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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Everyone's saw it
Could you really have sex and not kiss?
Kissing is a huge part of the sexual experience for me
I just don't understand how some can say yeah have sex and oral sex with my partner but don't kiss them?
Nice slow or fast an furious when your caught in that moment
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personaly me (Jessica) don't like kissing another women's partner or letting another lady kiss my man!
It's purely about the satisfaction and sex
Kissing is something that's intimate between ppl and I prefer to keep my kissing lips only for my man  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personaly me (Jessica) don't like kissing another women's partner or letting another lady kiss my man!
It's purely about the satisfaction and sex
Kissing is something that's intimate between ppl and I prefer to keep my kissing lips only for my man "
and oral sex isn't? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had sex a few times and never kissed! That's why you know it was a "any holes a goal" moment!   Wasn't that good either! "
Sex is sex wether u kiss or not!! Ripping clothes off kissing all over the body touching getting hot and fucking hard I'm not thinking about kissing I'm thinking of pleasure and pleasuring  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont like sex without kissing it's all part of the build up never quite got couples that say no kissing each others partners but anything else is fine different strokes for different folks I suppose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've (Mr) often wondered about this as well.
We've had a couple of meets where there was no kissing but most of them have been and I have to say I MUCH prefer kissing. It really sets the mood and the level of intimacy.
We both enjoy seeing each other pleasured as part of the whole experience and that definitely applies to kissing!
I REALLY don't get it when its ok for the two ladies to kiss but not the ladies and guys unless its your own partner. Surely if it's an intimacy issue then it doesn't matter if it's a guy or a girl. If it's a security of relationship thing then perhaps you shouldn't be on Fab? Just a thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone's saw it
Could you really have sex and not kiss?
Kissing is a huge part of the sexual experience for me
I just don't understand how some can say yeah have sex and oral sex with my partner but don't kiss them?
Nice slow or fast an furious when your caught in that moment
Anyone else or can you take it or leave it?"
We have had 1 meet on our old profile where there was no kissing. We liked the cpl who we were playing with but the meet was very stale because of the non kissing part.
Wouldn't do it again but each to their own xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've (Mr) often wondered about this as well.
We've had a couple of meets where there was no kissing but most of them have been and I have to say I MUCH prefer kissing. It really sets the mood and the level of intimacy.
We both enjoy seeing each other pleasured as part of the whole experience and that definitely applies to kissing!
I REALLY don't get it when its ok for the two ladies to kiss but not the ladies and guys unless its your own partner. Surely if it's an intimacy issue then it doesn't matter if it's a guy or a girl. If it's a security of relationship thing then perhaps you shouldn't be on Fab? Just a thought. "
Great answer guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mayb we got to try it then 
Just not something we have done and never had problems with the couples we have been with but as I say each to there own. "
you are fine just the way you are , change for no one .It works for you guys so stick with your rules, we love the kissing but have found that it doesn't take away the fun when it isnt added, me im to active and busy to worry about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd be scared incase I forgot and went in for a snog 
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I think in the great of passion it would be very hard to resist, well esp if it's mrs janda lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personaly me (Jessica) don't like kissing another women's partner or letting another lady kiss my man!
It's purely about the satisfaction and sex
Kissing is something that's intimate between ppl and I prefer to keep my kissing lips only for my man "
do you kiss the other fem in a couple meet then ?? Just curious ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love to watch iain kissing another woman because I know how good a kisser he is and how much pleasure he's bringing the woman he's kissing . It's how our play mostly starts out whether it be kissing our own partner or the opposite ones . It's my biggest turn on and gives me that butterly feeling when you get someone who enjoys kissing as much as you do . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've had loads of meets with no kissing. Wouldn't say they've been different from those meets with kissing. I can take it or leave it, although sometimes I do miss being a teenager when all you would do was kiss for ages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think we've only had 1 meet with no male female kissing (fem fem was ok wth them though).
The thing is Bo is an AMAZING kisser so there's quite a high bar been set. Love the look on the other females face when she realises how good he is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wonder what's the differences of cpls that are ok girls kissing girls but not guys?
Is kissing not the same no matter what? "
When we first started out I wasn't totally sure about the male/female kissing. I was fine with fem/fem. We had been together so long & Bo was the only man I'd kissed in 17 years so I was nervous. We had chatted a lot about doing this & I always said I wasn't sure about my jealousy levels so we needed to take baby steps. Its been a few months now and we've both found our swinging feet  and are happy with most things. Maybe some people just want to take things slowly to begin with e.g no kissing just now but that might change. Dx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wonder what's the differences of cpls that are ok girls kissing girls but not guys?
