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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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OK we've all seen the profiles which lust pet hates but many of us don't like to be so negative on our profile. So here's your chance to let rip without it putting people off when they find your profile.
For me, mismatched underwear, over use of swears, greasy hair, bad quality photos, profiles with scant information. |
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Messy photos.
Dirty houses.
Rants in capital letters
Female profiles with lists of do's and dont (if I was a guy not a chance in he'll I'd contact them).
Capital letters of not looking for guys on some profiles.
And lastly some status updates would have me running for the hills lol.  |
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"People who have been on fab for years and not verified...."
what makes me laugh more are the ones who made the effort to write a decent profile and add some tasteful photos yet on over a year with still no verifications.. Really what's the point?
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The new profile that appeared last night.
Apparently they will not meet anyone unless they've booked a hotel room in Glasgow. Thing is, if you book the room, you don't get to stay as this couple want to use it for you to turn up, have your fun and leave.
Aye, ok then |
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Photos that look like they have been taken from a medical book, A list of what is required the length of your arm.
No verifications after a year or more puts me off as I wonder if they ever meet anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When they say there single when there not !! Pics of where there cock has been in last few meets .... And straight guys who insist there straight but have bi verifications !!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely the fill in later ones annoy me . Or ones that it's a couples profile and it's all females pics on them . Sometimes wonder if there even is a guy on the profile . I'm one of those ones that put people off with my long profile of war and peace but it's all me and let's people know who I am . Plus it actually deters a me folk which isn't a bad thing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Demanding a face pic. You could be anyone! I might see my face on a fake profile next week! Any sort of entitlement pisses me right off too. This site is an interesting study in gender politics. Some women treat men like men treat women irl. Some men recognise this and act like a kid with his toys taken away. The patriarchy doesn't like it up em! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Photos that use props in comparison or with fruit and veg shoved up their bits.
Dirty fingernails and hairy assholes give me the heave along with cum splatted hairy bits.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mines are ....
Fab my pics
Messy backgrounds
Any with a toilet in them ... Boak!
Any with pussy shots that close you can see their tonsils up there
Fruit .. Veg... Bottles up their bits
Hell I could go on all day lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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40 pics of the cock but no face pics.
Toilets in pics (gross).
40 pics of cocks with different women attatched (we get it, you've had sex before).
Guys who list themselves as Athletic with no understanding of their own body type.
Bad spelling and grammar.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mines are ....
Fab my pics
Messy backgrounds
Any with a toilet in them ... Boak!
Any with pussy shots that close you can see their tonsils up there
Fruit .. Veg... Bottles up their bits
Hell I could go on all day lol "
forgot the
Put ...... In your headline message so we know you have read our profile
Ehe... Naw!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Women who have had more verifications than hot dinners.
There is one lady on here with almost 100 verifications but most of them are for social meets only."
...which I don't mind but if they were for play then oh dear. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must be getting old but txt spk drives me crazy,
Toilet pics 'boak'
Ranting in Capitol letters
Pictures of genitalia that is so close you can see their breakfast.
Pictures where it takes twenty minutes which part of someone's anatomy is on show!
Gosh I didn't realise I was so grumpy! |
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"Women who have had more verifications than hot dinners.
There is one lady on here with almost 100 verifications but most of them are for social meets only.
...which I don't mind but if they were for play then oh dear."
Ah but whose to say what veris they have hidden.... I have loads and mostly social ones but someone could easily have 200 play veris but only show 5......
If folk want to judge then let them.... They obviously are not compatable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Single profiles who upload pics where you see more of another person than you do the profile owner. This is a particular peeve of mine having been a victim of "permission not sought"!!!
Fill in later...if you've been on for 6 months you've surely had 10 minutes to say something.....
Sending friends requests when you've not even said hello. Just don't! Its rude and presumptuous.
People who say they're attractive and intelligent. They rarely are....
People who have one line of profile text and six lines warning Sydney University that they are highly letigus and a force to be reckoned with...
Stopping now...could go on for days probably...and this is me in a GREAT mood too..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Messy backgrounds in pics
Too many cock pics
Couples profiles with only fem pics
Fill in later or one liners on their profile
Random friend requests
Winks, friend requests and messages from people in California or Michigan!
