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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"well explain it to me please xxxxxxxxx  "
You are a 46 year old female on a swinging site and you don't know what it is?? Yeah right oh!!!
But just for you here is the site's explanation found in the "Interests" section -
"Soft Swing is when there is playing around but not full penetrative sex with others. Often, in a couples situation, the women will have sex with each other with the men watching and then the couples will have sex with their own partners."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We met a great couple last week and it had been agreed beforehand that our first meet would be soft play so lots of licking, sucking and mutual masturbation. It was very horny and great fun. The reason was the other fem wasn't sure about full sex right away and we're always saying on this site no pressure. Now we've played we may well change the rules on next meet but doesn't bother me (Tom) that much as we still had a ball. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when we 1st tryed swinging we only did soft swap.some folk like 2 ease themselves into it rather than just go 4 it the 1st time!we didnt have full sex 4 about a year then took it 2 the next level.its all about being comfortable and havn fun.whatever that is 2 the individual.x auds.x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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when i was married me and hubby use to do soft play but he wasnt allowed near the other female but her hubby was to touch me surly its a 2 way thing
has any one come accross this before
as i just think its a jelous hubby thing |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"when i was married me and hubby use to do soft play but he wasnt allowed near the other female but her hubby was to touch me surly its a 2 way thing
has any one come accross this before
as i just think its a jelous hubby thing"
See I knew you couldn't have got to being 46 and on a swinging site and not know what soft play was all along!
What was Karen Dunbar's catchphrase on Chewing the Fat again???  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And here was me thinking all this time soft swing was when you couldn't get a hard on :P"
And I always thought 'soft swing' was that game with the tennis ball on a bit of string, that you had to hit with a plastic tennis racket!!!
I must be more sheltered and innocent than I thought I was ....  |
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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago
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soft swing is like a kid goin into the best toy shop in the world n bein told look but your not gettin anything lol some people love the eroticism of it tho just not for us tried it once n done nothing for us  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we dont see the issue with soft swing couples, and wouldnt consider meeting people who hit out at it. jeezo, if thats what some people are into then so be it, i dont see post by soft swing couples hitting out at full swap couples
we started our first few threesomes as soft swing as we werent really certain about the whole swing thing, and it has progressed from there. We have went the from soft to full swap, some dont.
we are all different, we look for different things and we all have the right to do so. |
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By *tryxxCouple
over a year ago
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we have done soft for years and never found it to be lacking in anything,progressed if that is the word to full swap with one couple we met many times and all were happy with it, we just feel that a 4some soft swing is very much more intimate than pairing off,each to there own and own bounderies
is the best attitude we feel. |
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