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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Unfortunately. Due to some otherstuff who couldn't. Bear to see me happy. I will. Be dissapering ok whoever. You were you won please. Just leave me alone! |
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By *ee-YinWoman
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately. Due to some otherstuff who couldn't. Bear to see me happy. I will. Be dissapering ok whoever. You were you won please. Just leave me alone!"
Awww no......don't go xx
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Shit mate, don't really know you, but you're a bit of an institution on here.
Don't let ANYONE make you do something you don't want to!
Stay, and ignore/block/report whoever it is that's upsetting you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shit mate, don't really know you, but you're a bit of an institution on here.
Don't let ANYONE make you do something you don't want to!
Stay, and ignore/block/report whoever it is that's upsetting you! "
Totes with him and Andy pandy on this one!! No one wants you to leave! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As most people. Know. I have a very. Special. Friend. In fab who is really. Close to me
Someone. Just can't see us happy. And has took it upon. Themselves. To feed my freind. Lies and stories. About. Me
Whoever. You are can you please. Stop your trouble. Making. And leave us alone |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"As most people. Know. I have a very. Special. Friend. In fab who is really. Close to me
Someone. Just can't see us happy. And has took it upon. Themselves. To feed my freind. Lies and stories. About. Me
Whoever. You are can you please. Stop your trouble. Making. And leave us alone "
your special friend won't believe the nonsense, surely they know who is telling them
just report them |
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"As most people. Know. I have a very. Special. Friend. In fab who is really. Close to me
Someone. Just can't see us happy. And has took it upon. Themselves. To feed my freind. Lies and stories. About. Me
Whoever. You are can you please. Stop your trouble. Making. And leave us alone "
That's par for the course on here hun, as long as your both aware of it then just ignore them and that makes you the winner  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As most people. Know. I have a very. Special. Friend. In fab who is really. Close to me
Someone. Just can't see us happy. And has took it upon. Themselves. To feed my freind. Lies and stories. About. Me
Whoever. You are can you please. Stop your trouble. Making. And leave us alone "
Surely your friend would listen to you instead of this person!? Don't leave and let them win!! Maybe hide your profile but defo don't delete it! No one wants to see you leave! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been there Jack. Rudeness, insults and lots of hearsay passed on as gospel so know how unpleasant it is. You're better than all of that. Remember the people who think the world of you are much more important than the jealous ones consumed by hate. xxx Jintz |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been there Jack. Rudeness, insults and lots of hearsay passed on as gospel so know how unpleasant it is. You're better than all of that. Remember the people who think the world of you are much more important than the jealous ones consumed by hate. xxx Jintz"
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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"As most people. Know. I have a very. Special. Friend. In fab who is really. Close to me
Someone. Just can't see us happy. And has took it upon. Themselves. To feed my freind. Lies and stories. About. Me
Whoever. You are can you please. Stop your trouble. Making. And leave us alone
That's par for the course on here hun, as long as your both aware of it then just ignore them and that makes you the winner "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As most people. Know. I have a very. Special. Friend. In fab who is really. Close to me
Someone. Just can't see us happy. And has took it upon. Themselves. To feed my freind. Lies and stories. About. Me
Whoever. You are can you please. Stop your trouble. Making. And leave us alone "
Well im sure your friend will believe you over the nasty person making up stories this irritates me so much  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As most people. Know. I have a very. Special. Friend. In fab who is really. Close to me
Someone. Just can't see us happy. And has took it upon. Themselves. To feed my freind. Lies and stories. About. Me
Whoever. You are can you please. Stop your trouble. Making. And leave us alone
your special friend won't believe the nonsense, surely they know who is telling them
just report them"
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is, it would appear, a systematic, orchestrated campaign by some to drive certain people off the site or cause them grief Jack. Now maybe that's just my conspiracy theory mindset, perhaps the paranoia us ripping right out of me but don't let it get to you. As you very rightly said to me the other night...time...a great healer! Chin up chief! |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
near Glasgow |
"As most people. Know. I have a very. Special. Friend. In fab who is really. Close to me
Someone. Just can't see us happy. And has took it upon. Themselves. To feed my freind. Lies and stories. About. Me
Whoever. You are can you please. Stop your trouble. Making. And leave us alone "
Jack, here's a wee quote from a certain lady's profile:
""If you didn't see it with your own eyes, or hear it with your own ears, don't invent it with your small mind and share it with your big mouth!""