Is kissing not the same no matter what? "
guess everyone has a wee thing they like to keep for themselves , I love anal and one of my biggest turn ons but never done on a meet even with the mr its kept for our own privacy , same some like bareback and wont meet if its not allowed , we all tick in different ways have different limits and thats what makes it all the more interesting |
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"Everyone's saw it
Could you really have sex and not kiss?
Kissing is a huge part of the sexual experience for me
I just don't understand how some can say yeah have sex and oral sex with my partner but don't kiss them?
Nice slow or fast an furious when your caught in that moment
Anyone else or can you take it or leave it?"
If its just sex nothin more, i mostly prefer not to kiss, kissing is cute and nice and prefer that with someone i like lol |
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"Personaly me (Jessica) don't like kissing another women's partner or letting another lady kiss my man!
It's purely about the satisfaction and sex
Kissing is something that's intimate between ppl and I prefer to keep my kissing lips only for my man "
I agree with this |
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"Everyone's saw it
Could you really have sex and not kiss?
Kissing is a huge part of the sexual experience for me
I just don't understand how some can say yeah have sex and oral sex with my partner but don't kiss them?
Nice slow or fast an furious when your caught in that moment
Anyone else or can you take it or leave it?
If its just sex nothin more, i mostly prefer not to kiss, kissing is cute and nice and prefer that with someone i like lol "
so if you don't kiss someone on meet its because you don't like them? |
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"Everyone's saw it
Could you really have sex and not kiss?
Kissing is a huge part of the sexual experience for me
I just don't understand how some can say yeah have sex and oral sex with my partner but don't kiss them?
Nice slow or fast an furious when your caught in that moment
Anyone else or can you take it or leave it?
If its just sex nothin more, i mostly prefer not to kiss, kissing is cute and nice and prefer that with someone i like lol so if you don't kiss someone on meet its because you don't like them? "
I dont like them beyond sex no |
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"I wouldn't have sex with someone I didn't like . But yeah good job we are all different "
I dont mean that i dislike them, but when its just sex and nothin more then a wouldnt say thats me liking them, but yes we are entitled to do as we all want  |
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"Everyone's saw it
Could you really have sex and not kiss?
Kissing is a huge part of the sexual experience for me
I just don't understand how some can say yeah have sex and oral sex with my partner but don't kiss them?
Nice slow or fast an furious when your caught in that moment
Anyone else or can you take it or leave it?
If its just sex nothin more, i mostly prefer not to kiss, kissing is cute and nice and prefer that with someone i like lol so if you don't kiss someone on meet its because you don't like them?
I dont like them beyond sex no "
Can you actually enjoy sex with someone you don't like? |
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"Everyone's saw it
Could you really have sex and not kiss?
Kissing is a huge part of the sexual experience for me
I just don't understand how some can say yeah have sex and oral sex with my partner but don't kiss them?
Nice slow or fast an furious when your caught in that moment
Anyone else or can you take it or leave it?
If its just sex nothin more, i mostly prefer not to kiss, kissing is cute and nice and prefer that with someone i like lol so if you don't kiss someone on meet its because you don't like them?
I dont like them beyond sex no
Can you actually enjoy sex with someone you don't like? "
Easily yes, if they are good at sex, i dont need socials etc before a meet if i want a meet usually its just for sex and thats my choice and how i do things |
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"Everyone's saw it
Could you really have sex and not kiss?
Kissing is a huge part of the sexual experience for me
I just don't understand how some can say yeah have sex and oral sex with my partner but don't kiss them?
Nice slow or fast an furious when your caught in that moment
Anyone else or can you take it or leave it?
If its just sex nothin more, i mostly prefer not to kiss, kissing is cute and nice and prefer that with someone i like lol so if you don't kiss someone on meet its because you don't like them?
I dont like them beyond sex no
Can you actually enjoy sex with someone you don't like? "
For instance a gangbang at cjs: the female may enjoy sex from many does that mean she likes them?or has time to like them?no, its just sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could do kissing without sex.....but never sex without kissing. Its where it all starts....and finishes. The kiss and cuddle afterwards is just as important to me as the kiss that starts the fun.
I suppose it all very much depends on what you're looking for...but i think if you're trying to hold something back...as some couples do....then maybe there are reservations there that sharing your partner isn't really what you want to do.
