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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i have come accross a few profiles from guys who clearly state on there profile there married but dont get it at home pure excuse i do think do we think they should be on the site emmmmm no |
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im sorry but i have seen lots of these posts over the few months i have been here. if you swing, even as a couple, then by definition in the dictionary, bible, wikipedia, even with their full knowledge of your partner you are cheating on them. even if they know and are happy with it - you are still cheating. therefore, who cares if people are married or not - it is their businesses. i agree they should be up front, but in the end, the definition of being with someone is that you forsake all others. just an opinion, but it is a valid one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single fem who joined this site as a married fem that played away from home (NO ONE KNOWS WHAT HAPPENS BEHIND CLOSED DOORS)this site is meant to be fun reacently it is turning in to nothing but a feckin bitching nightmare single guys get nowt but hassle BLOCK THEM couple get shit BLOCK THEM married men are the same as married wimmen no feckin diffrence if u dont want to play with them dont slate we all have our reasons for swinging.I am now single hence the profile change never hid the fact to noone that i was married .Honesty is the best policy So big thumbs up to them that has the balls to be honest and state that they are married and not one of the others that hide it.For all we know after 2 weeks being online you could be a guy a fem a reporter or a twat i could go on but i wont slate you as i dont know you use THE BUTTON if they get to you that much and let everyone be free to swing on this site for there own reasons  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single fem who joined this site as a married fem that played away from home (NO ONE KNOWS WHAT HAPPENS BEHIND CLOSED DOORS)this site is meant to be fun reacently it is turning in to nothing but a feckin bitching nightmare single guys get nowt but hassle BLOCK THEM couple get shit BLOCK THEM married men are the same as married wimmen no feckin diffrence if u dont want to play with them dont slate we all have our reasons for swinging.I am now single hence the profile change never hid the fact to noone that i was married .Honesty is the best policy So big thumbs up to them that has the balls to be honest and state that they are married and not one of the others that hide it.For all we know after 2 weeks being online you could be a guy a fem a reporter or a twat i could go on but i wont slate you as i dont know you use THE BUTTON if they get to you that much and let everyone be free to swing on this site for there own reasons "
well said, exellent post!!!
we're all here for the ame thing at the end of the day and if you don't like a profile then move on
fab is still fun we all just have to ignore the idiots trying to turn it into a bitching fest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single fem who joined this site as a married fem that played away from home (NO ONE KNOWS WHAT HAPPENS BEHIND CLOSED DOORS)this site is meant to be fun reacently it is turning in to nothing but a feckin bitching nightmare single guys get nowt but hassle BLOCK THEM couple get shit BLOCK THEM married men are the same as married wimmen no feckin diffrence if u dont want to play with them dont slate we all have our reasons for swinging.I am now single hence the profile change never hid the fact to noone that i was married .Honesty is the best policy So big thumbs up to them that has the balls to be honest and state that they are married and not one of the others that hide it.For all we know after 2 weeks being online you could be a guy a fem a reporter or a twat i could go on but i wont slate you as i dont know you use THE BUTTON if they get to you that much and let everyone be free to swing on this site for there own reasons "
Couldn't had put it any better myself.
There are people on here who think they're part of some swinging committee and think what they say or do is right.
Heads up their arse as its commonly known..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well said pleasurer , there are too many people on this site that just want to judge on what people want, if they dont like it they know where the door is ,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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couldnt agree more P!!!!
if someone tells you they are married and you are very against this, dont meet simple as.
everyone has their own reaons for doing this, cpls and singles and no-body else need to know what these reasons are...
most ppl are here for the same reason (SEX) so my vote goes to we get back to what we do best and leave everyome else to what they do best ....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who are we to judge what anybody does? If people go on about how bad being a swingers is.. do we stop?? nooooooo we hold our heads up high and shag shag shag lol..... nobody is in any position to judge another.... if you dont like then block or dont chat to them ... its simples  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd rather people were honest, regardless of the surrounding circumstances "
yea hun i agree an if im honest
i meet married guys..but only if he
on here as a single as i wouldnt
meet a guy from a cpl by himself unless
i know them an hear from her saying its
ok..2 meet a guy an know the wife now
thats nasty an im not a nasty person
but each 2 there own i say xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am a married guy here playing alone....have never hidden that fact from anyone and people meet me know all about this.....my reasons are mine alone and I do not have to justify myself to anyone.