If your ladyfriend is genuinely special, then hopefully she has the wisdom and sense to see through the rubbish.
And there is a potential positive; if you survive the tough times, then it just makes you stronger, and you leave the sad sods floundering in your wake.
All the best to you and her!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As most people. Know. I have a very. Special. Friend. In fab who is really. Close to me
Someone. Just can't see us happy. And has took it upon. Themselves. To feed my freind. Lies and stories. About. Me
Whoever. You are can you please. Stop your trouble. Making. And leave us alone
Jack, here's a wee quote from a certain lady's profile:
""If you didn't see it with your own eyes, or hear it with your own ears, don't invent it with your small mind and share it with your big mouth!""
If your ladyfriend is genuinely special, then hopefully she has the wisdom and sense to see through the rubbish.
And there is a potential positive; if you survive the tough times, then it just makes you stronger, and you leave the sad sods floundering in your wake.
All the best to you and her! "
I agree totally, Mr Nichts. That's a first!!!   |
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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago
glasgow |
Jack because of certain issues i had i have made a right arss of myslf on here at socials but the really truly genuine people on here have been great Jack dont let this idiot get to you you are a million times better than them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is, it would appear, a systematic, orchestrated campaign by some to drive certain people off the site or cause them grief Jack. Now maybe that's just my conspiracy theory mindset, perhaps the paranoia us ripping right out of me but don't let it get to you. As you very rightly said to me the other night...time...a great healer! Chin up chief! "
End of last year i opted to click out the site, reluctantly because its brought me some fantastic times over the years etc.
What i dont understand about all this is, i just went, leaft, no forum thread about it, no guaging reactions, i really could of filled my boots with the how's and why's. But i never.
That leaves nobody guessing or pondering the who and why, now they probably will be.
Thats kinda manipulative either way. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"There is, it would appear, a systematic, orchestrated campaign by some to drive certain people off the site or cause them grief Jack. Now maybe that's just my conspiracy theory mindset, perhaps the paranoia us ripping right out of me but don't let it get to you. As you very rightly said to me the other night...time...a great healer! Chin up chief! "
if you truly think that, then the best course of action is to report the people you suspect and let the admin team check and take any action appropriate.
all seems a tad dramatic over a difference in posting style. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It has shocked me how a person can try n ruin such a special friendship i really thot this was an adult site so no this person hasnt won wat they tried to do infact its now proved how special it is when we have now rose about it and as a few have said belive the person you know not nasty vindictive idiots |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It has shocked me how a person can try n ruin such a special friendship i really thot this was an adult site so no this person hasnt won wat they tried to do infact its now proved how special it is when we have now rose about it and as a few have said belive the person you know not nasty vindictive idiots "
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Things never change around here,but have to agree with a few other people in that there is no need to broadcast it because this does is have people making accusations and assumptions and pointing fingers as to who the culprits might be.
If your friend still has the emails then copy and paste them to admin and let them check it out,then block and move on.
I guess it's maybe time to think again about discretion at all times that way only the people meeting know about it and not the whole site.
Good luck to you and your special.xx |
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Its like being back at school with this site sometimes or most of the time but if ur friend was a true friend they would believe you and not the lies someone else is telling them
Hide your profile and take timeout dont let them win your better than them
Hen xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is, it would appear, a systematic, orchestrated campaign by some to drive certain people off the site or cause them grief Jack. Now maybe that's just my conspiracy theory mindset, perhaps the paranoia us ripping right out of me but don't let it get to you. As you very rightly said to me the other night...time...a great healer! Chin up chief!
End of last year i opted to click out the site, reluctantly because its brought me some fantastic times over the years etc.
What i dont understand about all this is, i just went, leaft, no forum thread about it, no guaging reactions, i really could of filled my boots with the how's and why's. But i never.
That leaves nobody guessing or pondering the who and why, now they probably will be.