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"Everyone's saw it
Could you really have sex and not kiss?
Kissing is a huge part of the sexual experience for me
I just don't understand how some can say yeah have sex and oral sex with my partner but don't kiss them?
Nice slow or fast an furious when your caught in that moment
Anyone else or can you take it or leave it?
If its just sex nothin more, i mostly prefer not to kiss, kissing is cute and nice and prefer that with someone i like lol so if you don't kiss someone on meet its because you don't like them?
I dont like them beyond sex no
Can you actually enjoy sex with someone you don't like?
For instance a gangbang at cjs: the female may enjoy sex from many does that mean she likes them?or has time to like them?no, its just sex"
ah ok lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nobody ever had the flipside? Great fun....great sex but the kisses were forgetable."
If the kisses didn't do it...it wouldn't get any further with me I'm afraid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nobody ever had the flipside? Great fun....great sex but the kisses were forgetable.
If the kisses didn't do it...it wouldn't get any further with me I'm afraid. "
I'm afraid it's a deal breaker for me too, bad kissing sends me from hot & bothered to Luke warm in an instant & it's an automatic physical reaction I can't help it. Dx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone's saw it
Could you really have sex and not kiss?
Kissing is a huge part of the sexual experience for me
I just don't understand how some can say yeah have sex and oral sex with my partner but don't kiss them?
Nice slow or fast an furious when your caught in that moment
Anyone else or can you take it or leave it?
If its just sex nothin more, i mostly prefer not to kiss, kissing is cute and nice and prefer that with someone i like lol so if you don't kiss someone on meet its because you don't like them?
I dont like them beyond sex no
Can you actually enjoy sex with someone you don't like?
Easily yes, if they are good at sex, i dont need socials etc before a meet if i want a meet usually its just for sex and thats my choice and how i do things"
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Guess thats us off most peeps radar lol, no kissing here. But i would bet a hundred dollars every guy would have sex with the women they had the chance with even if no kissing involved, even the ones who have said on here they wouldnt lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've done it a couple of times without. It was a fairly dom situation and a couple of brutal shagging sessions. There was just no need or desire for that extra bit.
I do however love a good long kiss with strong cuddling as the norm. I give awesome hugs  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Guess thats us off most peeps radar lol, no kissing here. But i would bet a hundred dollars every guy would have sex with the women they had the chance with even if no kissing involved, even the ones who have said on here they wouldnt lol "
they prob would
It was more a seeing what's everyone's take on it?
Not slating anyone's choices x |
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"Guess thats us off most peeps radar lol, no kissing here. But i would bet a hundred dollars every guy would have sex with the women they had the chance with even if no kissing involved, even the ones who have said on here they wouldnt lol "
I will have one hundred if your finest US dollars . I couldn't and wouldn't have sex with the conditions of no kissing. Jinty summed up my sentiments exactly . You can kiss without having sex but can't have sex without kissing. But each to their own as long as it works for you. |
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"Guess thats us off most peeps radar lol, no kissing here. But i would bet a hundred dollars every guy would have sex with the women they had the chance with even if no kissing involved, even the ones who have said on here they wouldnt lol
I will have one hundred if your finest US dollars . I couldn't and wouldn't have sex with the conditions of no kissing. Jinty summed up my sentiments exactly . You can kiss without having sex but can't have sex without kissing. But each to their own as long as it works for you."
Lol. Mmm yeah ok lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nobody ever had the flipside? Great fun....great sex but the kisses were forgetable."
We met a couple for a social one night and all ended up having a snog. It was great fun as we'd all had a few drinks and it was a bit risky but J and I agreed afterwards the actual kissing was a bit forgettable. We really liked the couple though so if we'd all wanted to meet again then it wouldn't have been a deal breaker.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had loads of meets with no kissing. Wouldn't say they've been different from those meets with kissing. I can take it or leave it, although sometimes I do miss being a teenager when all you would do was kiss for ages. "
Kiss for hours and a good dry hump. I miss those days |
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"I've had loads of meets with no kissing. Wouldn't say they've been different from those meets with kissing. I can take it or leave it, although sometimes I do miss being a teenager when all you would do was kiss for ages.
Kiss for hours and a good dry hump. I miss those days "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can't believe I forgot the dry hump! "
Aww you can't forget that. I love a good dry hump. They should add it to the interests.
I might put a meet up for a night of dry humping and kissing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Let's face. It kissing. Is the starter for the main meal!!