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If anyone doesn't like it then it is of no consequence to me.....just move on and pass me by |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am a married guy here playing alone....have never hidden that fact from anyone and people meet me know all about this.....my reasons are mine alone and I do not have to justify myself to anyone.
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If anyone doesn't like it then it is of no consequence to me.....just move on and pass me by"
Well said stu |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"there are cpls on here that both play alone so should they be banned too ?
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 No dont ban us plzzzz lol "
no am talking about married guys or fems there other half dont know what there doing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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YADDA YADDA YADDA ........
Give me something decent too read.this posts gettin boring....
Englishrose ..if your no happy with married men or married females .get over itthe site has enuff for everyone
Buboo x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just read this thread, and fell off my chair laughing.... Im a married man, who's other half doesn't know Im on here. But I clearly state that on my profile, so if other people dont like this, then move on or block me...simples!
I don't have to justify myself to anyone, and I certainly dont feel the need to be banned!!!!
Finally, well said pleasurer4me, I'll lick ya soon, lmao .....  |
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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago
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english rose if u aint happy with things then get off the site i am a single female who goes to social with lovely guy he knows i swing by myself .also rose its a bloody swingin site no a recruitment site ran by non siwngers let peope do theyre own thing no one has the right to judge peeps on here make their opinions clear on swinging with married or non married people.Sorry folks but some people on this site ought to open theyre eyes and smell the coffee |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"english rose if u aint happy with things then get off the site i am a single female who goes to social with lovely guy he knows i swing by myself .also rose its a bloody swingin site no a recruitment site ran by non siwngers let peope do theyre own thing no one has the right to judge peeps on here make their opinions clear on swinging with married or non married people.Sorry folks but some people on this site ought to open theyre eyes and smell the coffee"
i am happy aint the forums for to say what we want
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"always ready n willing to help ya gis ur a darling n married or not you will always be treasured as a friend xxxx"
Well that feeling is mutual Pleas, it's good that not only can you meet people for fun and frolics on here, but can also find genuine people, who you become good friends with xxx |
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1st comment is why is an English female commenting in the Scotland area - thought they had their own area to moan in .
other than that there are folk be it male or female that have needs that their other half might not enjoy , be it watersports or bdsm or dogging,same sex anything. so why cant they find a person that is in to the same things on a site like this and it the new player is not happy with them being in a couple then thats their problem not the sites.
As Heather says if you dont like the game dont play it but dont try and ram your rules down other folks throats.this is an adult site and most of them have a brain that they use now and again. it is up to each and every one to make up their own mind what they do with their fun time. |
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after reading your profile . you say that you are looking for good looking people should ugly people be banned from the site and who says what is ugly. one persons crap is another's gold mine.
if you are in chat does it matter what any one is as your only talking and joking with folk looks or marital status does not come in to it unless you make it
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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago
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"after reading your profile . you say that you are looking for good looking people should ugly people be banned from the site and who says what is ugly. one persons crap is another's gold mine.
if you are in chat does it matter what any one is as your only talking and joking with folk looks or marital status does not come in to it unless you make it
rant over "
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Oi !!! Leave ugly people out of it i'm not doin anyone any harm lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"1st comment is why is an English female commenting in the Scotland area - thought they had their own area to moan in .
other than that there are folk be it male or female that have needs that their other half might not enjoy , be it watersports or bdsm or dogging,same sex anything. so why cant they find a person that is in to the same things on a site like this and it the new player is not happy with them being in a couple then thats their problem not the sites.
