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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How do you deiced on new things to try is it through watch or reading porn or a partner or a meet suggesting you give it a go I really want to try a bit more BDSM stuff and been watching a few vids to be fair a lot of it scares the shit out me but still turns me on.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Through chatting to people on here, at clubs and at meetings. Don't let the BDSM thing scare you mate, there's a lot more to it than meets the eye....some of it is very nurturing and dare I say tender. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would never try new things with someone I've just met!! I have done the tieing up etc and I was scared! I think it was more of the unknown as I couldn't see anything! That was just soft bdsm and I wouldn't go any harder than that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"some off it looks like it leaves you tender  "
Ha ha ha well there is that aspect to it but there's also a huge amount of trust required, trust that has to be earned through mutual respect |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"some off it looks like it leaves you tender
Ha ha ha well there is that aspect to it but there's also a huge amount of trust required, trust that has to be earned through mutual respect"
definitely agree with you there some off the stuff they use is unreal and the pain thresh hold of some off the women in the videos are amazing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"some off it looks like it leaves you tender
Ha ha ha well there is that aspect to it but there's also a huge amount of trust required, trust that has to be earned through mutual respect"
Absolutely agree with you here, trust is the vital part of any BDSM play....dip your toes in you'll never know if its for you till you try |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"some off it looks like it leaves you tender
Ha ha ha well there is that aspect to it but there's also a huge amount of trust required, trust that has to be earned through mutual respect
Absolutely agree with you here, trust is the vital part of any BDSM play....dip your toes in you'll never know if its for you till you try "
Some of us dipped a little more than ties in for our first experience....more like total body immersion  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was curious about the kink scene so I got myself into it  have many friends who are into the same things so it was easy for me. I trust them fully and they help me try out and explore new things when I want to.
BDSM isnt all about pain as many assume lol I havent got much interest in the pain side of things with many people. I have different kinks 
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