And usually. When I'm in a restaurant. If the soup is shit usually. The pasta. Is too
I have been really. Lucky so far on fab
All the ladies. I have snogged. Have been Gorjus. Kisses lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guess thats us off most peeps radar lol, no kissing here. But i would bet a hundred dollars every guy would have sex with the women they had the chance with even if no kissing involved, even the ones who have said on here they wouldnt lol "
True, hell put the ball gag on me real tight to be sure,,lol |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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"Guess thats us off most peeps radar lol, no kissing here. But i would bet a hundred dollars every guy would have sex with the women they had the chance with even if no kissing involved, even the ones who have said on here they wouldnt lol "
Sorry to disappoint you, but a definite no here. Did it once with a 'no kissing' couple, and once was enough! |
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"Guess thats us off most peeps radar lol, no kissing here. But i would bet a hundred dollars every guy would have sex with the women they had the chance with even if no kissing involved, even the ones who have said on here they wouldnt lol
Sorry to disappoint you, but a definite no here. Did it once with a 'no kissing' couple, and once was enough! "
I like a wee bit denial/kinky restrictions.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hmm ( me mr ) we were talking bout this I find really difficult to kiss another women especially in the doggy position it hurts my neck ... Each to there own Olso never say never |
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"Hmm ( me mr ) we were talking bout this I find really difficult to kiss another women especially in the doggy position it hurts my neck "
Obviously. Is that the only position you do? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If people don't kiss then I wouldn't meet them, it's essential in my opinion (it is just an opinion) and I think it contributes massively to the sexual tension and enjoyment |
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What about kissing in a mmf surely everyones to busy to spend time kissing between the two ? And to the ones playing behind their partners backs thats commented ....would your husband /wife watch you and your fuck buddy kissing or is this a private thing for home ?
Some replys are shocking or is it just double standards for some ? |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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"What about kissing in a mmf surely everyones to busy to spend time kissing between the two ? And to the ones playing behind their partners backs thats commented ....would your husband /wife watch you and your fuck buddy kissing or is this a private thing for home ?
Some replys are shocking or is it just double standards for some ? "
Other than your 1st sentence, I don't really understand the rest, so I can't comment! |
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"What about kissing in a mmf surely everyones to busy to spend time kissing between the two ? And to the ones playing behind their partners backs thats commented ....would your husband /wife watch you and your fuck buddy kissing or is this a private thing for home ?
Some replys are shocking or is it just double standards for some ? "
nope in a mmf situation I get even more kisses |
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"What about kissing in a mmf surely everyones to busy to spend time kissing between the two ? And to the ones playing behind their partners backs thats commented ....would your husband /wife watch you and your fuck buddy kissing or is this a private thing for home ?
Some replys are shocking or is it just double standards for some ? "
double the kisses for me in a MMF 3sm |
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"Hmm ( me mr ) we were talking bout this I find really difficult to kiss another women especially in the doggy position it hurts my neck
Obviously. Is that the only position you do? "
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One of our fav positions both,when playing and just us.... What people class as boring!!! The missionary poss we find the most sensual and personal ... + easiest to kiss, body's at there closest and Lin can use her hands where she wants
We tend to stick more to horny, difficult and positions we haven't tried ... Fun fun fun .... Kissing ?? No chance, the thought doesn't appeal at all and we personally feel if it's a must for others and wouldn't meet couple (single guy pmsl) them not for us x |
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"Hmm ( me mr ) we were talking bout this I find really difficult to kiss another women especially in the doggy position it hurts my neck
Obviously. Is that the only position you do? lol
One of our fav positions both,when playing and just us.... What people class as boring!!! The missionary poss we find the most sensual and personal ... + easiest to kiss, body's at there closest and Lin can use her hands where she wants
We tend to stick more to horny, difficult and positions we haven't tried ... Fun fun fun .... Kissing ?? No chance, the thought doesn't appeal at all and we personally feel if it's a must for others and wouldn't meet couple (single guy pmsl) them not for us x"
i notice you dont say no kissing on your profile
Do you tell whoever you are meeting before or when you get down to the nakedness?
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"Hmm ( me mr ) we were talking bout this I find really difficult to kiss another women especially in the doggy position it hurts my neck
Obviously. Is that the only position you do? lol
One of our fav positions both,when playing and just us.... What people class as boring!!! The missionary poss we find the most sensual and personal ... + easiest to kiss, body's at there closest and Lin can use her hands where she wants
We tend to stick more to horny, difficult and positions we haven't tried ... Fun fun fun .... Kissing ?? No chance, the thought doesn't appeal at all and we personally feel if it's a must for others and wouldn't meet couple (single guy pmsl) them not for us xi notice you dont say no kissing on your profile
Do you tell whoever you are meeting before or when you get down to the nakedness?
