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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm gonna crack open a family sized bag of Maltesers for this one
You sharing? 
Mmmmmm since it's you OK, but it's not all we're sharing is it? "
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"How come it seems married men on here frowned upon but married women are welcome? We are both in the same boat - looking for company "
who has actually said this ?
I know a few married fems and males and they both do ok for meets on here. |
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over a year ago
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Surely its for that person to make the choice...there are many many factors why married people are on here without their partners knowledge....if it's not for you then no reason to contact them |
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"Surely its for that person to make the choice...there are many many factors why married people are on here without their partners knowledge....if it's not for you then no reason to contact them"
^^^this
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By (user no longer on site)
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Nobody really knows what goes on behind the curtains of a typical married home.
EVERY marriage has its ups and downs and yes at some point majority of people stray for various reasons
I am no angel but then I don't confess to being Christian either what is it your book sayeth "Let he who has not sinned throw the first stone" greenhouses come to mind
I'm more light a candle for a sinner, LOL let's watch the world burn
Nah everybody is here for there own reasons with or without their partners consent.
Technically, you are all breaking your marital vows as well as your 10 Commandments but hell that's another argument
Live and let live .
And if they get caught, It is them alone that face the wrath |
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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago
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"Nobody really knows what goes on behind the curtains of a typical married home.
EVERY marriage has its ups and downs and yes at some point majority of people stray for various reasons
I am no angel but then I don't confess to being Christian either what is it your book sayeth "Let he who has not sinned throw the first stone" greenhouses come to mind
I'm more light a candle for a sinner, LOL let's watch the world burn
Nah everybody is here for there own reasons with or without their partners consent.
Technically, you are all breaking your marital vows as well as your 10 Commandments but hell that's another argument
Live and let live .
And if they get caught, It is them alone that face the wrath "
I think you hint the nail on the head when u say its them alone that face the wrath , unfortunately not always the case , even if the meeter be it man or woman believes the person to be single they to can feel the wrath of a scorned partner , hence the reason I feel married people are frowned upon. That is my opinion for what its worth. |
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I'd say if they are open about the fact they are married
It's up to the individual to make up his/ her mind to meet the said person
It's when someone lies about being single when their not and the shit hits the fan is when things take a turn for the worse
Male or female
But I think I agree with the OP
Yip men get frowned apon more that woman
That's fab life tho x |
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"Without partners knowledge is the key part
Totally 100% correct.
And they also lie about being single.
No wonder women/men get pissed off."
Not everyone lies...yes there are those that do but its up to them that they make the choice to. |
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"I'd say if they are open about the fact they are married
It's up to the individual to make up his/ her mind to meet the said person
It's when someone lies about being single when their not and the shit hits the fan is when things take a turn for the worse
Male or female
But I think I agree with the OP
Yip men get frowned apon more that woman
That's fab life tho x "
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"Without partners knowledge is the key part
Totally 100% correct.
And they also lie about being single.
No wonder women/men get pissed off.
Not everyone lies...yes there are those that do but its up to them that they make the choice to. "
Only 99.9% of them then |
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Not everyone on here are the people they want you to believe they are.
Some admit they are married and some don't I think the difficulty in acceptance is that many say won't meet married or attached when it's obviously clear they do. some just don't want to admit they meet married or attached people then show verifications from people who clearly are. |
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By *macv9Woman
over a year ago
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"I think the difficulty in acceptance is that many say won't meet married or attached when it's obviously clear they do. "
Hadn't really thought of that.
I've certainly noticed that there are plenty couples contact me even though my profile clearly states that I'm married and their profile states that they won't meet married/attached guys.
You would think that if they have that concern about married guys then they would at least want some way of verifying that my husband is ok with me doing what I do. But no, they never ask for any proof!
I'm glad it's the way it is for me. It means I can go to meets, cj's or whatever wearing my wedding ring and being completely up front.
I wouldn't have much sympathy for a married guy who can't get meets if he's doing it without his wife's consent. But for the married guys who do have consent, then, yes, it must be a bit of a bummer to say the least. |
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"Not everyone on here are the people they want you to believe they are.
Some admit they are married and some don't I think the difficulty in acceptance is that many say won't meet married or attached when it's obviously clear they do. some just don't want to admit they meet married or attached people then show verifications from people who clearly are. "
And some people are lied to by the said married folk who pretend they are single,then when the meet happens they either confess,or they are found out.
Hey ho! maybe that's why some folk are extra cautious. |
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"Not everyone on here are the people they want you to believe they are.
Some admit they are married and some don't I think the difficulty in acceptance is that many say won't meet married or attached when it's obviously clear they do. some just don't want to admit they meet married or attached people then show verifications from people who clearly are.
And some people are lied to by the said married folk who pretend they are single,then when the meet happens they either confess,or they are found out.
Hey ho! maybe that's why some folk are extra cautious."
As I said some will admit it some won't, most people know that some will say anything on here to get a meet and that's a fact.
Sadly some lessons are learnt the hard Way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not everyone on here are the people they want you to believe they are.
Some admit they are married and some don't I think the difficulty in acceptance is that many say won't meet married or attached when it's obviously clear they do. some just don't want to admit they meet married or attached people then show verifications from people who clearly are.
And some people are lied to by the said married folk who pretend they are single,then when the meet happens they either confess,or they are found out.
Hey ho! maybe that's why some folk are extra cautious.As I said some will admit it some won't, most people know that some will say anything on here to get a meet and that's a fact.
Sadly some lessons are learnt the hard Way. "
True very true,sadly we ain't allowed to name the culprits. |
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