As Heather says if you dont like the game dont play it but dont try and ram your rules down other folks throats.this is an adult site and most of them have a brain that they use now and again. it is up to each and every one to make up their own mind what they do with their fun time."
i do think i am allowed to post in scotland forums forums are for anyone scottish forums aint just for scottish folk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i dont agree with cheatin in ANY circumstance call me old fashioned but when you take the vows you should be certain you are goin to be faithful!
on the other hand, its none of my business what goes on in someone elses life and i try my hardest to avoid the married ones thats my choice i cant be arsed with the secrecy and the hassle and i dont do second hand goods!! not even for m and s irish pancakes mcuky trucker before you say it!
but there are loads of people who prefer the secrecy of someone who is married or in a relationship!
at the end of the day, if you dont want somethin dont look for it!
yes there are ones who lie and say they not in a relationship but a little groundwork soon digs them out and no one likes or licks a liar!
as bonnie tyler said the world is full of married men! n il add on women just to keep it fair!! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not the moral police: what other people do is entirely their business. I don't meet married men for no other reason than I like submissive men and part of that is calling them up to meet when I want.
If a playmate has to take his wife to Tesco's when I'm free, what use is he to me?!!
I don't lecture, I don't comment I have my preferences. However, the only reason people moan about married men is they usually post whining why people wont meet them, or has some of done to me, write asking why I wont meet married men!!!
Some how my response always offends!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think its a good thing if all married and playing away members say so on their profiles - I dont care if they are women or men tbh.
If people are honest in their profiles then those who dont want anything to do with married people can see at a glance if the person is who they are looking for, or not as the case may be.
Someone said even married and playing together couples are cheating - well I NEVER said forsaking all others, I promised to love honour and cherish. Not even til death do us part, we never made our own vows we said what the woman marrying us said to say, and that was in 2002.
Mind you it may be different in a church - I couldnt marry in a church cos I would never have made it down the aisle, I would have burnt the moment I stepped over the door frame 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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he he!! mrs satan!! from how i see it, if a couple know that each other are playin seperate and they have each others consent its fine and dandy! if the other partner doesnt know then i think its wrong! and if they are a couple who swing and enjoy it then thats their perogative! its the sleekit fly ones both male and female i dont agree with but thats just my opinion xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont agree with cheatin in ANY circumstance call me old fashioned but when you take the vows you should be certain you are goin to be faithful!
on the other hand, its none of my business what goes on in someone elses life and i try my hardest to avoid the married ones thats my choice i cant be arsed with the secrecy and the hassle and i dont do second hand goods!! not even for m and s irish pancakes mcuky trucker before you say it!
but there are loads of people who prefer the secrecy of someone who is married or in a relationship!
at the end of the day, if you dont want somethin dont look for it!
yes there are ones who lie and say they not in a relationship but a little groundwork soon digs them out and no one likes or licks a liar!
as bonnie tyler said the world is full of married men! n il add on women just to keep it fair!! x "
Couldn't agree more, everybody is free to have their own opinions! If someone doesn't agree or doesn't want to, then fine, don't.
So the morality police have been banned from the Scottish forum? Wish it was the same in the other forums!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i could be in the morality police... arent the police corrupt and break the law anyway?? xx
legal disclaimer.... strathclydes finest do a sterling job especially the ones i have met!! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i could be in the morality police... arent the police corrupt and break the law anyway?? xx
legal disclaimer.... strathclydes finest do a sterling job especially the ones i have met!! x "
The Police need to remember that they're a service and not a force.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"why is anyone taking the bate with this persons posts? just giving them what they want "
this site is for anyone use wether your single couple or married a lot of married do play with there partners permission
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why is anyone taking the bate with this persons posts? just giving them what they want this site is for anyone use wether your single couple or married a lot of married do play with there partners permission"
we all know wot the site is for......but this post is turning out to be a bit of a joke.....end of
some things are best left unsaid
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hi thought i,d add my 2 bit,s worth.have been married 38yrs and felt like a change was always faithful but need more now dont want long term relastionship just some horny fun with people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my 2 pence worth ive met some lovely married men on here who are great friends now but would never play with them because there married just not our thing but no one is here to judge anyone else well they shouldnt be plenty do though unfortunatly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why is anyone taking the bate with this persons posts? just giving them what they want "
Are we? Don't think so!