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We have indeed brought this up and never had a problem or the the other folk but surprisingly most don't kiss anyway so hasn't been a problem ... Single men we have met they to not really botherd if we mention ( pmsl again ) Olso we have not brought it up on a couple of occasions last week bieng one, again no one tried or asked if ok ,,
Profile ? Not an issue for us or our meets... Xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't have sex with someone I didn't like . But yeah good job we are all different "
Me too - that would just be weird - why would i want to fuck or be fucked by someone i didnt like? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know its weird but I find it too intimate for a FB and other times don't like the other persons technique"
exactly !! Finding that someone who kisses you and everything just doesn't matter for that time and place and can't help thinking and wanting more and confuses ... Some never get that experience and maybe never will !!! Making love the kissing way
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"I know its weird but I find it too intimate for a FB and other times don't like the other persons technique
exactly !! Finding that someone who kisses you and everything just doesn't matter for that time and place and can't help thinking and wanting more and confuses ... Some never get that experience and maybe never will !!! Making love the kissing way
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Maybe that's why most like kissing because we do get that feeling. |
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"I know its weird but I find it too intimate for a FB and other times don't like the other persons technique
exactly !! Finding that someone who kisses you and everything just doesn't matter for that time and place and can't help thinking and wanting more and confuses ... Some never get that experience and maybe never will !!! Making love the kissing way
Maybe that's why most like kissing because we do get that feeling. "
You only need to ask btw! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like hot kissing. But some like to keep it for there other half sec is still fun either way.
I wouldn't really hug on a sex meet that's much the same. |
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"Hmm ( me mr ) we were talking bout this I find really difficult to kiss another women especially in the doggy position it hurts my neck
Obviously. Is that the only position you do? lol
One of our fav positions both,when playing and just us.... What people class as boring!!! The missionary poss we find the most sensual and personal ... + easiest to kiss, body's at there closest and Lin can use her hands where she wants
We tend to stick more to horny, difficult and positions we haven't tried ... Fun fun fun .... Kissing ?? No chance, the thought doesn't appeal at all and we personally feel if it's a must for others and wouldn't meet couple (single guy pmsl) them not for us xi notice you dont say no kissing on your profile
Do you tell whoever you are meeting before or when you get down to the nakedness?
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Not to get too involved, but your profile doesnt stipulate anal , dp , fisting , so would everyone presume thats all fair game, no , your profile is there to view , then follow on chat i presume would clarify the dos and dont, like not kissing, not anal , not fisting lol, or does that rule only count to kissing  |
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"What about kissing in a mmf surely everyones to busy to spend time kissing between the two ? And to the ones playing behind their partners backs thats commented ....would your husband /wife watch you and your fuck buddy kissing or is this a private thing for home ?
Some replys are shocking or is it just double standards for some ? "
My point exactly!!
Didn't realise that you had to put all ur special requirements on ur profile!!
Iv always been wae to busy to wori about who's kissing who any roads . It is true this when u look threw this post it's a hit or a miss I never Thot it was much of an issue thank god the ppl we have met have never had a problem with our wishes because iv had fun at all our meets hehe |
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over a year ago
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It seems weird to me to not kiss, obviously it's different cause I'm single but I can't imagine not kissing an fb or one off meet. It gets things going for me, and of they're great at it even better, turns me on so much! |
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over a year ago
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"Hmm ( me mr ) we were talking bout this I find really difficult to kiss another women especially in the doggy position it hurts my neck
Obviously. Is that the only position you do? lol
One of our fav positions both,when playing and just us.... What people class as boring!!! The missionary poss we find the most sensual and personal ... + easiest to kiss, body's at there closest and Lin can use her hands where she wants
We tend to stick more to horny, difficult and positions we haven't tried ... Fun fun fun .... Kissing ?? No chance, the thought doesn't appeal at all and we personally feel if it's a must for others and wouldn't meet couple (single guy pmsl) them not for us xi notice you dont say no kissing on your profile
Do you tell whoever you are meeting before or when you get down to the nakedness?