Thats kinda manipulative either way."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i would just like to say that Jack has been one of the nicest people i have spoke to on here and has helped me through a lot since i join and am glad his special friend has seen through the bull shit good luck to you both you deserve to be happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i would just like to say that Jack has been one of the nicest people i have spoke to on here and has helped me through a lot since i join and am glad his special friend has seen through the bull shit good luck to you both you deserve to be happy "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i would just like to say that Jack has been one of the nicest people i have spoke to on here and has helped me through a lot since i join and am glad his special friend has seen through the bull shit good luck to you both you deserve to be happy "
Awww that's lovely Mr |
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"As most people. Know. I have a very. Special. Friend. In fab who is really. Close to me
Someone. Just can't see us happy. And has took it upon. Themselves. To feed my freind. Lies and stories. About. Me
Whoever. You are can you please. Stop your trouble. Making. And leave us alone
Jack, here's a wee quote from a certain lady's profile:
""If you didn't see it with your own eyes, or hear it with your own ears, don't invent it with your small mind and share it with your big mouth!""
If your ladyfriend is genuinely special, then hopefully she has the wisdom and sense to see through the rubbish.
And there is a potential positive; if you survive the tough times, then it just makes you stronger, and you leave the sad sods floundering in your wake.
All the best to you and her! "
Hear hear xxxx |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
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End of last year i opted to click out the site, reluctantly because its brought me some fantastic times over the years etc.
What i dont understand about all this is, i just went, leaft, no forum thread about it, no guaging reactions, i really could of filled my boots with the how's and why's. But i never.
That leaves nobody guessing or pondering the who and why, now they probably will be.
Thats kinda manipulative either way."
There's been a few 'leaving' threads lately but no one appears to actually be leaving. I'm confused  |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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End of last year i opted to click out the site, reluctantly because its brought me some fantastic times over the years etc.
What i dont understand about all this is, i just went, leaft, no forum thread about it, no guaging reactions, i really could of filled my boots with the how's and why's. But i never.
That leaves nobody guessing or pondering the who and why, now they probably will be.
Thats kinda manipulative either way.
There's been a few 'leaving' threads lately but no one appears to actually be leaving. I'm confused "
In fairness to Jack, it doesn't actually say leaving, just having a little break  |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
Later on it says for 1 day.
Not particularly picking on OP, it just happens to be that this is the most recent thread.
For some reason lately there seems to be drama on the forum for no real reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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End of last year i opted to click out the site, reluctantly because its brought me some fantastic times over the years etc.
What i dont understand about all this is, i just went, leaft, no forum thread about it, no guaging reactions, i really could of filled my boots with the how's and why's. But i never.
That leaves nobody guessing or pondering the who and why, now they probably will be.
Thats kinda manipulative either way.
There's been a few 'leaving' threads lately but no one appears to actually be leaving. I'm confused
In fairness to Jack, it doesn't actually say leaving, just having a little break "
Ok, Andy i went to the shop an hour ago, pretty sure nobody wanted to know, same if i went a day or a month.
Im sure friends are a plenty and if it was really major hastle, many on here are just a message or call away, not dissmissing it, i just dont see how it helps anyone. |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
Falkirk |
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End of last year i opted to click out the site, reluctantly because its brought me some fantastic times over the years etc.
What i dont understand about all this is, i just went, leaft, no forum thread about it, no guaging reactions, i really could of filled my boots with the how's and why's. But i never.
That leaves nobody guessing or pondering the who and why, now they probably will be.
Thats kinda manipulative either way.
There's been a few 'leaving' threads lately but no one appears to actually be leaving. I'm confused
In fairness to Jack, it doesn't actually say leaving, just having a little break Ok, Andy i went to the shop an hour ago, pretty sure nobody wanted to know, same if i went a day or a month.
Im sure friends are a plenty and if it was really major hastle, many on here are just a message or call away, not dissmissing it, i just dont see how it helps anyone."
If I'd known you could have got me some custard
In all seriousness, I get your point mate but I guess its life. Some people like to know what others are up to, some don't. Some like to share, some don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is, it would appear, a systematic, orchestrated campaign by some to drive certain people off the site or cause them grief Jack. Now maybe that's just my conspiracy theory mindset, perhaps the paranoia us ripping right out of me but don't let it get to you. As you very rightly said to me the other night...time...a great healer! Chin up chief!
End of last year i opted to click out the site, reluctantly because its brought me some fantastic times over the years etc.
What i dont understand about all this is, i just went, leaft, no forum thread about it, no guaging reactions, i really could of filled my boots with the how's and why's. But i never.
That leaves nobody guessing or pondering the who and why, now they probably will be.
Thats kinda manipulative either way."
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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" For some reason lately there seems to be drama on the forum for no real reason."
To a degree, I agree with you, but I think you have to bear in mind that there is a bit of a sub-culture around here. What you see in the forums isn't necessarily the full picture. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have had the same person try to break us apart several times. We know who it is, we know why they are doing it, but they will never win.
