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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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in response to bloobooks thread , let me start by saying i agree with the points he has highlighted but what if it doesnt work ?
What if you are decent , pleasant , read profiles and respond accordingly, attend socials , active in chat , dont throw the toys out the pram when told no , civil , honest etc etc etc and yet could still fall into a bucket of tits and come out sooking your thumb ?
What then ? Why does the blame lie squarly at the foot of the single guy ?
Imo far too many on here are not honest , their profiles are not a true reflection of what they are lookin for , the expectation of the single guy is to be all the things listed above yet none of that is returned to them by the vast majority but thats deemed as understandable and acceptable , you do not see many threads on here slaughtering the couples and female profiles that act in such a way
Yet the single fella is automatically vilified and without being given an opportunity and 'labelled' the same as the idiots that are the polar opposite .
A wee ta but no ta and the 20 seconds it takes to send it goes a hell of a long way
God bless the single fellas , ya hardly stand a chance
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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Q - What then?
A - Get over it, move on and don't just blame other people and say they are "not honest". It is their profile, their choices, their life!
So once again Get Over It and Move On!
Not that difficult to work out really!
As always, just my tuppence worth and another "Alternative Point of View"  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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no doubt your response will be roundly applauded by the masses and usual suspects .
In other words , tough shit , get on wi it , continue to waste your own and others time and if you dont like it fuck off and delete yer account and mind and not let the door hit yer arse as ye go .
As before fellas , ye hardly stand a chance , yer prejudged and found guilty without trail .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have read you point a few times to get them straight in my head and tbh not sure exactly where u are going with this ....
what exactly do u want ppl to say????
yes some single guys get bad press for things they have done
yes some single guys get bad press thought no fault of their own
yes some ppl will read mails from single guys
yes some will not and delete immediately
yes it would take 20secs to mail back with a polite no thanks
so what now???? what do u want to change, the ppl that slate single blokes aint gonna stop cause u say so, the people that love meeting single blokes arent gonna continue because of what u write....
in other words nothing is going to change, i agree with you to the point it is hard for single men and i wish them all well, this is supposed to be light-hearted fun and nothing else,not to be taken too seriously because when that happens maybe its time to stop.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hi t and p4u
Yes you are both correct , nothing will change and things will go on as they are , and it was never my intension to try and change anyone or anything .
All i am really doing is putting up a defence for some of the single fellas based on my observations and my own opinions , im just airing them in nothing more than a healthy discussion , no harm to anyone and no offence intended .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What if you are decent , pleasant , read profiles and respond accordingly, attend socials , active in chat , dont throw the toys out the pram when told no , civil , honest etc etc etc and yet could still fall into a bucket of tits and come out sooking your thumb ?
What then ? Why does the blame lie squarly at the foot of the single guy ?
Imo far too many on here are not honest , their profiles are not a true reflection of what they are lookin for , the expectation of the single guy is to be all the things listed above yet none of that is returned to them by the vast majority but thats deemed as understandable and acceptable , you do not see many threads on here slaughtering the couples and female profiles that act in such a way
Yet the single fella is automatically vilified and without being given an opportunity and 'labelled' the same as the idiots that are the polar opposite .
A wee ta but no ta and the 20 seconds it takes to send it goes a hell of a long way
God bless the single fellas , ya hardly stand a chance
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I see :
Aren't you the same chap who wrote this about bi/gay guys in your own thread ....?
"why do they constantly wink , message and friend invite straight fellas ?
Its a pain in the arse , for want of a better phrase "
Can't have it both ways chuck ... if your reaction is to tar a group with the same brush because you don't like what some do .... expect that it will happen all round.
Kirsty
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had to kill him ....
He was trying to suggest single guys should have rights ...
blah blah blah ... something about RESPECT ...
Have you heard such nonsense .... ?
They'll be burning their Y-Fronts in the street next ....
Kirsty
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree that it is polite to say a polite thanks but no thanks. However, we have found ourselves in the situation with loads of mail to trawl through so we have on our profile "if we dont get back to you then its a thanks but no or we are busy with our real lives".
But you would not believe the amount of people that actually message you back saying - Why am I not your type then? or What do you go for then? and this really is just single guys that we have had do this to us. As a woman if someone said a polite no to me I would be greatful to them for not stringing me along and move on. No way would I dream of humiliating myself and asking why!!!#
Wilma xx
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By *adgeeMan
over a year ago
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"I had to kill him ....
He was trying to suggest single guys should have rights ...
blah blah blah ... something about RESPECT ...
Have you heard such nonsense .... ?
They'll be burning their Y-Fronts in the street next ....
Kirsty
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I'm clean out of Y-Fronts to burn in the street - to the point i'm having to knock about commando |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Going in the huff and deleting your profile wont do your cause any good either.... no doubt this guy will be back with another profile tommorrow or next week.
The point is, some guys do get good meets and many dont.
Some stand out for the right reasons, some stand out for the wrong reasons...
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By *gowcplCouple
over a year ago
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so sick of these posts now, even had to endure one single guy on here who basically fucked us about on more than one occasion, wasting our time, then he posts in the forums about couples wasting his time and not giving him the time of day, but when u cant name and shame u just have to put up with it.
also, most couples would love to meet a single female but u dont really see many threads from couples bleating on about how they cant get a meet with a single female do u ? |
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