Not to get too involved, but your profile doesnt stipulate anal , dp , fisting , so would everyone presume thats all fair game, no , your profile is there to view , then follow on chat i presume would clarify the dos and dont, like not kissing, not anal , not fisting lol, or does that rule only count to kissing "
can only comment on us and yes it does
We just take for granted kissing is the norm
Anal fisting and such like are not as in the norm as kissing
But from now on I will make a point if asking 1st |
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over a year ago
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"Hmm ( me mr ) we were talking bout this I find really difficult to kiss another women especially in the doggy position it hurts my neck
Obviously. Is that the only position you do? lol
One of our fav positions both,when playing and just us.... What people class as boring!!! The missionary poss we find the most sensual and personal ... + easiest to kiss, body's at there closest and Lin can use her hands where she wants
We tend to stick more to horny, difficult and positions we haven't tried ... Fun fun fun .... Kissing ?? No chance, the thought doesn't appeal at all and we personally feel if it's a must for others and wouldn't meet couple (single guy pmsl) them not for us xi notice you dont say no kissing on your profile
Do you tell whoever you are meeting before or when you get down to the nakedness?
Not to get too involved, but your profile doesnt stipulate anal , dp , fisting , so would everyone presume thats all fair game, no , your profile is there to view , then follow on chat i presume would clarify the dos and dont, like not kissing, not anal , not fisting lol, or does that rule only count to kissing "
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over a year ago
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"We wouldn't meet at all, with anyone if they didn't kiss, it's all part of the fun! "
Yup us too wouldn't meet couples that wanted to kiss ,it's not part of our fun!! x |
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"We wouldn't meet at all, with anyone if they didn't kiss, it's all part of the fun! "
Excuse my ignorance on this topic, but who is to kiss who if peeps meeting, guy girl, girl girl , guy guy. Or a free for all |
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"I kissed a girl and I liked it
Lol
For us everyone kisses bar the guys
Guys we meet are straight
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Ahhh so restrictions lol, would that be on your profile lol. Or wait until nakedness has occured lol |
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over a year ago
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Each to their own I say , I've noticed its mostly the single guy/fem that cant understand the no kissing rule would that change if you were in a full relationship ?, couples rules are there for their security who are we to judge. As long as everybody understands each other I don't see any problems with it. |
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over a year ago
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"Each to their own I say , I've noticed its mostly the single guy/fem that cant understand the no kissing rule would that change if you were in a full relationship ?, couples rules are there for their security who are we to judge. As long as everybody understands each other I don't see any problems with it. "
Well surly if you have a single person in a couple you have different rules? |
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over a year ago
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Kissing should always be part of any sex play in our view.
These people who agree to sex but no kissing with their partners by other couples must be insecure or something.
The fact they have agreed to let other people share their woman or man and set the rule no kissing is totally laughable.
But let's face it everyone has a choice and if that's their little rule ( no kissing) then good for them .
At least they are still swinging lol....
Who cares xxxx |
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over a year ago
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Cant get my head round this, for the simple reason. You have to respect peoples wishes.
"I must be allowed to kiss"? Why?
Your tellin me, single guy has landed himself a meet with a couple he has long hoped to meet, she's hot, hell you know she's hot !! But no-kissing cancels all that?
What if for example it was, "its all cool, but just dont bite her nipples", Mr Nipple Biter suddenly aint interested ??
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over a year ago
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Well if it bothers you , best ask if kissing is okay before you meet as this way you can decide if your happy to go along with this as we would not like to go on a meet and the couple tell us no kissing as this would put us off and ruin the moment .....
It's silly stuff but who knows why some folk have these stupid rules . |
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over a year ago
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"Kissing should always be part of any sex play in our view.
These people who agree to sex but no kissing with their partners by other couples must be insecure or something.
The fact they have agreed to let other people share their woman or man and set the rule no kissing is totally laughable.
But let's face it everyone has a choice and if that's their little rule ( no kissing) then good for them .
Who cares xxxx "
Agreed to sex but no kissing with the other couples except girl on girl!! They must be insacure or something pmsl !!!
We haven't stated fisting , dp on her then again we haven't stated no to these things either but don't expect them to walk out cos we won't !!! C |
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over a year ago
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"Well if it bothers you , best ask if kissing is okay before you meet as this way you can decide if your happy to go along with this as we would not like to go on a meet and the couple tell us no kissing as this would put us off and ruin the moment .....
It's silly stuff but who knows why some folk have these stupid rules . "
Does'nt bother me, was what i was trying to say. |
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over a year ago
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"Well if it bothers you , best ask if kissing is okay before you meet as this way you can decide if your happy to go along with this as we would not like to go on a meet and the couple tell us no kissing as this would put us off and ruin the moment .....
