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How do you dress for meets, do you make an effort?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No I don't mean in the underwear sense lol
I only ask as my last 2 meets have left me wondering.
One was a nurse and came straight from work in her work clothes and the other turned up looking like they'd just rolled out of bed for the school run lol
So do you normally make some form of effort or just turn up in whatever you have on at the time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seriously 
Getting ready for a meet starts days before and then on the day of the meet I spend hours getting ready. I like to make an effort and look my best. It's a good reason to get the high heels and sexy dress on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to wear a suit, shirt and tie for work every day and I hate it. On meets I tend to dress down into clothes I feel comfortable in and can relax in....doesn't mean I don't make the effort though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I also like to take time to get ready for meets funnily enough I was asked by someone to meet on Friday but I can't as I've a social night to go to & need to get myself sorted for that no way am I getting my hair messed up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pahahaha! I wear clothes! I would never go on a meet with heels etc! If I was going to cj's or a social then yeah, I would wear a dress, heels etc but a one on one? In all honesty I would turn up in my Jammie's and make him wear his  |
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I would have thought it would be rude not to make an effort for a meet. That's all part and parcel of the fun for me, getting dressed up and trying to make a good impression.
Sometimes I really go for it and splash on a bit of Brut too!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would have thought it would be rude not to make an effort for a meet. That's all part and parcel of the fun for me, getting dressed up and trying to make a good impression.
Sometimes I really go for it and splash on a bit of Brut too!
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Maybe a wee bit old spice? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"batman pants socks and t shirt and jeans only not wore that to one meet and she said she was disappointed 
Is it a matching boxers and sock set? "
Yes i will get the pic back up of them soon xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"batman pants socks and t shirt and jeans only not wore that to one meet and she said she was disappointed
Is it a matching boxers and sock set?
Yes i will get the pic back up of them soon xx"
Wear them to cj's..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"batman pants socks and t shirt and jeans only not wore that to one meet and she said she was disappointed
Is it a matching boxers and sock set?
Yes i will get the pic back up of them soon xx
Wear them to cj's.. "
I am but i plan on keeping my cloths on as a a wee shy guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"batman pants socks and t shirt and jeans only not wore that to one meet and she said she was disappointed
Is it a matching boxers and sock set?
Yes i will get the pic back up of them soon xx
Wear them to cj's.. I am but i plan on keeping my cloths on as a a wee shy guy "
Me to sitting in the corner drinking wine.. Little old wine drinker meeeeee! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is maybe slightly different but I usually insist on a social meet with someone new before we arrange anything else but one time the guy turned up at the social absolutely stinking.
He apologised claiming that he had come straight from work but it was more than that. He actually had green mould on his teeth & smelt of stale pee!
That's admittedly at the extreme end of the spectrum but we always make an effort & not unreasonably expect the same in return.
At the very least a shower. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fuck getting dressed up, I don't even put effort in to have matching underwear. I wear what I wear any other day just make sure I have the face on... Usually a waste of makeup but it makes me feel like I'm a stunner |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fuck getting dressed up, I don't even put effort in to have matching underwear. I wear what I wear any other day just make sure I have the face on... Usually a waste of makeup but it makes me feel like I'm a stunner "
I'm sure I saw you having a meet at Carrick Knowe golf course when I was playing golf one night  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would have thought it would be rude not to make an effort for a meet. That's all part and parcel of the fun for me, getting dressed up and trying to make a good impression.
Sometimes I really go for it and splash on a bit of Brut too!
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They still do brut .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"batman pants socks and t shirt and jeans only not wore that to one meet and she said she was disappointed
Is it a matching boxers and sock set?
Yes i will get the pic back up of them soon xx
Wear them to cj's.. I am but i plan on keeping my cloths on as a a wee shy guy
Me to sitting in the corner drinking wine.. Little old wine drinker meeeeee! "
I am going to be sober  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fuck getting dressed up, I don't even put effort in to have matching underwear. I wear what I wear any other day just make sure I have the face on... Usually a waste of makeup but it makes me feel like I'm a stunner I'm sure I saw you having a meet at Carrick Knowe golf course when I was playing golf one night
Shhhhh don't give away my secret places. I dunno what's worse, me pumping on the golfie or you being bored enough to play golf at night... It was a golf tie so I had no choice, you did however "
Wtf is a golf tie? Aw come on man, dinnae judge, did ye see the state of me, I'd of done anything  |
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"I would have thought it would be rude not to make an effort for a meet. That's all part and parcel of the fun for me, getting dressed up and trying to make a good impression.
