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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For the first time in my fab history I have bottled out of a meet,
The Guy wanted us both to be drinking,so I couldn't drive home,he wanted me to stay the night,
However I have never spent the night with a guy without Martin being there,
Am I in the wrong for bottling it, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For the first time in my fab history I have bottled out of a meet,
The Guy wanted us both to be drinking,so I couldn't drive home,he wanted me to stay the night,
However I have never spent the night with a guy without Martin being there,
Am I in the wrong for bottling it,"
Not in the least, you do what's right for you.
A bit presumptive on his part |
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"For the first time in my fab history I have bottled out of a meet,
The Guy wanted us both to be drinking,so I couldn't drive home,he wanted me to stay the night,
However I have never spent the night with a guy without Martin being there,
Am I in the wrong for bottling it,"
No your not and if the guy doesn't respect your boundaries that's his problem. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I really did want to meet him,
Just kinda started to think that as I couldn't walk home if it went pear shaped I would have been stuck in another town and no one to come get me, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You do what you feel is right. I meet a guy and with in 15 mins just had a horrible feeling. Had to be honest and say I couldnt do it. Just my gut feeling. Only time it has happend. Better to be safe than sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. You never let anyone persuade you to leave your comfort zone.
People might want to push boundaries, but I never go beyond the limits of the most reluctant participant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For the first time in my fab history I have bottled out of a meet,
The Guy wanted us both to be drinking,so I couldn't drive home,he wanted me to stay the night,
However I have never spent the night with a guy without Martin being there,
Am I in the wrong for bottling it,"
Absolutely not, and he should understand, though he shouldn't even have suggested that in the first place.
Also noone on here says you were wrong for doing that, so no point in worrying about it any further x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No, of course you are not bad.
Neither should you _iew what happened as bottling it. It didn't feel right and you declined. Absolutely nothing wrong with that. Don't know if either of us would be comfortable staying over alone first time we'd met either. In fact, no offence, I'd be a bit way of someone who suggested it.  |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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How did you bottle it?? 
You chose not to go as he didn't respect your decision to not want to drink and stay over. I see no problem with that at all (except that he should have respected your decision obviously)  |
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