It's silly stuff but who knows why some folk have these stupid rules . Does'nt bother me, was what i was trying to say."
Reads wrong, lol, i mean limits,that need to be respected dont bother me, i dont mean, not bothered n suit myself, recipe for disaster that is. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Boak!
But I wouldn't be having sex with him
It's the sex without kissing I can't visualise
How do you start ?
Hi pleased to meet you how's trix ?
Aye good thanks
Cool
Right will we just strip and get down to oral?
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over a year ago
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"Boak!
But I wouldn't be having sex with him
It's the sex without kissing I can't visualise
How do you start ?
Hi pleased to meet you how's trix ?
Aye good thanks
Cool
Right will we just strip and get down to oral?
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You said that last line quite bossy dominant,,kinda like that, lol |
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over a year ago
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"Boak!
But I wouldn't be having sex with him
It's the sex without kissing I can't visualise
How do you start ?
Hi pleased to meet you how's trix ?
Aye good thanks
Cool
Right will we just strip and get down to oral?
You said that last line quite bossy dominant,,kinda like that, lol "
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over a year ago
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I absolutely couldn't skip the kissing. I'd give up sex before I gave up kissing.
That said if I was in a couple I think I'd be the one who said noone kisses my partner but me. It's an intimate thing. Something more emotional and deep in a kiss. However because I have that feeling being part of a swinging relationship would probably not be right for me |
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"Kissing should always be part of any sex play in our view.
These people who agree to sex but no kissing with their partners by other couples must be insecure or something.
The fact they have agreed to let other people share their woman or man and set the rule no kissing is totally laughable.
But let's face it everyone has a choice and if that's their little rule ( no kissing) then good for them .
At least they are still swinging lol....
Who cares xxxx "
Unsure how you can figure that people are insecure or its a laughable statement , its their choice, for their own reasons they dont wish this to be part of any meet, same as some people dont do anal , blowjobs or watersports, its their personal choice. What becomes laughable is when other people cant respect or disrespect others choices on the swinging scene. What you accept , others dont , and vice versa. |
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over a year ago
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I can understand both sides of this and respect both the same.
I, personally, wouldn't meet if there were to be no kissing involved. It's important to me. It wouldn't make me think any less of the person or couple though.
Lx |
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over a year ago
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"I can understand both sides of this and respect both the same.
I, personally, wouldn't meet if there were to be no kissing involved. It's important to me. It wouldn't make me think any less of the person or couple though.
Lx"
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over a year ago
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I can't quite get my head around the fact people are stating that ones wishes somehow makes them insecure or to have trust issues!
One point was made that a female enjoys anal with her partner but no one else (that's something they keep for each other)
If I wish not to kiss another lady's man or my man to kiss another lady surely I should b aloud my wish without being (insecure) everyone has there own thing they like and in a swinging site it would b strange if we all had the same likes! Each to there own |
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over a year ago
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I've had meets where there was 'no kissing', but that was just the lips, everywhere else was permitted, was a little strange, but you get into the moment if that's the only no-go as everything else makes up for it.
Personally, I love a good kiss, then a full on snog and back and forward between the two.
I think some folks see kissing as something that's more a relationship-style intimacy, even though you're having sex with their partner.
Different strokes for different folks, as long as you know about it beforehand and agree to it, then cool.. but it's a bit of a passion killer when you go for a nice, sensual kiss and get told no. |
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over a year ago
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"I can't quite get my head around the fact people are stating that ones wishes somehow makes them insecure or to have trust issues!
One point was made that a female enjoys anal with her partner but no one else (that's something they keep for each other)
If I wish not to kiss another lady's man or my man to kiss another lady surely I should b aloud my wish without being (insecure) everyone has there own thing they like and in a swinging site it would b strange if we all had the same likes! Each to there own "
exactly as I have said before it wasn't a having a go thread it was a what does folk think thread
You've hit the nail on the head
If we were all the same it would be boring
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"well everybody to there own we say !!! But we walked out a meet as rules of not kissing isn't for us. Like a good kissing lol Man can kiss pussy lips but not face lips bizarre "
Much same as woman can suck cock but not kiss lol , or other mr can suck cock and not kiss, bizzare lol |
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"I can't quite get my head around the fact people are stating that ones wishes somehow makes them insecure or to have trust issues!