Fancy a fuck messages
Straight guys who can't read!
I think that's all for now
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women who have had more verifications than hot dinners.
There is one lady on here with almost 100 verifications but most of them are for social meets only.
...which I don't mind but if they were for play then oh dear."
But if they're not shown...or the summary ...who knows?.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anytime we change our status, even when it's the male half that writes it, must single guys think it's the fem
Right now I put, bored bored bored , did I say bored......basically bored, nothing to do for next few hrs, mrs is sleeping
Already got guys wanting to un-bore my mrs, when it's the make half that's on.
We are a couple, alright, the mrs is far more sexier than me but we are 2 people
Now breathe lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bitten nails, dirty nails , or scabby chipped mail polish.
Messy rooms
V hairy bits
Men who are pushy and won't take no for an answer.
Biscuits/cakes covering nipples pics (sorry joob!)
Toilet pics
Fusty looking bits n pieces.
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The ones that want face pic with MSG when they done have any pics on profile some folk want to chat a bit first to see if they will get on before sending a face pic incase it's somebody they know and don't want them knowing they're on here or getting caught out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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'Single' female profiles that clearly state they wont meet without their boyfriend/fuck buddy/whoever present.
How hard is it to make a couples profile?
Bams!
Lx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profiles that don't have a body shot. Weeds out the liars.
If you say/think large then back it up, if you're built like a breadstick don't put athletic. Some of us men have certain simple expectations and I dont expect to pound you to dust if you're not built like a pepperami!
An honest guy or friend will let you know if you're missleading/degrading yourself. An honest woman will take that as a compliment |
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"Profiles that don't have a body shot. Weeds out the liars.
If you say/think large then back it up, if you're built like a breadstick don't put athletic. Some of us men have certain simple expectations and I dont expect to pound you to dust if you're not built like a pepperami!
An honest guy or friend will let you know if you're missleading/degrading yourself. An honest woman will take that as a compliment"
honestly my Ass really is huge I'm no lying lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Another one from grumpy granny....folk who have a camera and think that qualifies them as photographers and "offer" you a "photoshoot" you'd be mad to turn down. But...the pics on their profiles are rubbish.
Disclaimer: There are a couple of good genuine photographers around however. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Must be attractive.
Who says what is attractive??
My favourite, must include face pic with first message if you want a response.
Erm no! Face pics once we've chatted & both agree we want to in order to see if we all want to take it any further. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey Jinty its hard doing selfies with an SLR lol I will always back up my statements with other pictures if you fancy a shoot ......... anyone wanting some done,
One of Jintys good ones I hope lol |
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"Another one from grumpy granny....folk who have a camera and think that qualifies them as photographers and "offer" you a "photoshoot" you'd be mad to turn down. But...the pics on their profiles are rubbish.
Disclaimer: There are a couple of good genuine photographers around however. "
Ooh that reminds me...... All the "professional " masseurs ..... Really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Messy backgrounds in pics.
Scabby underwear.
People that are smokers but have 'non smoker' on profiles (they stink of smoke when you meet them).
Precious people.
People that use others then blank them or worse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another one from grumpy granny....folk who have a camera and think that qualifies them as photographers and "offer" you a "photoshoot" you'd be mad to turn down. But...the pics on their profiles are rubbish.
Disclaimer: There are a couple of good genuine photographers around however.
Ooh that reminds me...... All the "professional " masseurs ..... Really "
I just know theres a certain toe you massage thats conected to yer erogenous zone, yer neck goes all warm and you go light headed and,,,HORNY,,(wish i could remember which one it is though)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looked at us and Checked there profile .... Not meeting just now will let you know when we are free!! checked profile and High opinion of yourself there !!! And retreat lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Women who have had more verifications than hot dinners.
There is one lady on here with almost 100 verifications but most of them are for social meets only.
...which I don't mind but if they were for play then oh dear.
But if they're not shown...or the summary ...who knows?.... "
I'm beginning to pay more attention to the veris following Just Cuties and McGintys musings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Must be attractive.
