First time poster on here having a rant, Anyone have any tips for successfull meets, we are a cpl in fife and only have one weekend a month free, after chatting to various couples / guys only to be stood up or let down with a few hours notice leaving it too late to arrange something else, had a free night tonight but were not free till after 10.30. Arranged to meet a guy been chatting all evening and he was made well aware what time we were free then turns round and says oh its too late, We try to look at verifications but seems these mean nothing, Any tips??? Getting very frustrated |
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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago
Glasgow ish |
"First time poster on here having a rant, Anyone have any tips for successfull meets, we are a cpl in fife and only have one weekend a month free, after chatting to various couples / guys only to be stood up or let down with a few hours notice leaving it too late to arrange something else, had a free night tonight but were not free till after 10.30. Arranged to meet a guy been chatting all evening and he was made well aware what time we were free then turns round and says oh its too late, We try to look at verifications but seems these mean nothing, Any tips??? Getting very frustrated "
Try and get to a social or a club. |
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"First time poster on here having a rant, Anyone have any tips for successfull meets, we are a cpl in fife and only have one weekend a month free, after chatting to various couples / guys only to be stood up or let down with a few hours notice leaving it too late to arrange something else, had a free night tonight but were not free till after 10.30. Arranged to meet a guy been chatting all evening and he was made well aware what time we were free then turns round and says oh its too late, We try to look at verifications but seems these mean nothing, Any tips??? Getting very frustrated " Anyone can change their mind at any given time thats not time wasting if he told he wasnt coming ...oh and its not wise to name and shame on your profile .
good luck next time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe try not crushing the meet
Chest to the same guy/ cpl a few weeks leading up to the actual date
That way a bit of teasing and antisapation might help the actual meet go ahead
Just a thought
Good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately there's no guarantee's on here, that said, you could try exchanging mobile numbers and have a chat on the phone - If they won't, chances are you've got a time waster or picture collector |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because they wont chat on the phone?
I dont chat on the phone because il not give out my number
I'm verified and have pics
Hate chatting to strangers on the phone
What do you say?hello there this is me.. Is that you?
Good had we cleared that up
Can still no show? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What do you say on the phone? The same as you'd say when you meet
Verifications and pictures can be faked - unfortunately.
That said, it's really just a case of Each to their own, after all that's what makes the world go round.
Doesn't matter what happens, there's no 100% guarantee they'll show. |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately there's no guarantee's on here, that said, you could try exchanging mobile numbers and have a chat on the phone - If they won't, chances are you've got a time waster or picture collector"
Sorry I disagree we have been here about 7 yrs and I would never and have never chatted to anyone on a phone before meeting and we are neither time wasters or pic collectors.
OP gut instinct goes a long way on fab hopefully some good luck will come your way soon. |
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