One point was made that a female enjoys anal with her partner but no one else (that's something they keep for each other)
If I wish not to kiss another lady's man or my man to kiss another lady surely I should b aloud my wish without being (insecure) everyone has there own thing they like and in a swinging site it would b strange if we all had the same likes! Each to there own exactly as I have said before it wasn't a having a go thread it was a what does folk think thread
You've hit the nail on the head
If we were all the same it would be boring
X"
Defo and thanks
I'm not saying u inperticular but u only want people's thots some people can't do this with criticism |
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over a year ago
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When we first started swinging I thought kissing was to personal. But I am afraid that went straight out the window I love kissing and it gets me wet instantly so I totally cant do it. Again also loves kissing and we have meet a couple where the girl didnt want to be kissed ( her partner we were to in the moment to care oops) but did say he found it really hard not to do and prefers kissing. |
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over a year ago
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"Everyone's saw it
Could you really have sex and not kiss?
Kissing is a huge part of the sexual experience for me
I just don't understand how some can say yeah have sex and oral sex with my partner but don't kiss them?
Nice slow or fast an furious when your caught in that moment
Anyone else or can you take it or leave it?
If its just sex nothin more, i mostly prefer not to kiss, kissing is cute and nice and prefer that with someone i like lol so if you don't kiss someone on meet its because you don't like them?
I dont like them beyond sex no
Can you actually enjoy sex with someone you don't like?
For instance a gangbang at cjs: the female may enjoy sex from many does that mean she likes them?or has time to like them?no, its just sex"
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over a year ago
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We don't get it...
You allow a man to go to the holiest of holies but no snogging, because it's intimate. Surely fucking someone is a bit more intimate than a snog.
We keep our love making separate to our sex life and there are things we don't do on meets that we only do in private, but we love to kiss and couldn't meet without that.
Just the way we play. |
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"We don't get it...
You allow a man to go to the holiest of holies but no snogging, because it's intimate. Surely fucking someone is a bit more intimate than a snog.
We keep our love making separate to our sex life and there are things we don't do on meets that we only do in private, but we love to kiss and couldn't meet without that.
Just the way we play."
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"We don't get it...
You allow a man to go to the holiest of holies but no snogging, because it's intimate. Surely fucking someone is a bit more intimate than a snog.
We keep our love making separate to our sex life and there are things we don't do on meets that we only do in private, but we love to kiss and couldn't meet without that.
Just the way we play."
Kissing is the most intimate thing you can do. People mainly fall in love through kissing, looking into each others longingly whilst kissing, kissing the face, the neck,creating a deep emotional bond. You don't fall in love with someone because you sucked them off or they ate you out. Kissing involves a lot of tongue action, conveying depth of emotion. Tongue action is secretive, respective partners wouldn't be able to see what the couple kissing are 'saying' to each other through the kissing. Whereas everything else is visible to all - kissing not so. We only kiss each other on meets. We meet other couples for same room sex and sex alone. Not romance. Each to their own though. Just how we see it.There's no right or wrong. It's all about doing what you're comfortable with |
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"We don't get it...
You allow a man to go to the holiest of holies but no snogging, because it's intimate. Surely fucking someone is a bit more intimate than a snog.
We keep our love making separate to our sex life and there are things we don't do on meets that we only do in private, but we love to kiss and couldn't meet without that.
Just the way we play. Kissing is the most intimate thing you can do. People mainly fall in love through kissing, looking into each others longingly whilst kissing, kissing the face, the neck,creating a deep emotional bond. You don't fall in love with someone because you sucked them off or they ate you out. Kissing involves a lot of tongue action, conveying depth of emotion. Tongue action is secretive, respective partners wouldn't be able to see what the couple kissing are 'saying' to each other through the kissing. Whereas everything else is visible to all - kissing not so. We only kiss each other on meets. We meet other couples for same room sex and sex alone. Not romance. Each to their own though. Just how we see it.There's no right or wrong. It's all about doing what you're comfortable with "
exactly !
It's all about what's comfortable with the individuals
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"I don't usually kiss people unless I'm in a relationship with them. A lot of people are bad kissers and it's a big turnoff. It's also more of a personal thing I think."
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I think it's different if you're part of a couple and can have kissing as something intimate between the two of you and the fun with other is seperate. For me as a single girl I love a good snog!! |
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"I think it's different if you're part of a couple and can have kissing as something intimate between the two of you and the fun with other is seperate. For me as a single girl I love a good snog!!"
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