What we are doing is for the first time ever I think, having a civilised discussion re married PEOPLE on here, and without it descending into the usual "bash a married man" rubbish!!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well i'll just put my tuppence worth in, its a swinging site and everyone on here for there own reasons......I meet a lot of married men, its no strings fun and thats just exactly what it isxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i could be in the morality police... arent the police corrupt and break the law anyway?? xx
legal disclaimer.... strathclydes finest do a sterling job especially the ones i have met!! x
The Police need to remember that they're a service and not a force.
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why they reffered to as the police force then??? |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Happily the site owner don't ban one section of people from the site and I doubt if they will.
I guess they must be open minded and non judgemental, which I always imagined people who play these games would be......it still surprises me when you see some of the comments.
As another has said, you don't have to agree with what people do, but it isn't any of your business unless it affects you, so whats the problem.
PS Anyone can post in ANY forum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am married am here and I ain't judging no one. It's my business why I'm here as it's yours for why you are.
Am upfront and also very respectful to those who I have spoke with.
Lets face it there is plenty of male and females out there on every site you can think off playing away. If you dont like it don't get involved then we all happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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at least there honest enought to say there married and who are we to judge if there after a wee bit of extra fun arent we all ere for the same thing wiether we married couple or single guy or women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i chose not to meet married men as it's difficult for me to get spare time as it is without trying to meet someone who cant or can meet...but its their choice if they want to be on here and i dont beleive anyone here has a right to decide who should or shouldnt use the site.
as far as im concerned, the noly people that cant use the site are those that are abusive or offensive and they get their just desserts.
the only objection i have is when a married person uses their profile to slate their partner or partners performance or blame them for the fact they are being unfaithful...though i doubt it makes them popular, so again, their choice!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no one has the right to judge others on here.
as long as the married folks say on their profile they are, people make informed choices.
however, they should get themselves regularly sexually health checked. It is one thing to expose themselves, it is another to take anything home to the innocent one. (sexual health check applies to all )
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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who cares if peeps are married, seperated, divorced, playing separately, playing away etc
none of us has a right to judge and anyway as long as you are having fun, why bother about anyone else!
happy swinging xxxx |
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Its true no one has the right to judge others But !!!!! but some ppl have thier preferences that they dont want to meet married men in case of any wife finding out their man is on the site and playing around.(this works both for men and women) b4 all the comments its a two way thing.
But for any MAN or WOMAN to play behind the spouse backs there must be somit lacking in the relationship (in my eyes).
But its nice for any one who is married to be upfront and say so while they are on the site so the other playing party is not being decieved.
Just my 2ps worth xxxxxx Brennie xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been on this site for quite some time now and I'm married. I have my reasons and they stay mine.
Majority of women I have met on here are also married and play with or without their partners consent. I don't ask as its not my business but we do usually get it out of the way during chat.
Swinging/adult sites are just that "no strings fun" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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actually I think people are entitled to judge,the same way as all people are welcome on the site
swinging is all about making an informed choice who we meet and who we don't.
well done to the folks who write very honest profiles declaring their true situation or sexuality.
and I will continue to judge the liars, the same way as they can continue to make a judgement about me/us.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we'll we're here for the fun, we're having a blast and life on fab is great, the site is what you make it and if you don't like it log off and leave
we're happy to leave the bitching, jelousy and rivalry to others
roll on the weekend and fun time xxxx
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I thought it showed a lot of tolerant and none judgemental people
Hey ruggers, im still waiting to judge ya flashing talents, lol "
I would have flashed you today if you had been on the M6 ! |
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