Sometimes I really go for it and splash on a bit of Brut too!
Maybe a wee bit old spice? "
Maybe only for you BJQ, but I don't break out that good gear for just anyone you know...  |
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"I would have thought it would be rude not to make an effort for a meet. That's all part and parcel of the fun for me, getting dressed up and trying to make a good impression.
Sometimes I really go for it and splash on a bit of Brut too!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would have thought it would be rude not to make an effort for a meet. That's all part and parcel of the fun for me, getting dressed up and trying to make a good impression.
Sometimes I really go for it and splash on a bit of Brut too!
Maybe a wee bit old spice?
Maybe only for you BJQ, but I don't break out that good gear for just anyone you know... "
Thanks babe! I'll be sure to wear nothing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wear whatever I'm comfortable in and what's appropriate at the time lol I take quite a bit of time to get ready for any sort of meet and will always make an effort to look my best 
Lx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like getting dressed up for a meet both in what i wear and what is underneath. Although sayin that i did have a meet recently where it was a jeans n vest top affair and had just as much fun! X |
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"I would have thought it would be rude not to make an effort for a meet. That's all part and parcel of the fun for me, getting dressed up and trying to make a good impression.
Sometimes I really go for it and splash on a bit of Brut too!
Maybe a wee bit old spice?
Maybe only for you BJQ, but I don't break out that good gear for just anyone you know...
Thanks babe! I'll be sure to wear nothing "
Haha, who am I to argue with that BJQ!
Do any of the gents on here still use Hi Karate?!! That was my old man's favourite that!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pahahaha! I wear clothes! I would never go on a meet with heels etc! If I was going to cj's or a social then yeah, I would wear a dress, heels etc but a one on one? In all honesty I would turn up in my Jammie's and make him wear his "
I am with you on the pj front. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not that I have many, but if I go on a meet I always make maximum effort . Normally a dress and heels . I tend not to wear much in underwear though . Perhaps a bra and hold ups or cami or basque under my outfit depending on what it is . Just never any pants .... Shower bits shaved hair done and make up on .
If someone turned up to have a MEET with me and hadn't washed and come straight from work then I'd expect them to shower and shave and get dressed . That's not saying they need to put on their best suit just show they've made an effort . And must be smelling nice or its a turn off at start . Part of the reason I always do a soctal first .
As for pj's I don't even wear them in the house haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we are traveling , nice dress with something nicer under if its at ours , stockings suspender belt and heels , they are not often on long so why dress |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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depends where I'm meeting, and whether its a social or not, as to what I wear, but I always make an effort. just as I like to think those I am meeting would make a similar effort |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haven't met off here yet but when I meet from other places it's either a 3 piece suit if we were having a few drinks out or something before. it if it's a meet at my place or theirs it's usually shoes a shirt and nice jeans with aftershave on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"batman pants socks and t shirt and jeans only not wore that to one meet and she said she was disappointed
Is it a matching boxers and sock set?
Yes i will get the pic back up of them soon xx
Wear them to cj's.. I am but i plan on keeping my cloths on as a a wee shy guy "
aye right |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not that I have many, but if I go on a meet I always make maximum effort . Normally a dress and heels . I tend not to wear much in underwear though . Perhaps a bra and hold ups or cami or basque under my outfit depending on what it is . Just never any pants .... Shower bits shaved hair done and make up on .
If someone turned up to have a MEET with me and hadn't washed and come straight from work then I'd expect them to shower and shave and get dressed . That's not saying they need to put on their best suit just show they've made an effort . And must be smelling nice or its a turn off at start . Part of the reason I always do a soctal first .
As for pj's I don't even wear them in the house haha "
No even Rupert The Bear pj's?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"batman pants socks and t shirt and jeans only not wore that to one meet and she said she was disappointed
Is it a matching boxers and sock set?
Yes i will get the pic back up of them soon xx
Wear them to cj's.. I am but i plan on keeping my cloths on as a a wee shy guy aye right "
its true ask anyone that has met me am like rajesh koothrappali out of bigg bang |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always make the effort to look good as it makes me feel good. Usually end up looking overdressed but it's worth it when you see the guys reaction dress, stockings and heels all the way for me. Mrs devil
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