Who says what is attractive??
My favourite, must include face pic with first message if you want a response.
Erm no! Face pics once we've chatted & both agree we want to in order to see if we all want to take it any further."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys who pretend to be straight is my absolute hate
Pics with hairy cocks
Messy back ground
Profiles that they make out they gods gift
Could go on all night  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Recently it really bothers me when single guys send me pictures of action shots. When realistically all you can really see is the female.
It also really bothers me when it's bareback.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Messy photos.
Dirty houses.
Rants in capital letters
Female profiles with lists of do's and dont (if I was a guy not a chance in he'll I'd contact them).
Capital letters of not looking for guys on some profiles.
And lastly some status updates would have me running for the hills lol.
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Oops we have a few pics that are messy in the background as we were moving house at the time lol. Maybe time to take some new ones x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"An couples profiles without verifications after being on the site for months and always have the male half online chatting. Wonder why that is? Lol
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 she's blind and can't type |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Too many cock pics on male profiles.
Males who message assuming it's the female messaging.
Males who will chat away until they realise it's not the female messaging.
When you ask for a face pic and get a cock pic, or a pic with an obscured face in return.
Couple profiles where it's "only the male meeting right now"
Random friend requests
People who message but clearly haven't bothered to read our profile
Guys who think being well hung is an instant deal clincher.
Profiles with a list of musts as long as your arm.
Heres a particularly personal one...
People who have a profile stating that they won't meet big/fat/obese (we really have seen all those words used) yet make repeated visits to our profile.
That'll do for now! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many cock pics on male profiles.
Males who message assuming it's the female messaging.
Males who will chat away until they realise it's not the female messaging.
When you ask for a face pic and get a cock pic, or a pic with an obscured face in return.
Couple profiles where it's "only the male meeting right now"
Random friend requests
People who message but clearly haven't bothered to read our profile
Guys who think being well hung is an instant deal clincher.
Profiles with a list of musts as long as your arm.
Heres a particularly personal one...
People who have a profile stating that they won't meet big/fat/obese (we really have seen all those words used) yet make repeated visits to our profile.
That'll do for now! "
Lol a list of musts as long as your post |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many cock pics on male profiles.
Males who message assuming it's the female messaging.
Males who will chat away until they realise it's not the female messaging.
When you ask for a face pic and get a cock pic, or a pic with an obscured face in return.
Couple profiles where it's "only the male meeting right now"
Random friend requests
People who message but clearly haven't bothered to read our profile
Guys who think being well hung is an instant deal clincher.
Profiles with a list of musts as long as your arm.
Heres a particularly personal one...
People who have a profile stating that they won't meet big/fat/obese (we really have seen all those words used) yet make repeated visits to our profile.
That'll do for now! "
I liked your post, made me smile, actually almost spilled my coffee when read the last bit (wont meet big/fat....) do people actually write that!!!!
I like a good description on a profile, if someone wont make the effort with a profile kind of says what else do they not make the effort with.
an untidy background says a lot too, the M or f can be the best looking ever but if untidy and a house that looks like a tip then personnally not for me.
pics really mean nothing to me as anyone can copy a pic from facebook or netflixs etc, I simply cam, that way you see me and i see you, its fairly simple
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you see a female profile saying no single males yet has verifications from single males!! WTF. Or no mention of males on their profile but males can't mail them. "
have you been looking at my profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Face pic demands on first mail. More so if they don't have one up.
Profiles that pop up for a couple of days then dissappear. More so hen the arrange a meet with you first.
Fill in later.... really
No shows
People who don't like me or give me a chance lol I'm not that bad honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Recently it really bothers me when single guys send me pictures of action shots. When realistically all you can really see is the female.
It also really bothers me when it's bareback.
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Yup that too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been on the site over a year and not verified(either by someone else or photo verified).
wont meet unless verified member(see above).
No pics yet ask for face pics.
those who say only safe sex yet you look at their pics and they are getting dp and guess what?right not a condom in sight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The barely literate. That grinds my gears. You might have the body of a Greek god/goddess, but if you don't know the difference between there, their and they're, sorry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women who have had more verifications than hot dinners."