We are together for the long haul, and we are stronger than we have ever been.
These people that have bad intentions never do well in life. Don't let them win. |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
" For some reason lately there seems to be drama on the forum for no real reason.
To a degree, I agree with you, but I think you have to bear in mind that there is a bit of a sub-culture around here. What you see in the forums isn't necessarily the full picture. "
I'm kinda getting that impression lately from some other posts where there seems to be drama and I have no clue what people are on about. But ultimately people are choosing to bring it to the forums and I'm not sure that's the wisest idea. |
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" For some reason lately there seems to be drama on the forum for no real reason.
To a degree, I agree with you, but I think you have to bear in mind that there is a bit of a sub-culture around here. What you see in the forums isn't necessarily the full picture.
I'm kinda getting that impression lately from some other posts where there seems to be drama and I have no clue what people are on about. But ultimately people are choosing to bring it to the forums and I'm not sure that's the wisest idea."
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By (user no longer on site)
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" For some reason lately there seems to be drama on the forum for no real reason.
To a degree, I agree with you, but I think you have to bear in mind that there is a bit of a sub-culture around here. What you see in the forums isn't necessarily the full picture.
I'm kinda getting that impression lately from some other posts where there seems to be drama and I have no clue what people are on about. But ultimately people are choosing to bring it to the forums and I'm not sure that's the wisest idea."
can i clarify it was brought into forums out of frustration alot of factors to it 1 beeing fake profile other factors im not going to mention in here so was aimed at the nasty vidictive person who at a good guess set up a fake profile coz they didnt have the balls to slag slate n be personally hurtful on a proper profile so i cud report n block hope now it makes it a little clearer as ppl say its an open forum n ppl will have there opinions to why which i respect but it wasnt intended as a drama thread there were reasons why !!! Its now done n dusted n moved on from it !!! |
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" For some reason lately there seems to be drama on the forum for no real reason.
To a degree, I agree with you, but I think you have to bear in mind that there is a bit of a sub-culture around here. What you see in the forums isn't necessarily the full picture.
I'm kinda getting that impression lately from some other posts where there seems to be drama and I have no clue what people are on about. But ultimately people are choosing to bring it to the forums and I'm not sure that's the wisest idea.can i clarify it was brought into forums out of frustration alot of factors to it 1 beeing fake profile other factors im not going to mention in here so was aimed at the nasty vidictive person who at a good guess set up a fake profile coz they didnt have the balls to slag slate n be personally hurtful on a proper profile so i cud report n block hope now it makes it a little clearer as ppl say its an open forum n ppl will have there opinions to why which i respect but it wasnt intended as a drama thread there were reasons why !!! Its now done n dusted n moved on from it !!!"
If its done and dusted maybe its best to ask admin to remove the post all together then ? xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" For some reason lately there seems to be drama on the forum for no real reason.
To a degree, I agree with you, but I think you have to bear in mind that there is a bit of a sub-culture around here. What you see in the forums isn't necessarily the full picture.
I'm kinda getting that impression lately from some other posts where there seems to be drama and I have no clue what people are on about. But ultimately people are choosing to bring it to the forums and I'm not sure that's the wisest idea.can i clarify it was brought into forums out of frustration alot of factors to it 1 beeing fake profile other factors im not going to mention in here so was aimed at the nasty vidictive person who at a good guess set up a fake profile coz they didnt have the balls to slag slate n be personally hurtful on a proper profile so i cud report n block hope now it makes it a little clearer as ppl say its an open forum n ppl will have there opinions to why which i respect but it wasnt intended as a drama thread there were reasons why !!! Its now done n dusted n moved on from it !!!If its done and dusted maybe its best to ask admin to remove the post all together then ? xx"
i only added on because of certain quearys as to why it was on forum hopfully its left now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jack because of certain issues i had i have made a right arss of myslf on here at socials but the really truly genuine people on here have been great Jack dont let this idiot get to you you are a million times better than them "
Listen to Heather Jack, you know she's right mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" For some reason lately there seems to be drama on the forum for no real reason.
To a degree, I agree with you, but I think you have to bear in mind that there is a bit of a sub-culture around here. What you see in the forums isn't necessarily the full picture.
