's what's known as badge snobbery! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was blocked by someone on this thread
I was publicly ridiculed on a previous forum post by someone , when I retaliated back in defence , someone privately mailed me a vicious mail and blocked me , wtf
Double standards "
That's the whole reason the report & block button is there for anything like that if you receive that sort of mail |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was blocked by someone on this thread
I was publicly ridiculed on a previous forum post by someone , when I retaliated back in defence , someone privately mailed me a vicious mail and blocked me , wtf
Double standards
That's the whole reason the report & block button is there for anything like that if you receive that sort of mail "
I've the right to defend my self though if I'm ridiculed in a public platform !!
Have I not |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
near Glasgow |
People block others for different and varying reasons, but this reason has to be one of the most pathetic.
OP, count it as a lucky escape, after all would you really want to meet someone with that sort of attitude? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's bad, I say I don't do skodas but I would meet the guy just not get in the car, unless it's a taxi,
whats wrong with skodas....ok mine is a taxi lol but as a car they are fab and cost nearly 20 grand now for a decent 1
It's what's known as badge snobbery! "
Yes am a badge snob, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was blocked by someone on this thread
I was publicly ridiculed on a previous forum post by someone , when I retaliated back in defence , someone privately mailed me a vicious mail and blocked me , wtf
Double standards "
Just checked & it wasn't me lol
Dx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A once was talkin to a bird "not on here" we were gettin on great we were goin to go back to her bit & then she asked how to spell ma name, a told her & she scrunched up her face & told me to fuck off coz that's the catholic way to spell it!!! Av heard of picky but just takin the piss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just remember there are lots of nice folk on here and the one's that block aren't worth talking to anyway,, they are shallow people with bad manners, "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People block for their own reasons, they think they're justified so regardless to our own thoughts on the matter or the person you aibt going to change them so move on life's too short to be worried about anyone else's delusions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It could also be that someone you've been chatting to quite frequently blocks you by accident, I know I've done it as the block button is right between the reply and delete buttons.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mate I wouldn't worry about it....sounds to me like some people use blocking as a ego trip....If it wasn't your nationally it would have been something else |
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