Yeah some have hundreds,you would have to be so desperate to go there. I suppose a shag is a shag at the end of the day. lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its quite simple for me really 2 things
It says pic with message gets a reply and you dont ffs lol
And secondly you read the whole profile of do"s and donts type they are after age etc etc and when finish reading it you wonder
Thers no such person exists that matches all if it pmsl ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its quite simple for me really 2 things
It says pic with message gets a reply and you dont ffs lol
And secondly you read the whole profile of do"s and donts type they are after age etc etc and when finish reading it you wonder
Thers no such person exists that matches all if it pmsl ??"
pot,kettle,black springs to mind. |
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"Women who have had more verifications than hot dinners.
Yeah some have hundreds,you would have to be so desperate to go there. I suppose a shag is a shag at the end of the day. lol"
desperate to go where?
It's a swinging site what is considered to many verifications? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its quite simple for me really 2 things
It says pic with message gets a reply and you dont ffs lol
And secondly you read the whole profile of do"s and donts type they are after age etc etc and when finish reading it you wonder
Thers no such person exists that matches all if it pmsl ??
pot,kettle,black springs to mind."
Ha ha and when you dyu meet them they tell jackanory stories lol
Black kettle returns ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women who have had more verifications than hot dinners.
Yeah some have hundreds,you would have to be so desperate to go there. I suppose a shag is a shag at the end of the day. loldesperate to go where?
It's a swinging site what is considered to many verifications? "
Apparently,I thought forums were supposed to be about peoples opinions,looks not my post,just my opinion on what has been said by some. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are many pictures I've seen that I wish I hadn't.
The verification trail screams a lack of standards and or desperation.
Bad English or text speak.
Countless bit pictures. Seriously how many do you need?
Anyone that's ever compared any womans oral skills to the sucking action of a Dyson.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are many pictures I've seen that I wish I hadn't.
The verification trail screams a lack of standards and or desperation.
Bad English or text speak.
Countless bit pictures. Seriously how many do you need?
Anyone that's ever compared any womans oral skills to the sucking action of a Dyson.
Absolutely agree
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think we all don't like the same things so why do people do it? Mine are..
Couple profiles that only have pics of woman
Dirty bedrooms etc in pics
To many verifications. men and woman
Men who have been with the dirty ones and lie. Say they only done oral.. Boke!!!
A list of do's and don'ts on the profiles... Should just send them a cv!
Attached people who are clearly lying haha!
Rude men who think it's okay to send you a message "want a fuck" hmm no, I'm good lol
Men who message you 1000000000 times and then call you rude cause you aren't interested! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like many, profiles that have a list of do's and don'ts is my pet hate without indicating what they have to offer (I read a female profile the other day that actually had a 'proforma' for the 'applicant' to complete). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Like many, profiles that have a list of do's and don'ts is my pet hate without indicating what they have to offer (I read a female profile the other day that actually had a 'proforma' for the 'applicant' to complete). "
That's taking it way to far??? wheres the fun??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Like many, profiles that have a list of do's and don'ts is my pet hate without indicating what they have to offer (I read a female profile the other day that actually had a 'proforma' for the 'applicant' to complete). "
You have to tell me who it was! That sounds quite a laugh! (PM me with the name!) |
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By *ee-YinWoman
over a year ago
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"Profiles with too many cock pics or with close up pussy shots put me off. They make me cringe
Lx"
Totally agree
What's the actual point of having loads of cock/pussy pics???
A profile that reads "looking for lots of fun"
No face pic in friends or private
Oh and the best one "i can't upload pics but give me your number and I'll send you one" |
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By *nonandyMan
over a year ago
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people who have distance filters for places I am happy to commute to and age filters when your only a couple of years out like 23 and they want 25 its not that far off it doesn't have to be set in stone
and when you meet someone at a party and get on but when you try to message them on here you get the filter we got on great grrrr
and no reply I can understand that though with the amount some women get but it would be nice to get feed back what put you off me was my profile text badly written was my email to generic or am I just not your type ect
and when your message gets deleted without even reading it why I attached a face pic I read your profile I even quoted from your profile in the message to show I read it |
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