I'm kinda getting that impression lately from some other posts where there seems to be drama and I have no clue what people are on about. But ultimately people are choosing to bring it to the forums and I'm not sure that's the wisest idea.can i clarify it was brought into forums out of frustration alot of factors to it 1 beeing fake profile other factors im not going to mention in here so was aimed at the nasty vidictive person who at a good guess set up a fake profile coz they didnt have the balls to slag slate n be personally hurtful on a proper profile so i cud report n block hope now it makes it a little clearer as ppl say its an open forum n ppl will have there opinions to why which i respect but it wasnt intended as a drama thread there were reasons why !!! Its now done n dusted n moved on from it !!!"
Kinda understand the frustration, but sorry, you are actually doing it again. Creating speculation and doubt, "ohh wunder who it is then" etc, and thats not fair to yourselves or anyone. |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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" Can I clarify it was brought into forums out of frustration a lot of factors to it 1 being fake profile other factors I'm not going to mention in here so was aimed at the nasty vindictive person who at a good guess set up a fake profile coz they didn't have the balls to slag slate n be personally hurtful on a proper profile so I cud report n block."
Been there and got the t-shirt, both of us have experienced the nasty messages from fake profiles which quickly went UNLOS!
Sadly, normally sane and sensible people can sink to some crazy depths when things don't go their way. Although it's not always easy, the best solution is to simply rise above it and them, they're the ones with the problem.  |
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" Can I clarify it was brought into forums out of frustration a lot of factors to it 1 being fake profile other factors I'm not going to mention in here so was aimed at the nasty vindictive person who at a good guess set up a fake profile coz they didn't have the balls to slag slate n be personally hurtful on a proper profile so I cud report n block.
Been there and got the t-shirt, both of us have experienced the nasty messages from fake profiles which quickly went UNLOS!
Sadly, normally sane and sensible people can sink to some crazy depths when things don't go their way. Although it's not always easy, the best solution is to simply rise above it and them, they're the ones with the problem. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Can I clarify it was brought into forums out of frustration a lot of factors to it 1 being fake profile other factors I'm not going to mention in here so was aimed at the nasty vindictive person who at a good guess set up a fake profile coz they didn't have the balls to slag slate n be personally hurtful on a proper profile so I cud report n block.
Been there and got the t-shirt, both of us have experienced the nasty messages from fake profiles which quickly went UNLOS!
Sadly, normally sane and sensible people can sink to some crazy depths when things don't go their way. Although it's not always easy, the best solution is to simply rise above it and them, they're the ones with the problem. "
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fuck that. don't leave just cause of some idiot spreading stories. you and your friend ignore them and block em
don't let the sad pathetic idiots with nothing to do but try to mess with people beat you man. hang in there.
or hell you could always find em and beat the hell outta them. that works too  |
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"Mabes. It just me but I thought. We were. Letting. This thread slide of page
Think everyone. Said there. Bit
Seems some just can't let things go!!"
jack if you want your post removed then ask admin to remove it but it's what happens when you post on the forums |
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"Mabes. It just me but I thought. We were. Letting. This thread slide of page
Think everyone. Said there. Bit
Seems some just can't let things go!!"
see this is hilarious whatever happened to post on what you wish ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" For some reason lately there seems to be drama on the forum for no real reason.
To a degree, I agree with you, but I think you have to bear in mind that there is a bit of a sub-culture around here. What you see in the forums isn't necessarily the full picture. "
Indeed there is, but its all turned out ok, lots of support from friends for them and all is good.
I've never experienced any such support, i have experienced a friendship breakdown which is bad enough.
But to have to endure the sub culture, "sub culture" to me is gossip, rumour spreading and consequent shutting down, closing ranks-cliquey one sided, my friends are always right, kind of playground mentality, as well.
But its as jacs said to me, guess they were never friends of mine if they chose to listen to the rumours etc.
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"There is, it would appear, a systematic, orchestrated campaign by some to drive certain people off the site or cause them grief Jack. Now maybe that's just my conspiracy theory mindset, perhaps the paranoia us ripping right out of me but don't let it get to you. As you very rightly said to me the other night...time...a great healer! Chin up chief!
End of last year i opted to click out the site, reluctantly because its brought me some fantastic times over the years etc.
What i dont understand about all this is, i just went, leaft, no forum thread about it, no guaging reactions, i really could of filled my boots with the how's and why's. But i never.
That leaves nobody guessing or pondering the who and why, now they probably will be.
Thats kinda manipulative either way."
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