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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I wonder if anyone. Could give me some advice. I don't seem to get many replies to my messages. I try to be polite and nice but it doesn't seem to make a difference. Any advice would be much appreciated thanks. |
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By *nonandyMan
over a year ago
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its frustrating I try to quote something from the profile to prove av read it and give thought to the heading so it catches the eye some women bulk delete without even looking so its worth going back don't spam them but maybe message again 4+ weeks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"its frustrating I try to quote something from the profile to prove av read it and give thought to the heading so it catches the eye some women bulk delete without even looking so its worth going back don't spam them but maybe message again 4+ weeks "
Not an approach I'd use, if someone deleted my message the 1st time I'd take it they weren't interested & not waste my time or theirs.
Although I would agree with reading the profile & seeing if there is something I could use to attract their attention, if not then move on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its frustrating I try to quote something from the profile to prove av read it and give thought to the heading so it catches the eye some women bulk delete without even looking so its worth going back don't spam them but maybe message again 4+ weeks
Not an approach I'd use, if someone deleted my message the 1st time I'd take it they weren't interested & not waste my time or theirs.
Although I would agree with reading the profile & seeing if there is something I could use to attract their attention, if not then move on "
andy, reading this ^ would be a good idea  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its frustrating I try to quote something from the profile to prove av read it and give thought to the heading so it catches the eye some women bulk delete without even looking so its worth going back don't spam them but maybe message again 4+ weeks
Not an approach I'd use, if someone deleted my message the 1st time I'd take it they weren't interested & not waste my time or theirs.
Although I would agree with reading the profile & seeing if there is something I could use to attract their attention, if not then move on
andy, reading this ^ would be a good idea "
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You need a thick skin to be on here and be able to get through the times of frustration and disillusionment as it seems pointless at times no matter how nice you are, funny, show you've read their profile, point out something that you're both compatible with etc, everything most women say they want in a message just for them to be constantly deleted and sometimes not even read as they lie unopened for months. But every now and again someone will give you a chance with a reply, a chance to chat that is, sometimes it can eventually lead to a meet where faith in fab is restored and sometimes not. So going in full circle...thick skin and patience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Went through the same stuff, was trying to hard, then went apathetic, then started to be myself. That's what got me sorted. Just be yourself and be patient. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You only joined a few weeks ago so be patient. We always pay attention to profile content. Are you making sure your age for example is within their age limits? At the moment your ages don't match up on your profile & text. Possibly slightly petty but people do notice small things like that.
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By *nonandyMan
over a year ago
Near Glasgow |
"its frustrating I try to quote something from the profile to prove av read it and give thought to the heading so it catches the eye some women bulk delete without even looking so its worth going back don't spam them but maybe message again 4+ weeks
Not an approach I'd use, if someone deleted my message the 1st time I'd take it they weren't interested & not waste my time or theirs.
Although I would agree with reading the profile & seeing if there is something I could use to attract their attention, if not then move on
andy, reading this ^ would be a good idea
Lol "
I get what you are saying hense why I said DON'T SPAM |
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